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ismnotwasm

(41,955 posts)
38. I believe we are seeing a changing of the guard so to speak
Sat Feb 3, 2018, 02:36 PM
Feb 2018

As whites slowly become a minority of sorts, in population, if not money and power, the edge in money and power is slowly being lost. This seems to drive some white folks crazy. It drives others who accept Whiteness as a standard crazy. We’ve never had to confront the actual repercussions of the erosion Whiteness as the dominant cultural standard. Some of us are uneasy—we were always so GOOD at cultural appropriation, we took credit where it was by no means due. We’ve done this for centuries. We’ve led the way in modern times anyway, when another culture has something interesting or attractive or genius, we created the culture of cultural theft.

And, to coin a phrase, time is up.

So much of what the right is, is reactive—anger and fear. Trump is everything diseased and damaged about Whiteness (which, so there is no mistake, does not mean white people as a whole, I know many of us are great people. I hate that I have to qualify this though, because people will misunderstand what Whiteness is, or think it merely an acedemic exercise) and about patriarchy.

Such bitter, angry, violent reactions everywhere. Trumps election even being possible . A powerful woman as a perennial scapegoat, the whole idea of libertarianism. The resurgence of the “alt-right” —a number of who started with Men’s Rights Activism fuckery. Men’s Rights Activism fuckery becoming almost mainstream—not quite, but too close. All that anger directed toward people with non-white skin and non-compliant women.

Still. Time is up.

