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Amazing!
I'm not sure why I'm scaring you...I'm a pretty nice person. I do have a wicked sexy streak...I do know when to show that side of me.
can't con a con 
24 Rules Of Seduction
Create a false sense of security—approach indirectly
Katie Tegtmeyer
"If you are too direct early on, you risk stirring up a resistance that will never be lowered. At first there must be nothing of the seducer in your manner. The seduction should begin at an angle, indirectly, so that the target only gradually becomes aware of you. Haunt the periphery of your target’s life—approach through a third party, or seem to cultivate a relatively neutral relationship, moving gradually from friend to lover. Lull the target into feeling secure, then strike."
Read more: http://www.businessinsider.com/robert-greenes-the-art-of-seduction-2013-1?op=1#ixzz2NhbU7EKd
think how many you have used yourself...or fallen for!
Send mixed signals
"Once people are aware of your presence, and perhaps vaguely intrigued, you need to stir their interest before it settles on someone else. Most of us are much too obvious—instead, be hard to figure out. Send mixed signals: both tough and tender, both spiritual and earthly, both innocent and cunning. A mix of qualities suggests depth, which fascinates even as it confuses. An elusive, enigmatic aura will make people want to know more, drawing them into your circle. Create such a power by hinting at something contradictory within you."
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"Once people are aware of your presence, and perhaps vaguely intrigued, you need to stir their interest before it settles on someone else. Most of us are much too obvious—instead, be hard to figure out. Send mixed signals: both tough and tender, both spiritual and earthly, both innocent and cunning. A mix of qualities suggests depth, which fascinates even as it confuses. An elusive, enigmatic aura will make people want to know more, drawing them into your circle. Create such a power by hinting at something contradictory within you."
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fyi ~ I was called that in my local newspaper!
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[/img]The secret is out!