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Sat Mar 18, 2023, 07:25 PM

My daughter has been accepted to college

She’s the 3rd generation of my family to go to college. 2nd generation of my wife’s family and I say that out of respect for my Father in law- he came out of the hollers (railroad - hard ass).

Her high school has been a weird time. She’s a COVID kid. Her middle school was brutal. She did work (International Bachelorette) and projects beyond what I did for the first years of college. Of course I was a bad student. I got an accounting degree after 10 years (Army included).

She’s a good person. She started a LGBTQ+ club in high school. I’ve shielded her as much as possible from politics but we do discuss News and governing.

She’s ADHD. I couldn’t understand her not turning in
homework. Drove me crazy.

She has some other applications out there - W&M UVA-Wise - but she got the 👍 from VCU. It’s where her mother/my wife met.


Okay bragging a bit
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Reply My daughter has been accepted to college (Original post)
underpants Mar 18 OP
jls4561 Mar 18 #1
viva la Mar 18 #2
CTyankee Mar 18 #14
greatauntoftriplets Mar 18 #3
Irish_Dem Mar 18 #4
dameatball Mar 18 #5
Hamlette Mar 18 #6
CTyankee Mar 18 #16
Hamlette Mar 18 #20
CTyankee Mar 19 #38
Hamlette Mar 19 #58
yellowdogintexas Mar 19 #56
malaise Mar 18 #7
rwheeler31 Mar 18 #8
gademocrat7 Mar 18 #9
hookaleft Mar 18 #10
PoindexterOglethorpe Mar 18 #11
MissB Mar 18 #12
Solly Mack Mar 18 #13
Prairie_Seagull Mar 18 #15
lucca18 Mar 18 #17
cilla4progress Mar 18 #18
highplainsdem Mar 18 #19
Onlyserious Mar 18 #21
LoisB Mar 18 #22
Tetrachloride Mar 18 #23
shawn703 Mar 18 #24
underpants Mar 18 #33
Hekate Mar 18 #25
panader0 Mar 18 #26
MLAA Mar 18 #27
SheltieLover Mar 18 #28
Karadeniz Mar 18 #29
H2O Man Mar 18 #30
underpants Mar 18 #34
area51 Mar 18 #31
debm55 Mar 18 #32
summer_in_TX Mar 18 #35
2naSalit Mar 18 #36
Baked Potato Mar 18 #37
swimboy Mar 19 #39
Magoo48 Mar 19 #40
murielm99 Mar 19 #41
davsand Mar 19 #42
yardwork Mar 19 #43
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Evolve Dammit Mar 19 #45
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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sat Mar 18, 2023, 07:29 PM

1. From all you tell us about her

You have a right to be proud!

Congratulations to her.

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sat Mar 18, 2023, 07:36 PM

2. Sounds great!

I hope she finds herself in just the best place for her and loves her classes.
(I wish I could go to college again... I just loved the classes, and I know that sounds lame.)

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Response to viva la (Reply #2)

Sat Mar 18, 2023, 08:55 PM

14. I actually did that! A college nearby was offering a Liberal Studies Masters Degree program and

I eagerly signed up for it. What I realized was that the program was a kind of "gift" to the faculty who could teach what they loved, instead of grinding out requirement courses year by year. I took a writing course from a fabulous teacher, a course in transcendent religious history and writings, even an Economic history of the various theories about the question of "worth." Unfailingly, each course "lit my fire" of imagination. Then I started writing about the artist Caravaggio and now I've written two books on art history and a third I am still working out in my head.

It would be great if everyone had a course in liberal studies.

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sat Mar 18, 2023, 07:40 PM

3. Congratulations, underpants.

How nice that she'll be relatively close to you.

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sat Mar 18, 2023, 07:48 PM

4. Congratulations!

She has done a great job and you are right to be proud of her.

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sat Mar 18, 2023, 08:15 PM

5. That's great. Everyone has their own trip to make. Good for her and your family.

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sat Mar 18, 2023, 08:17 PM

6. my son wouldn't turn in his home work and it too drove me crazy!

he'd do it but just not turn it in.

He's now a very respected lawyer.

There is hope.

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Response to Hamlette (Reply #6)

Sat Mar 18, 2023, 08:57 PM

16. My son was the same way. He ended up with an undergrad course at Columbia in NYC and went on

to law school and is now an ADA in the Brooklyn DA's office. I think of him when I see reruns of "Law and Order."

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Response to CTyankee (Reply #16)

Sat Mar 18, 2023, 09:11 PM

20. my son is a prosecutor too! In the state DA system

I wonder if there is a link. . . refuse to turn in your homework. . . naaaa.


I'm always telling him what shows to watch where there is a great DA character. He's a doll. But then? Why???????

