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She hates him! (Original Post) Cattledog May 2017 OP
Welcome to the club. :/ MANative May 2017 #1
Unlike the rest of us, though gratuitous May 2017 #2
Sadly, only too true. MANative May 2017 #4
Yes, but unlike us eissa May 2017 #11
Urp. n/t tazkcmo May 2017 #15
Can she walk away? I would not assume so. Doodley May 2017 #16
Guessing not really. She has their son to consider. Hortensis May 2017 #30
I think you are correct BigRig May 2017 #37
I doubt that after 2 divorces, he would let her walk away with a penny, or their son. ehrnst May 2017 #20
And i bet she signed a contract not to talk marlakay May 2017 #26
Yeah but someone else can and get her story lunatica May 2017 #34
With the way his health is crazycatlady May 2017 #39
Yes, you are right!!!! WOW SO CAUGHT ON TAPE.. onecent May 2017 #3
And so inarguably deliberate. Barack_America May 2017 #8
Hmm, conflicting, am I starting to LIKE Melania? Barack_America May 2017 #5
Reinforces my dislike for her. tazkcmo May 2017 #6
I hear you Lotusflower70 May 2017 #7
The child? tazkcmo May 2017 #9
I agree Lotusflower70 May 2017 #14
He rarely sees the kid. louis-t May 2017 #17
Rumor - he's always been shitty to Barron and to Tiffany (he ignored her for years). Trump is a anneboleyn May 2017 #44
How often does little Lord Barron even see daddy? eissa May 2017 #13
This! smirkymonkey May 2017 #41
Yep. Rumor is that Tiffany is a decent human being as well (he doesn't slobber all over her) anneboleyn May 2017 #46
All of her beauty is natural unlike half sister who looks like a sick Barbi doll. Doreen May 2017 #52
It's entirely possible she legitimately fell for the bullshit at one point. Barack_America May 2017 #10
My thoughts, at one time he was prolly the world but now she see's he's direct asshole uponit7771 May 2017 #12
Narcissists can seem very attractive in the early stages of a relationship. athena May 2017 #62
"The woman who marries for money usually earns every penny" alterfurz May 2017 #18
Blows me away that this was taken on inauguration day marlakay May 2017 #29
I wonder if he slapped her around that day? I think he's verbally/physically abusive to her... Hekate May 2017 #50
Wow, she is all the way off the red carpet getting away from that creep. nt Blue_true May 2017 #19
I imagine right now, she has more power than she has ever had over him, however little. ehrnst May 2017 #21
those shoes have to stay on carpet & anyway, he's a sweaty hand squeezer-geezer. Sunlei May 2017 #22
I'm growing used to the embarrassment Bucky May 2017 #23
she taint stupid. she wants to survive him for more. pansypoo53219 May 2017 #24
exactly! Thats what I would do ;) samnsara May 2017 #28
Good for her.. as a former domestic violence counselor, I think this is a good step secondwind May 2017 #25
She was just giving him some dap underpants May 2017 #27
YET. . . She married him. . . BigDemVoter May 2017 #31
She married him after seeing what he did to the previous wives. hamsterjill May 2017 #42
Amen to that. BigDemVoter May 2017 #43
Trump wanted out with that one. Jacquette May 2017 #53
I could watch this hundreds of times and laugh every time n/t hibbing May 2017 #32
With good reasons. Some only she knows. judesedit May 2017 #33
That doesn't look like it's the first time she's done that she lunatica May 2017 #35
She and I have this in common rurallib May 2017 #36
I saw this a bit differently trc May 2017 #38
Well, this is Awkward. lol Cha May 2017 #40
Pretty much. gldstwmn May 2017 #45
Probably, but she also could have been avoiding a taboo public display of affection. greyl May 2017 #47
Good catch! Duppers May 2017 #49
If you look at the video closely you see Bibi is hold ing his wife's hand. Cattledog May 2017 #55
There's a slightly longer video sammythecat May 2017 #59
I wondered if that was the case, too. Like with the hand over the heart thing during Easter. kcr May 2017 #58
she never expected to ever actually have to WORK Skittles May 2017 #48
This ☝🏻 Chellee May 2017 #51
why can't she leave Skittles May 2017 #54
She should divorce him now marlakay May 2017 #57
It's possible that part of her prenup Chellee May 2017 #60
Cold, hateful bastard get the red out May 2017 #56
Can you blame her? Ligyron May 2017 #61
"I told you not to do this, Donald...Don't come crying to me." Wounded Bear May 2017 #63

