with all the ideological, intra-race hate of the most violent and lethal type, interracial-cultural hate and just plain old narcissistic meanness we as the human race must truly try to respect with compassion, life.
With regard to the hurting "traumatized" individual, it's shameful when our family lets their personal issue(s) overcome the love, one is born with. In these dangerous days of ideological/racial hatred, WE have to try to have each others' back.