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Maraya1969

(23,013 posts)
29. My sister in law has a sister who looks gay. Seriously gay
Thu Feb 8, 2018, 09:43 PM
Feb 2018

They are white evangelicals. About a year ago I emailed SIL and suggested she offer to have a wedding for that other sister. Mind you everyone in that family have had big weddings except that one sister. Even though she is always with another woman who looks as gay as she does.

My SIL wrote me back and told me she was insulted that I would call her sister gay! Then she said that her sister believed that marriage was between 1 man and 1 woman.

I know my brother used to try and get people into anti-gay therapy, (he is a retired pastor) and I've said plenty to him over the years about it. But I never thought that they may have pushed this sister into it. I don't know if they actually did that or the sister learned from their parents that if she is gay to never come out. I know how my brother shunned me years ago when I had a relationship, (or a few) with a woman.

Evangelicals bastardize the teachings of Jesus

Do not enter a room with Mike Pence, I beg you! MineralMan Feb 2018 #1
This message was self-deleted by its author RKP5637 Feb 2018 #2
Please don't suggest political opponents are gay. Ms. Toad Feb 2018 #10
That's a good point!!! I certainly did not mean it that way, but I see what you mean. RKP5637 Feb 2018 #11
Thank you! n/t Ms. Toad Feb 2018 #30
I agree with you - this should never be used as an insult. leftieNanner Feb 2018 #14
Agree The Mouth Feb 2018 #24
A man who needs to be chaperoned at all times by the wife he calls "Mother" has issues... Hekate Feb 2018 #36
☝️That. BlancheSplanchnik Feb 2018 #47
I know, and this behavior is sick. My spouse is NOT my mother! Repulsive and sick...nt SWBTATTReg Feb 2018 #57
I would not want to meet with any Republican politician. SamKnause Feb 2018 #3
I agree WHOLEHEARTEDLY! GWC58 Feb 2018 #6
I agree 1,000% +++ These was a time I guess one could say that some still didn't get what's RKP5637 Feb 2018 #8
Another *agree* from me. BlancheSplanchnik Feb 2018 #48
I love this kid with all my heart and soul!! I might even have to watch a bit of Olympics to Leghorn21 Feb 2018 #4
I'm going to cheer this kid on. LanternWaste Feb 2018 #5
Ummm.... jberryhill Feb 2018 #7
Wow, yes, that is an excellent point!!!!!! n/t RKP5637 Feb 2018 #9
Upworthy.com, source of OP greyl Feb 2018 #13
He was on the other night with a pompadour. kwassa Feb 2018 #15
Upworthy says, in another article, that Weir wasn't caraher Feb 2018 #17
A fine distinction, I guess jberryhill Feb 2018 #23
Johhny Weir didn't officially come out until 2011 whopis01 Feb 2018 #18
ah jberryhill Feb 2018 #21
Adam is the first American figure skating competitor to openly declare he is gay. luvtheGWN Feb 2018 #22
Weir wasn't openly gay while competing in the Olympics dsc Feb 2018 #25
Oh! I remember him even though I havent watched Olympics in forever. BlancheSplanchnik Feb 2018 #49
Adam Rippon! MontanaMama Feb 2018 #12
Get Ready DownriverDem Feb 2018 #16
He's nothing but a closed-minded, sanctimonious Christofascist. calimary Feb 2018 #20
Kudos to him for speaking out. I didn't see a reference to a mtg request in the story, tho.nt Honeycombe8 Feb 2018 #19
This athlete needs to ignore that moron/bigot pence and concentrate on his events Gothmog Feb 2018 #26
The very idea this man child who fears women and gay people would be in any position of power Eliot Rosewater Feb 2018 #27
Here is the perfect example of how you deal with these pricks maxrandb Feb 2018 #28
My sister in law has a sister who looks gay. Seriously gay Maraya1969 Feb 2018 #29
Evangelicals are a cult and the opposite of everything Jesus ever taught! They love spreading RKP5637 Feb 2018 #44
Mike Pence is an insult to all gay athletes in the closet or out of the closet. YOHABLO Feb 2018 #31
Pence is an insult to his god Angry Dragon Feb 2018 #43
Go back to your safe space, Vice President Snowflake! Initech Feb 2018 #32
DisPence with manners, everyone should snub Pence. betsuni Feb 2018 #33
You said "DisPence" like that ! Also love how he scrunches up his Laura PourMeADrink Feb 2018 #35
Huh? How did the whole thing get under Pence's skin (title) ?? Laura PourMeADrink Feb 2018 #34
Hi, here's more on it here. RKP5637 Feb 2018 #45
How about Olympic gold medal diver Greg Louganis? FakeNoose Feb 2018 #37
Looked it up. He didn't publicly come out until 1994, tclambert Feb 2018 #38
OK FakeNoose Feb 2018 #39
That's what I was thinking - there must be other gay athletes Rhiannon12866 Feb 2018 #41
Not a winter Olympic sport jberryhill Feb 2018 #40
Pence is evil Angry Dragon Feb 2018 #42
He is, even more so than Trump IMO. n/t RKP5637 Feb 2018 #46
We must not romana Feb 2018 #50
Pence, is a very very dangerous creature. IMO he's worse than Trump! n/t RKP5637 Feb 2018 #53
Pence leave him alone at this great moment in his skating career lunasun Feb 2018 #51
This athlete has more important things MontanaMama Feb 2018 #52
I would not put it past Pence. He's a very very evil creature! Just looking at Pence one can tell RKP5637 Feb 2018 #54
"Pense" is only a letter and a swap away from "Penis" n/t SpankMe Feb 2018 #55
And he's a horrible creature. Just looking at him gives me the creeps. n/t RKP5637 Feb 2018 #56
Pence also bought Otto Warmbiers dad as part of the delegation maryellen99 Feb 2018 #58
so, the homophobic, misogynyistic, racist little weirdo is heading the US delegation? what an niyad Feb 2018 #59
... saw him on TV today there. He just looks so damn creepy! It's like you know he's really RKP5637 Feb 2018 #60
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