gratuitous

(82,849 posts)
2. Unlike the rest of us, though
Mon May 22, 2017, 01:43 PM
May 2017

She can walk away any time she likes, and take a big chunk of change with her. The rest of us are stuck.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
30. Guessing not really. She has their son to consider.
Mon May 22, 2017, 04:02 PM
May 2017

(My guess is responsibility to the nation is not on her agenda, but I could be wrong. Maybe she just thinks it's beyond her to affect.)

Whatever, like me , she can give her husband feedback on his behavior. In her case, though, a constant task. His pathologic self-involvement, boorishness and bullying must be intolerably strong in this era, well above their established normal. Still, they've been married a lot of years now. It's not like she hasn't experienced it all.

BigRig

(74 posts)
37. I think you are correct
Mon May 22, 2017, 04:41 PM
May 2017

She is waiting for him to kick the kfc bucket, but it looks like he's gonna end up losing everything before that happens.

 

ehrnst

(32,640 posts)
20. I doubt that after 2 divorces, he would let her walk away with a penny, or their son.
Mon May 22, 2017, 02:31 PM
May 2017

The prenup must have been hundreds of pages long.

marlakay

(11,424 posts)
26. And i bet she signed a contract not to talk
Mon May 22, 2017, 03:49 PM
May 2017

About him so she can't write tell all book, although i think she might get more from book than him!!

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
34. Yeah but someone else can and get her story
Mon May 22, 2017, 04:18 PM
May 2017

With the way everyone in creation leaks on this guy, he wouldn't be able to prove it was her. Evidently no one likes him.

If he's always like he is now, his family probably hate being around him. I think Melanie abhors him.

crazycatlady

(4,492 posts)
39. With the way his health is
Mon May 22, 2017, 04:50 PM
May 2017

Not sure what the status of any prenups are after death.

But it will be interesting to see what becomes of her after he croaks. If I had to bet on it, he won't see Barron graduate from high school.

Barack_America

(28,876 posts)
5. Hmm, conflicting, am I starting to LIKE Melania?
Mon May 22, 2017, 01:45 PM
May 2017

Because, she brought some serious joy to my life today. I could literally watch this gif all👏damned👏day👏

Lotusflower70

(3,077 posts)
7. I hear you
Mon May 22, 2017, 01:49 PM
May 2017

Is it the money or her son or both. She isn't my favorite person on the planet but she has a child to consider.

tazkcmo

(7,300 posts)
9. The child?
Mon May 22, 2017, 01:57 PM
May 2017

Do you seriously believe that Barron is better off living with Shit Gibbon than not? Melanoma knew what she sold her soul for and apparently the price included her womb. The fact that she bore a child with this cretin is just further indication of her selfishness and lack of self worth.

No. Barron would be better off outside of the guilded cage his mother keeps him in.

Lotusflower70

(3,077 posts)
14. I agree
Mon May 22, 2017, 02:01 PM
May 2017

But since we are talking about money and power as well as the family values image of their base, what are the odds of her getting out of there with her son? I agree that marrying him and having a child with him was a horrible choice but my sympathy goes to Barron. He is stuck.

anneboleyn

(5,611 posts)
44. Rumor - he's always been shitty to Barron and to Tiffany (he ignored her for years). Trump is a
Mon May 22, 2017, 05:05 PM
May 2017

shitty man, which I think we all realize,

eissa

(4,238 posts)
13. How often does little Lord Barron even see daddy?
Mon May 22, 2017, 02:01 PM
May 2017

Cheeto hardly seems involved in his life, and given how horribly Uday and Qusay have turned out, I'd say the less involvement he has, the better.

