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(5,210 posts)You didn't take away his freedom. You prevented him from harming himself or others. You may have given him a real chance. The doctor's reaction to this scenario proves that you were the right person at the right time and in the right place. Thank heaven you were able to convince him to go in. You're a hero.
I can imagine your anguish must be terrible, but I hope you'll be able to see what a positive thing -- in the overview -- it really was. If he was a danger to himself or others, he might have ended up in prison (or dead, of course). That's not exactly what most people -- including your brother -- would think of as "freedom."
Be kind and understanding with yourself. Mourn and grieve if you want but also please focus on the positives -- they're very strong in this instance.
Big hugs.