when they went after a consensual affair. Since he seems to be now reluctant to answer personal questions let's review his list in the new light of Tits and Clits and No means yes:
https://twitter.com/stevesilberman/status/1031591951911407618

Also, from the article "“IS IT TOO GRAPHIC?” Kavanaugh asked in an Aug. 31, 1998 memo to Starr aides. “SHOULD IT BE MORE GRAPHIC (kidding)?”