Doreen

(11,686 posts)
52. All of her beauty is natural unlike half sister who looks like a sick Barbi doll.
Tue May 23, 2017, 02:40 AM
May 2017

When I saw her at the inauguration she looked nice and not fake. I think she was height weight proportionate. She is so much prettier than Ivanka or Melania.

Barack_America

(28,876 posts)
10. It's entirely possible she legitimately fell for the bullshit at one point.
Mon May 22, 2017, 01:58 PM
May 2017

She's clearly over it now though

athena

(4,187 posts)
62. Narcissists can seem very attractive in the early stages of a relationship.
Tue May 23, 2017, 08:33 PM
May 2017

They don't show their ugly side until later. At least that's what I've read.

marlakay

(11,424 posts)
29. Blows me away that this was taken on inauguration day
Mon May 22, 2017, 03:55 PM
May 2017

That should have been happiest day of his life (we know he is not normal so babies born and weddings aren't close). I imagine getting daddy's money was best day of his life.

Hekate

(90,529 posts)
50. I wonder if he slapped her around that day? I think he's verbally/physically abusive to her...
Tue May 23, 2017, 02:24 AM
May 2017

The vibe is just awful. No, she can't just walk out and get a settlement. There's something going on with that.

 

ehrnst

(32,640 posts)
21. I imagine right now, she has more power than she has ever had over him, however little.
Mon May 22, 2017, 02:33 PM
May 2017

He needs her as 'devoted arm candy' to maintain the "winner" image he needs so much.

Bucky

(53,929 posts)
23. I'm growing used to the embarrassment
Mon May 22, 2017, 02:41 PM
May 2017

It's like having a child throw a temper tantrump in the middle of the grocery store. At some point you just shrug off the world staring at you and march the brat off to the car.

(I'm leaving that typo above for posterity's sake)

secondwind

(16,903 posts)
25. Good for her.. as a former domestic violence counselor, I think this is a good step
Mon May 22, 2017, 03:47 PM
May 2017

in the right direction.

hamsterjill

(15,220 posts)
42. She married him after seeing what he did to the previous wives.
Mon May 22, 2017, 04:55 PM
May 2017

Not an ounce of sympathy for her from me. If she's unhappy, leave. Marla got custody of Tiffany so Baron is not an excuse to stay.

Melanie went in for the money and she stays for the money. That makes her just like Trump in my view.

BigDemVoter

(4,149 posts)
43. Amen to that.
Mon May 22, 2017, 05:00 PM
May 2017

She clearly wants the money. I can assure anybody who wonders that it most certainly WAS NOT Pussy Grabber's warm personality or engaging sense of humor.

Pussy Grabber has NO redeeming values-- NONE whatsoever. Melania was willing to actually have sex with Donald Trump which says ALL we need to know about HER.

Shudder.

Oh and let's not forget that Melania is not much better than her deplorable husband.

 

Jacquette

(152 posts)
53. Trump wanted out with that one.
Tue May 23, 2017, 03:20 AM
May 2017

Marla cheated on him and it was about to bubble up beyond whispers in Miami and NYC. DT couldn't have born that. That was a pretty quick divorce.

I still think Melania was a honey trap. She comes to the NYC, one of the most expensive cites in the world and within 2 yrs she's got a swanky apt, couture clothes, a new face & body....all on nonexistent modeling work. The msm eased off that but it's obviously true.

