Welcome to DU! The truly grassroots left-of-center political community where regular people, not algorithms, drive the discussions and set the standards. Join the community: Create a free account Support DU (and get rid of ads!): Become a Star Member Latest Breaking News General Discussion The DU Lounge All Forums Issue Forums Culture Forums Alliance Forums Region Forums Support Forums Help & Search

Siwsan

(26,246 posts)
Mon Jul 6, 2020, 06:38 AM Jul 2020

I turned on the news, this morning, and feel so discouraged that I'm going back to bed.

Maybe for the day. Honestly - is there ANY reason to bother getting up? I'm certainly not feeling it, right now. Well, except for feeding Sophie Stinky Toes. It's bad enough thinking about dealing with trump*'s insane wrath. I don't need to add her's to the mix.

Perhaps some Indica induced relaxation might re-set my system.

13 replies = new reply since forum marked as read
Highlight: NoneDon't highlight anything 5 newestHighlight 5 most recent replies
I turned on the news, this morning, and feel so discouraged that I'm going back to bed. (Original Post) Siwsan Jul 2020 OP
First thing to do is Sherman A1 Jul 2020 #1
+1,000 chia Jul 2020 #7
My TV has remained off for the last couple weeks FakeNoose Jul 2020 #2
I quit Face Book a month ago and feel better. safeinOhio Jul 2020 #3
I don't need to turn on the TV to know how screwed we are today Runningdawg Jul 2020 #4
Don't hide from bad news but don't bathe in it either, get an update if needed move to constructive uponit7771 Jul 2020 #5
Go back to bed this morning, sometimes it can help to get another hour's sleep. But for tomorrow, chia Jul 2020 #6
Trump continues to tank in the polls. He's lost men, white people, and old people. lagomorph777 Jul 2020 #8
I am waking and baking too Wawannabe Jul 2020 #9
Since the pandemic started, I've felt like Peter at the beginning of Office Space. Initech Jul 2020 #10
I hear you. Boomerproud Jul 2020 #11
Well, we got a preview of it last month. Initech Jul 2020 #12
I hear you. mnhtnbb Jul 2020 #13

Sherman A1

(38,958 posts)
1. First thing to do is
Mon Jul 6, 2020, 06:44 AM
Jul 2020

Not turn on the news. Especially cable infotainment. Find something you enjoy in the morning, be it a walk around the neighborhood or sitting with a cup of coffee ☕️ watching birds or alike. The news (noise) will be there when you choose to get to it or not.

FakeNoose

(32,568 posts)
2. My TV has remained off for the last couple weeks
Mon Jul 6, 2020, 06:52 AM
Jul 2020

I try to catch the evening news but even that has been spotty. Serenity has been restored (somewhat) and it was something I needed to do.

Play music, watch an old movie that has a happy ending. Take frequent walks. Read a book - fiction or light humor. Anything to take your mind off this mess for awhile.


safeinOhio

(32,634 posts)
3. I quit Face Book a month ago and feel better.
Mon Jul 6, 2020, 07:52 AM
Jul 2020

I kind of like hot weather, but my girl friend is suffering with the this 90 plus degrees for 2 weeks is bad. I went out and jogged 4 miles in it yesterday and that made me feel better.

Stay cool and logged in Siwsan.

Runningdawg

(4,509 posts)
4. I don't need to turn on the TV to know how screwed we are today
Mon Jul 6, 2020, 09:20 AM
Jul 2020

After working from home for a few months and then being furloughed for a few months, my husband returned to work an hour ago. Friday night we learned a co worker in his office just spent the last week partying on a FL beach.

