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tazkcmo

(7,300 posts)
20. They are asked to leave without causing a scene
Thu Mar 29, 2018, 02:53 PM
Mar 2018

And told why and done in a professional and calm manner. I've had to do this a quite a few times for various reasons, not all being crew harassment issues. Most go quietly and those that don't I give them the option of letting the police handle or the ownership if they were there and then they'd call the cops.

One of my favorites was when a table of 4 kept returning their steaks. After 3 attempts at meeting their needs, our owner told them to leave as he suspected they were fishing for free meals as happens especially at large chains like Applebee's and such. Anyway, they said they weren't leaving, wanted their meal and expected it to be free. They threatened to sue due to discrimination against African Americans. That was funny because of the 300 or so people eating at that time, 90% were AA and having a great time. Our owner responding by saying, "Look around you. Go ahead and sue. I have 6 lawyers, a line out the door and a faithful clientele most of who are AA. So go now or wait quietly for the police to remove you like a common criminal in front of all these nice people enjoying themselves right now.". They left, talked a little shit on the way but they left and the rest applauded our owner and thanked him for removing them.

Good system. Wonder if its effectiveness would work in other industries? brush Mar 2018 #1
I'm guessing the success of this program is based on two things: WhiskeyGrinder Mar 2018 #7
It is the automatic response that does it. LiberalBrooke Mar 2018 #29
That's very cool! forgotmylogin Mar 2018 #23
What a great idea. Perhaps more restaurants should try it. n/t CaliforniaPeggy Mar 2018 #2
They should use that system at the White House. DemocratSinceBirth Mar 2018 #3
he's a cowardly spray-tanner with ties to russia. so, he's got all the colors covered. unblock Mar 2018 #4
+1 Arkansas Granny Mar 2018 #6
+2! n/t raven mad Mar 2018 #14
Genius. BobTheSubgenius Mar 2018 #30
I call RED on the WH. I hope our manager, Mr. Mueller shows them out. FSogol Mar 2018 #10
The place would be empty Neema Mar 2018 #22
K&R ismnotwasm Mar 2018 #5
Excellent system zipplewrath Mar 2018 #8
When my younger son worked at a movie chain PoindexterOglethorpe Mar 2018 #12
Common with strippers zipplewrath Mar 2018 #18
That makes sense. PoindexterOglethorpe Mar 2018 #19
Like "Stormy" for example. TeamPooka Mar 2018 #33
Sorta zipplewrath Mar 2018 #41
What a great idea! PatSeg Mar 2018 #9
Sounds great for a big restaurant askyagerz Mar 2018 #11
Curious how the "red" is "ejected." question everything Mar 2018 #13
Have you never seen someone ejected from a restaurant? WhiskeyGrinder Mar 2018 #15
No. What have I missed? question everything Mar 2018 #16
Not much. The managers asks the person to leave, they cause a scene or don't, and life WhiskeyGrinder Mar 2018 #21
For the majority of peopke it is very humiliating and they skulk out. TeamPooka Mar 2018 #34
Do they have to pay for what they've consumed first ? OnDoutside Mar 2018 #40
Never. But I've never personally witnessed misbehavior. I'm curious how they are ejected. rainin Mar 2018 #17
They are asked to leave without causing a scene tazkcmo Mar 2018 #20
we keep police dispatch # handy; multiple employees ask them to leave, if they don't we call cops. TheFrenchRazor Mar 2018 #28
wonderful..something all restaurants should adopt Demovictory9 Mar 2018 #24
I wonder if the managers are all male? FakeNoose Mar 2018 #25
The article said that at the time, the managers were male, which it saw as a problem. WhiskeyGrinder Mar 2018 #26
actually it said the shift managers were male but their supervisors were all women. TeamPooka Mar 2018 #35
I'm not clear on why it would be a problem for female managers to handle abusive customers. yardwork Mar 2018 #27
Switching genders zipplewrath Mar 2018 #42
If a manager is empowered to act against the abuse, that's what matters. yardwork Mar 2018 #43
Yahbut zipplewrath Mar 2018 #44
Exactly. yardwork Mar 2018 #45
Sounds like a great system. n/t MicaelS Mar 2018 #31
Awesome shenmue Mar 2018 #32
"acknowledges the differences... Beartracks Mar 2018 #36
K&R burrowowl Mar 2018 #37
Brilliant system Kentonio Mar 2018 #38
A local restaurant here in Charlottesville has a similar system for dealing with harassment of Nitram Mar 2018 #39
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