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Response to Hamlette (Reply #20)

Sun Mar 19, 2023, 07:28 AM

38. Well, "Law and Order" was special. My son was so taken by Sam Waterston he went to a Broadway

show to see him and got to meet him after the show. Big fan! Sam Waterston is a hell of an actor...

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Response to CTyankee (Reply #38)

Sun Mar 19, 2023, 02:37 PM

58. I think it is funny that the first top prosecutor on law and order was named Adam Schiff.

just like the California representative.

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Response to Hamlette (Reply #6)

Sun Mar 19, 2023, 01:57 PM

56. My daughter as well. She had to drop out of a play

she really wanted to be in because her grades dropped because of the homework problem.

I can only recall one teacher for whom she always turned in her homework, and she was well known as the toughest teacher in the school.

Now she is an artist, specializing in body art and a very successful tattooist in Phoenix

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sat Mar 18, 2023, 08:25 PM

7. Congrats

😀

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sat Mar 18, 2023, 08:27 PM

8. Congratulations

I hope she has a great experience.

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sat Mar 18, 2023, 08:28 PM

9. Congrats, underpanta!

A proud parent moment.

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sat Mar 18, 2023, 08:34 PM

10. Congrats

Sounds like a wonderful child.

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sat Mar 18, 2023, 08:47 PM

11. Hooray! Getting into college is a big deal, even getting into

the local community college that takes everyone. Because college of any kind offers opportunities, lots of opportunities.

My son likewise wasn't good about turning in homework. We eventually learned he's on the spectrum. Asperger's, although that specific diagnosis has gone away. Too bad, because it really was useful. Along the way he flunked out of two colleges, despite having a very high IQ. Right now he's in a PhD program in astronomy, and tells me he'll graduate this fall semester.

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sat Mar 18, 2023, 08:55 PM

12. Congrats!

Such an exciting time.

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sat Mar 18, 2023, 08:55 PM

13. Congrats! Excellent!

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sat Mar 18, 2023, 08:56 PM

15. Congrats to you and your daughter. She sounds eager to learn. That is more than half the battle.

Maybe show her this thread so she can see how many of us wish her and you well.

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sat Mar 18, 2023, 09:00 PM

17. Congratulations!!

You are so happy and proud of your daughter, and that is wonderful!

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sat Mar 18, 2023, 09:03 PM

18. Wow! Wonderful underpants!

Give her a big DU hug from me!

She's an inspiration.

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sat Mar 18, 2023, 09:08 PM

19. Congrats! Both of you have every reason to be proud.

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sat Mar 18, 2023, 09:11 PM

21. Being an I.B. kid is very special!

My kid was an I.B. kid and it was extraordinarily demanding, requiring a seriousness and dedication above and beyond. You and she must be very proud.

My kid was wait listed at W&M,and Duke--and ended up chosing Vanderbilt. Vanderbilt turned out to be quite conservative, but she persevered. And we got to hang in Nashville.

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sat Mar 18, 2023, 09:16 PM

22. Congratulations to her. Yay!

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sat Mar 18, 2023, 09:21 PM

23. Big gz.

if your daughter is still having AdHD issues, i can ask my friend whose daughter succeeded in her therapy.

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sat Mar 18, 2023, 09:22 PM

24. My daughter is also waiting on W&M and UVA responses

She got accepted into VT though, which out of her current acceptances is where she wants to go. It’s also the furthest away from the watchful eye of her parents - hopefully that’s not a factor lol

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Response to shawn703 (Reply #24)

Sat Mar 18, 2023, 10:04 PM

33. Lots of Tech friends

My girl is very practical. She wants to be an archeologist and knows she going to be in school for years. She wants to be as inexpensive as possible. She also applied to Ricard Bland (W&M) which, considering her classmates, surprised me.

I got lucky with this kid.

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sat Mar 18, 2023, 09:24 PM

25. Hugs to both of you

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sat Mar 18, 2023, 09:25 PM

26. Congratulations to both of you!

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sat Mar 18, 2023, 09:29 PM

27. Congrats to daughter and proud parents!

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sat Mar 18, 2023, 09:30 PM

28. Congrats!



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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sat Mar 18, 2023, 09:44 PM

29. BRAG ON...EVERYONE'S EARNED THE RIGHT!!!!

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sat Mar 18, 2023, 09:55 PM

30. Recommended.

You have good reason to be proud!

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Response to H2O Man (Reply #30)

Sat Mar 18, 2023, 10:07 PM

34. ❤️

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sat Mar 18, 2023, 09:59 PM

31. Congratulations!


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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sat Mar 18, 2023, 10:04 PM

32. Congradulations to your daughter and to you and wife for raising such a wonderful and talented young

woman.