I am high risk, I haven't been out since the first of Feb. My husband only went out when it was absolutely necessary and always wearing a mask. He was labeled a fraud by the state of OK and has never received one penny in unemployment.(we will continue to fight) We had savings, but no more, the last of it was transferred yesterday. We started rationing meds a week ago.
Apparently, all that was for nothing.

uponit7771

(90,301 posts)
5. Don't hide from bad news but don't bathe in it either, get an update if needed move to constructive
Mon Jul 6, 2020, 09:25 AM
Jul 2020

... fight against Red Don.

chia

(2,244 posts)
6. Go back to bed this morning, sometimes it can help to get another hour's sleep. But for tomorrow,
Mon Jul 6, 2020, 09:53 AM
Jul 2020

be ready:

1. Don't turn on the TV
2. Do start the day with something that gives you contentment (for me it's morning coffee).
3. Give yourself a time for when your day's routine begins (depending on whether you're working, retired, etc.). Stick to it.
4. Write a list of 3 things to get done that day. When I was dealing with the worst of depression, I cheated a bit by listing 'breakfast' or 'shower' in the 3 things - and believe me, sometimes it was hard to cross even those off. But the good feeling comes after you do.
5. Do the next thing, whatever it is. In other words, keep going. It can be hard when the quicksand feels thick, but it's possible. : )

Wawannabe

(5,631 posts)
9. I am waking and baking too
Mon Jul 6, 2020, 10:05 AM
Jul 2020

Nuttin wrong with that... except I gotta go clean a big messy yacht at 9:30! Monday all day.

Take care. Don’t let the bastards get ya down!

Btw... did you see this post? Made me lmao first thing!


https://www.democraticunderground.com/10181379325

Initech

(100,031 posts)
10. Since the pandemic started, I've felt like Peter at the beginning of Office Space.
Mon Jul 6, 2020, 10:10 AM
Jul 2020

Like literally every day is the worst day of my life and I don't see that ending any time soon. Until this pandemic is over and social distancing is a thing of the past, I don't see my happiness level ever coming back. And I really hate feeling this way.

Boomerproud

(7,938 posts)
11. I hear you.
Mon Jul 6, 2020, 10:49 AM
Jul 2020
that emoji means nothing I know, just like my coworkers telling me to "Hang in there." i live alone and weekends are the worst. I don't know how much longer this can go without a total societal breakdown.

Initech

(100,031 posts)
12. Well, we got a preview of it last month.
Mon Jul 6, 2020, 11:01 AM
Jul 2020

I can only imagine that this will get worse as time goes on. I am really scared at the thought of what's going to happen or what could happen.

mnhtnbb

(31,373 posts)
13. I hear you.
Mon Jul 6, 2020, 11:22 AM
Jul 2020

Taking care of Snowy was my reason for getting up in the morning and to keep going during the day to make sure she had her walks, her meds, her special diet. Three weeks ago today I said good bye to her and there's been a hole in my life ever since.

Decided to do a grocery shop this morning. Hadn't been for a couple of weeks. By the time I got finished with it and loaded in the car I was exhausted. Wondered on the way home why I bother. At 69 I've had a pretty good life. The things that brought me joy are gone: going to the ballet, the symphony, seeing my sons, traveling. It's all gone. At this point I am also changing my life by planning to move from my 17th floor downtown apartment to a small house with a courtyard. It's being built and won't be ready until December at the earliest. At least five more months of being pretty much cooped up in my apartment. As I was driving home I wondered whether I shouldn't just take my exit and let my sons have their inheritance.

Seriously. I get it. My goal is to make it until November so I can cast a ballot for Joe and our Dem candidate for Senate to replace Tillis in NC and keep Cooper, our current Dem Governor. I bought myself some flowers at the store and have promised myself to keep flowers in the house until I have a garden. Fortunately, our library system has reopened to being able to put a hold on books and then make an appointment to pick them up. So I can stock up on reading material again.

I limit how much news I watch. Some days I can only get through half of Rachel and I have to turn it off. I definitely don't start with cable news first thing in the day.

I had stopped going out for walks after Snowy passed away. So now I walk farther--and faster--going out around 6:15 at least every other morning just to get some exercise before more people are out on the streets and I have to pull up my mask.

Do what you can to make yourself feel better. Hang in there!

Latest Discussions»General Discussion»I turned on the news, thi...