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Beer Snob-50

(6,676 posts)
Wed May 23, 2012, 01:24 PM May 2012

How would you handle this..

while at the beach this weekend with my wife, a early 20ish young lady was playing paddleball with a friend. While playing, she had a wardrobe malfunction and a breast was freed from its captivity. she did not notice and her friend (a male if it means anything) did not either. My wife made me aware of it. I suggested she go over and say something to her, and she said why don't I. I personally was afraid of being thought of as a pervert and she would not because she didnot want to get up. Mercifully, someone else mentioned it a couple of minutes later.


How would you have handled ths.

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How would you handle this.. (Original Post) Beer Snob-50 May 2012 OP
STFU and enjoy the show! ohiosmith May 2012 #1
200mm lens with continous shooting. bluesbassman May 2012 #2
You didn't reply to your wife "Why should I say something, I'm enjoying it" ?... n/t PoliticAverse May 2012 #3
I was making an attempt to be mature.......nt Beer Snob-50 May 2012 #4
Boy did you ever come in the wrong room. ohiosmith May 2012 #5
well aware of that.... Beer Snob-50 May 2012 #6
We're waiting....... ohiosmith May 2012 #8
smallish, firm Beer Snob-50 May 2012 #12
This message was self-deleted by its author seabeyond May 2012 #17
I would handle it gently and discreetly... petronius May 2012 #7
You should have had your wife shout at her and when RebelOne May 2012 #9
that is what i would have done.... thought i might ought to keep my mouth shut seabeyond May 2012 #10
you seem mature.. Beer Snob-50 May 2012 #11
the difference is, it is only a breast. there is no making it anything else. seabeyond May 2012 #14
excellent answer nt Beer Snob-50 May 2012 #16
thank you.... nt seabeyond May 2012 #18
post 13. nt seabeyond May 2012 #15
we have euphemisms for men's errors. Barn door open. Moon coming out early tonight. CBGLuthier May 2012 #13
Indeed we do... PoliticAverse May 2012 #19
How Would We "Handle" It?? Fingers Clenched and Palms UP! becca da bakkah May 2012 #20
There is no proper way to handle it. rug May 2012 #21
As a woman, I would have tried to let her know. elleng May 2012 #22

Beer Snob-50

(6,676 posts)
6. well aware of that....
Wed May 23, 2012, 01:49 PM
May 2012

but give me credit, i did not comment on the how well the above mentioned breast looked.

Response to Beer Snob-50 (Reply #12)

RebelOne

(30,947 posts)
9. You should have had your wife shout at her and when
Wed May 23, 2012, 01:58 PM
May 2012

she got her attention, your wife could have pointed to her chest. That may have gotten the message across.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
10. that is what i would have done.... thought i might ought to keep my mouth shut
Wed May 23, 2012, 02:05 PM
May 2012

but ya

hey woman.... your boob is hanging out, would have done it for me... i so pictured that reading the story if hubby turned to me and i didnt want to get up.

that is funny.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
14. the difference is, it is only a breast. there is no making it anything else.
Wed May 23, 2012, 02:17 PM
May 2012

it would get it done. by a woman. we all see it. an oops and all could go on from there, over. instead of the snickering and comments as the breast continues to hang out, like the men are doing above.

regardless it is going to be embarassing. a yell out ends it quickly for her.

not all are watching the woman get up, walk to her, and quietly tell her to put breast back in suit. a quick ripping the band aide off, in the least sexualized manner of doing it.

CBGLuthier

(12,723 posts)
13. we have euphemisms for men's errors. Barn door open. Moon coming out early tonight.
Wed May 23, 2012, 02:12 PM
May 2012

we need something equivalent for the ladies.

becca da bakkah

(426 posts)
20. How Would We "Handle" It?? Fingers Clenched and Palms UP!
Wed May 23, 2012, 10:53 PM
May 2012

That's quite a Freudian slip there! I guess "Honk! Honk!" is out of the question!

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