Wow! I am so very sorry! GreenPartyVoter Feb 2018 #1
your wife did the right thing lunasun Feb 2018 #2
100% right you are, lunasun. madaboutharry Feb 2018 #60
+1 "Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Jr...In the end, lunasun Feb 2018 #64
My cousin already call us "the enemy" CanonRay Feb 2018 #73
cousin johnmont Feb 2018 #85
Please explain this Cary Feb 2018 #98
My sympathies Ray Maynar Feb 2018 #86
Sorry you have such shitty relatives nt maryellen99 Feb 2018 #107
I'm sorry. That must have hurt your wife & you very much. irisblue Feb 2018 #3
Been there, done that... recently, with an aunt and uncle. No longer welcome in my home!! InAbLuEsTaTe Feb 2018 #12
"red-faced and yelling" means scared, regardless of the words that followed. lindysalsagal Feb 2018 #4
Exactly what came to my mind. nt SunSeeker Feb 2018 #76
Next time, remind them that Congress has the authority to change Sophia4 Feb 2018 #5
No way would they EVER be able to process that. pangaia Feb 2018 #51
The repub congress just did this Gabi Hayes Feb 2018 #89
This 👆🏼 UpInArms Feb 2018 #94
Thanks. Sophia4 Feb 2018 #106
Agree, except they are perfectly rational.....they DONT CARE! Gabi Hayes Feb 2018 #108
GOOD FOR HER!!!! bluestarone Feb 2018 #6
I'm sending hugs Siwsan Feb 2018 #7
They must be feeling very frightened by what they are seeing and hearing. Grammy23 Feb 2018 #8
I bet a lot of them will be having mental breakdowns from his supporters when it all comes out nt maryellen99 Feb 2018 #52
Fox news has really ginned up the crowd for torches and pitchforks this time. TeamPooka Feb 2018 #9
Well that sucks... so sorry to hear. I'll reserve my true thoughts, since they are your inlaws. InAbLuEsTaTe Feb 2018 #10
I've seen that response on FB this morning... Ferrets are Cool Feb 2018 #11
All over twitter also oberliner Feb 2018 #13
they live in foxland spanone Feb 2018 #14
Typical deplorable behavior dalton99a Feb 2018 #15
+1 ffr Feb 2018 #18
They are so brainwashed in the cult of twitler and Fox kimbutgar Feb 2018 #16
Rupert Murdoch is really no different than any other cult leader. Initech Feb 2018 #26
The tribunals are coming alright, for the Grifter and his accomplices. #RESIST ffr Feb 2018 #17
Wow - your post makes me happy most of my relatives are dead. Good for your wife. Vinca Feb 2018 #19
Our federal law enforcement agencies, State and our military all PatrickforO Feb 2018 #20
Thats too far.. its hard but i think you have to keep politics way out of the way when family lancelyons Feb 2018 #21
It's not too far when someone is clearly not in control of himself. Mariana Feb 2018 #45
this 100% bluestarone Feb 2018 #57
What do you mean "that's too far"? So they should've gone along with the insane ranting & raving catbyte Feb 2018 #63
The Fox Cult claims more victims. Initech Feb 2018 #22
Ive lost family members to Levins cult. Not sure which is worse. liberalnarb Feb 2018 #40
ah....family, eh? SWBTATTReg Feb 2018 #23
Good for your wife... the_sly_pig Feb 2018 #24
friend of mine was turned by his lying right wing brother AllaN01Bear Feb 2018 #25
When Fascism comes to America, Drahthaardogs Feb 2018 #27
+1! KPN Feb 2018 #29
Surprised. My family deplorables flipped the other way. No one ever mentions who they voted .... marble falls Feb 2018 #28
not really deplorables, then. yay! Hermit-The-Prog Feb 2018 #33
We're still praying for her parents, her dad is a deplorable but at least he doesn't discuss it .... marble falls Feb 2018 #34
I don't think the Nazi label fits or is helpful Juliusseizure Feb 2018 #49
read the news Hermit-The-Prog Feb 2018 #59
Adolph Hitler True Blue American Feb 2018 #92
messaging Hermit-The-Prog Feb 2018 #30
Ive tried. Youd have better luck talking to trumps wall. liberalnarb Feb 2018 #39
I really don't know because the media markets in so many regions are dominated deurbano Feb 2018 #62
Wow! DownriverDem Feb 2018 #31
Maybe he was listening to a Rush L while working on the roof . Got too upset by one of lunasun Feb 2018 #68
It goes to show how effective brainwashing is. mn9driver Feb 2018 #32
If we actually had their dictatorship in this country DBoon Feb 2018 #35
A lot of us are right there with you in that boat. liberalnarb Feb 2018 #36
Yes, dark times. mountain grammy Feb 2018 #37
I believe we are seeing a changing of the guard so to speak ismnotwasm Feb 2018 #38
I'll echo the "GOOD for her" here. Hurray for your wife. Duppers Feb 2018 #41
So, Clearly, they didn't bother reading the memo bitterross Feb 2018 #42
Oh my - sorry to hear that mvd Feb 2018 #43
This is when living in a red area has prepared me for this. It's the one I expect. kydo Feb 2018 #44
I know that it hurts Wisconsin .... LenaBaby61 Feb 2018 #46
Holy Moley!!! Im glad your wife stood up to them..altho it must have been.. samnsara Feb 2018 #47
cognitive dissonance explained safeinOhio Feb 2018 #48
My condolences. Nitram Feb 2018 #50
We'll done to your wife, but I really don't know how all this is going to end. OnDoutside Feb 2018 #53
The final throes arent pretty. C_U_L8R Feb 2018 #54
Sorry Meowmee Feb 2018 #55
I'm so sorry.... Upthevibe Feb 2018 #66
I'm sorry to hear of that unfortunate experience. smirkymonkey Feb 2018 #56
so, they follow Trump's example of doubling down on the stupid. Or riversedge Feb 2018 #58
This is the reaction putin wants and mcconnell and the rest. Eliot Rosewater Feb 2018 #61
"Military Tribunals" - a nuclear response bucolic_frolic Feb 2018 #65
This message was self-deleted by its author Juliusseizure Feb 2018 #67
The 30% are the most dangerous internal threat the country has faced since the 1860's StuckInTexas Feb 2018 #69
They're talking about this in the workplace? nt. Mariana Feb 2018 #77
It's difficult I know MFM008 Feb 2018 #70
.......WOW......... titanicdave Feb 2018 #71
Same ancestry here. Holes in it too. Many DU folk could see the similarities back in Ws time. ☹️ BlancheSplanchnik Feb 2018 #72
sounds like a severe case of fuxgnewzagenda. pansypoo53219 Feb 2018 #74
"Not the reaction I expected." barely describes it, for me. BobTheSubgenius Feb 2018 #75
More hugs for you and your wife. KentuckyWoman Feb 2018 #78
I hope things work out between the two of you MustLoveBeagles Feb 2018 #83
Invite them back, and agree not to talk politics. Don't allow Trump to break up your family. parkerMcDavis Feb 2018 #79
Trump brings hate with him Angry Dragon Feb 2018 #80
Vlah-dee-mier Pyoo-ten is very pleased... ConnorMarc Feb 2018 #81
I'm sorry MustLoveBeagles Feb 2018 #82
As many people have said here, I am sorry. Lifelong Protester Feb 2018 #84
sounds like they are disappointed dweller Feb 2018 #87
That took courage DFW Feb 2018 #88
Yeah my granddad was not at all supportive of Iraq II 47of74 Feb 2018 #97
People who have experienced intense deadly combat up close DFW Feb 2018 #100
WOW!!! Raine Feb 2018 #90
No one has mentioned this but I would be concerned True Blue American Feb 2018 #91
People like your in-laws have the power Turbineguy Feb 2018 #93
Hugs, I'm so sorry LittleGirl Feb 2018 #95
Ii have lost some friends in the last year...... USALiberal Feb 2018 #96
Sorry about that. 47of74 Feb 2018 #99
Family is too important WhiskaBiscuit Feb 2018 #101
Bummer. I thought this was going to be one of those, "they finally saw the light" stories. CrispyQ Feb 2018 #102
Without reading all the responses-- MichMary Feb 2018 #103
politics has poisoned our lives and is destroying our families AlexSFCA Feb 2018 #104
Trump supporters are nut cases who need to be pitied Gothmog Feb 2018 #105
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