The DU Lounge
Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsHow would you handle this..
while at the beach this weekend with my wife, a early 20ish young lady was playing paddleball with a friend. While playing, she had a wardrobe malfunction and a breast was freed from its captivity. she did not notice and her friend (a male if it means anything) did not either. My wife made me aware of it. I suggested she go over and say something to her, and she said why don't I. I personally was afraid of being thought of as a pervert and she would not because she didnot want to get up. Mercifully, someone else mentioned it a couple of minutes later.
How would you have handled ths.
ohiosmith
(24,262 posts)bluesbassman
(19,310 posts)PoliticAverse
(26,366 posts)Beer Snob-50
(6,676 posts)ohiosmith
(24,262 posts)Beer Snob-50
(6,676 posts)but give me credit, i did not comment on the how well the above mentioned breast looked.
ohiosmith
(24,262 posts)Beer Snob-50
(6,676 posts)fit her body well.
Response to Beer Snob-50 (Reply #12)
seabeyond This message was self-deleted by its author.
petronius
(26,581 posts)RebelOne
(30,947 posts)she got her attention, your wife could have pointed to her chest. That may have gotten the message across.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)but ya
hey woman.... your boob is hanging out, would have done it for me... i so pictured that reading the story if hubby turned to me and i didnt want to get up.
that is funny.
Beer Snob-50
(6,676 posts)what would be your thought if a guy brought up the predictament.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)it would get it done. by a woman. we all see it. an oops and all could go on from there, over. instead of the snickering and comments as the breast continues to hang out, like the men are doing above.
regardless it is going to be embarassing. a yell out ends it quickly for her.
not all are watching the woman get up, walk to her, and quietly tell her to put breast back in suit. a quick ripping the band aide off, in the least sexualized manner of doing it.
Beer Snob-50
(6,676 posts)seabeyond
(110,159 posts)seabeyond
(110,159 posts)CBGLuthier
(12,723 posts)we need something equivalent for the ladies.
PoliticAverse
(26,366 posts)becca da bakkah
(426 posts)That's quite a Freudian slip there! I guess "Honk! Honk!" is out of the question!
rug
(82,333 posts)Once informed, she could handle it herself.
elleng
(130,156 posts)You did the right thing, imo.