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sat Mar 18, 2023, 10:15 PM

35. We are excited for your daughter!

Your pride in your daughter is a beautiful thing. It'll be such an opportunity for her – and it's a very good thing she's trying to go in state. Wise young woman!

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sat Mar 18, 2023, 10:28 PM

36. Congrats to both of you...

And mom! Hope this means she'll be able to stay close to home, if that's what she wants.

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sat Mar 18, 2023, 10:50 PM

37. Congratulations!

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sun Mar 19, 2023, 08:50 AM

39. That's great news!

Congratulations and well done!

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sun Mar 19, 2023, 09:32 AM

40. Kool!

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sun Mar 19, 2023, 10:06 AM

41. Yay!

This is a wonderful thing.

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sun Mar 19, 2023, 10:11 AM

42. Man, does that make me feel old!

I remember when she was born! Not gonna lie, the passage of time is something I really only notice when I look at our kids. I probably should feel embarrassed by that, but it's a fact, and I cannot deny it.

Underpants, it sounds like you guys raised a terrific kid. I'm not at all surprised, by that, but the thing that strikes me is your comment that she's a nice person. The academic stuff is wonderful, and absolutely something to be proud of, but realizing and celebrating her character tells me everything about the values your family demonstrated and modeled for her. WELL done!

Kevsand and I also have a daughter. We pretty much raised her in politics. I joked for years that she was probably gonna do the teen rebellion thing and become a Rush Limbaugh fan. She didn't. She has entered a career that is political, and that was by her choice. We told her a long time ago that you have to stand for something, and I am so very proud of her for what she chooses to stand up for. She is running for a city wide office in two years, and already people are coming to her to ask how they can help her win. She's gonna do just fine. I'm enormously proud of her. She's good people.

These DU offspring are pretty incredible! Love to you, and congratulations!




Laura

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sun Mar 19, 2023, 10:15 AM

43. That's wonderful! Congratulations, dad!

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sun Mar 19, 2023, 10:33 AM

44. Good work! Congratulations to you both!

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sun Mar 19, 2023, 10:46 AM

45. That's very cool. Congrats to you all!

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sun Mar 19, 2023, 10:53 AM

46. Wonderful news!

Wishing her (and you) all the best!

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sun Mar 19, 2023, 10:57 AM

47. Congratulations to you both!!

(But a little bit more to her - she's the one that's going to Uni, after all. )

Your daughter's numbers are virtually identical to those of my middle step-grand, and she should take pride in them, because they are no mean feat. "My grad" sure takes pride in her work and accepts nothing less than excellence from herself.

Her extra-curriculars were through the roof, too. Varsity basketball and volleyball, sings the national anthem at school events, first chair flute in the county orchestra, performed a leading role in the Drama Club's annual production (and now she's hooked!) and for her first term at uni, she will be placed in second semester of second year, because she's also taken a ton of extension courses.

And, I believe her career path at this point will gladden the good people here. She's aiming to be an investigative journalist.

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sun Mar 19, 2023, 11:06 AM

48. Congratulations

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sun Mar 19, 2023, 11:12 AM

49. Congratulations and VCU is a great college! Way to go!

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sun Mar 19, 2023, 11:22 AM

50. Underpants You aren't the only one

Who took 10 years to get your degree. I also did. almost to the day. I had an AF stint, not the army.
Started in Late Aug. 69 graudated mid Aug. 79.

COngratulations for perserverance and getting your daughter through HS.

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sun Mar 19, 2023, 11:45 AM

51. Great job

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sun Mar 19, 2023, 11:54 AM

52. Congratulations - and "well done" on the good parenting!

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sun Mar 19, 2023, 12:00 PM

53. Congratulations Underpants family.

Sending best wishes and joy from one family to another.


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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sun Mar 19, 2023, 12:11 PM

54. Congrats!

I'm kind of assuming you meant International Baccalaureate (which I have to look up how to spell every time), and not Bachelorette. Although the latter sounds like an interesting program

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sun Mar 19, 2023, 12:12 PM

55. Congrats. In a few years, you can rediscover what disposable income is. (nt)

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sun Mar 19, 2023, 01:58 PM

57. Congratulations!!! VCU is a good school

I hope she has a great college experience

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sun Mar 19, 2023, 04:51 PM

59. Tell her congrats!

And congrats to you, too!

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sun Mar 19, 2023, 06:29 PM

60. congratulations!nt

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Response to underpants (Original post)

Sun Mar 19, 2023, 06:31 PM

61. awwwwww Big congrats to all of you. So wonderful for her. The daughter of a

very dear friend went to VCU and absolutely loved it. May your daughter do so as well.

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Sun Mar 19, 2023, 06:35 PM

62. Congratulations

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