Somebody took chubby little Melania with the unibrow from Bumfk Slovenia, carved her face up, slimmed her down and steered her in DT's direction.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
35. That doesn't look like it's the first time she's done that she
Mon May 22, 2017, 04:24 PM
May 2017

His reaction shows he's used to it. I think he even expected it.

trc

(823 posts)
38. I saw this a bit differently
Mon May 22, 2017, 04:42 PM
May 2017

It looks to me like he is doing the old "take my hand, oops too slow, psych" thing and she is so used to it that she just waves at his hand knowing he will pull away. All about power and embarrassing his wife.

greyl

(22,990 posts)
47. Probably, but she also could have been avoiding a taboo public display of affection.
Mon May 22, 2017, 06:23 PM
May 2017
"Public displays of affection between people of the opposite sex, including between married people, are frowned upon everywhere more conservative values hold sway. Public displays of affection include activities as minor as hand-holding."


https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Etiquette_in_the_Middle_East#cite_note-2

There's no way to know for sure, I suppose.

Duppers

(28,117 posts)
49. Good catch!
Tue May 23, 2017, 01:45 AM
May 2017

But would Melania have known this? She could have been and probably was briefed on the country's etiquette. And, unlike her husband, she paid attention.




sammythecat

(3,568 posts)
59. There's a slightly longer video
Tue May 23, 2017, 11:30 AM
May 2017

out there, about 2 seconds longer. Immediately before he extended his hand to Melania he quite obviously noticed Bibi and his wife holding hands. There was zero warmth or affection in Trumps offered hand. It was solely for the sake of appearance. They must have a completely shitty relationship. If Melania is anything close to being a decent person it would have to be.

kcr

(15,313 posts)
58. I wondered if that was the case, too. Like with the hand over the heart thing during Easter.
Tue May 23, 2017, 10:16 AM
May 2017

She might have been worried that it was inappropriate.

Chellee

(2,090 posts)
51. This ☝🏻
Tue May 23, 2017, 02:40 AM
May 2017

👏🏻

I don't think she expected him to win. If he lost, she could divorce him, and it would all blow over quickly. Now, she's trapped. And if she weren't such a horrible person, I could feel sorry for her. But she is, so I don't.

Chellee

(2,090 posts)
60. It's possible that part of her prenup
Tue May 23, 2017, 08:29 PM
May 2017

says that she gets nothing but child support if she leaves before a certain number of years. I'm sure that she has some kind of non-disclosure clause in it because Ivana and Marla have never been quoted at all. So it's likely that if they talk, the money shuts off entirely, they may even have to pay him back.

There were some rumors that during the campaign there were divorce papers drawn up but never filed. If that's true, it's possible that part of that divorce decree stated that if he won she would wait until he was out of office or she got nothing.

She can always walk away, but if she wants to walk away with the money, I'm sure she has to play by his rules. I think he plays hard-ball even with his "loved ones." It's even possible that her "presents" don't actually belong to her. For example, smart gold diggers start socking away jewelry, or put part of their clothing budget and "walking around money" into a separate account so if they need to leave in a hurry, they have something to tide them over until they find their next sugar daddy. Someone like Trump would see through that tactic and preempt it. He controls people by controlling all the money. I'm pretty sure that love, affection, and esteem have never entered into any of his personal relationships. To be fair, for true gold diggers it doesn't enter into it for them either.

LOL, I realize all that makes me sound like some kind of authority on gold digging. I have no personal experience, I just read a lot of novels.

get the red out

(13,460 posts)
56. Cold, hateful bastard
Tue May 23, 2017, 05:46 AM
May 2017

My first long-term relationship back when I was in college was with a guy who started off sweet but revealed himself to be cold and hateful, of course not to Trump's extent. When that relationship ended I was fucked up for a while from trying to please him. Melania isn't an inexperienced kid, but she still may see she needs a way to get herself back.

Good for her! She obviously has a miserable marriage that would have probably ended a long time ago if Trump was just a regular guy who works for a living.

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