Children Deserve the Honest Truth About Mass Shootings
https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2022/05/how-to-talk-to-kids-about-the-texas-massacre/638434/
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America is in mourning. The country is processing the deaths of 19 children and two teachers, murdered on Tuesday in their elementary-school classroom by an 18-year-old gunman. The massacre marks the second-deadliest school shooting on record in the United States, and the grief that has followed can feel overwhelming even to adults who have grown used to Americas regular, brutal gun violence. For children, who continue to be the targets of such violence, the emotions can be more challenging yet.
Parents thus face the task of processing the news themselves while also navigating difficult conversations with their kids about the shooting.
I called Michelle Palmer, a licensed independent clinical social worker and the executive director of the Wendt Center for Loss and Healing, a Washington, D.C., nonprofit that specializes in the intersection of grief and trauma, to discuss how parents can address the Uvalde shooting with their children right now and in the weeks that follow.
Our conversation has been edited and condensed for clarity.
Caroline Mimbs Nyce: Lets start with the youngest children. Is there an appropriate age to start talking with your child about tragedies like the one that happened in Texas?
Michelle Palmer: I wouldnt say theres an appropriate age, just because kids develop at such different rates, both intellectually and emotionally. I know that thats a little bit of a cop-out answer, but parents really do know their kids best.
Whats important, especially for the littles, is being aware that somebody is going to say something to them because they live out in the worldbe it another kid, be it an older sibling.
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