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mnhtnbb

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11. I grew up in a Republican family.
Sat Oct 20, 2018, 03:42 PM
Oct 2018

Both my parents were die-hard Republicans.

When I came home from school and asked my mother--and her mother who was visiting us at the time--whether they'd heard the news and then told them that JFK had been assassinated, my mother said, "It's about time!". Her mother, my grandmother, was appalled.

I was the only person in the family glued to the TV that weekend. Everybody else acted like it was a normal weekend.

When Ronnie became president, my mother had a photo of him hung on our kitchen wall. I could hardly stand to be in the house by that time.

My brother has continued to be a die hard Republican. He supported the orange one. I no longer initiate any communication with him. Fortunately, it's easy since he lives in California and I live in North Carolina.

His children tell me that the reason he refuses to ever support anyone but Republicans is because of "taxes". It's all about the money with him and I believe it.

When I moved my father here (from CA) after my mom died I asked him if he would like to join me in a gift of money to the one aide in the nursing home where he lived (he had a post operative dementia and needed 24 hour care) who was always so nice to him--and his personal favorite--my brother declined. My brother never once--in almost 18 months my dad lived here before he died--came to visit him. Not once. And he traveled a lot for work. It wouldn't have been too difficult for him to stop over occasionally to see him. My brother once was making plans to come see me (years after our dad died) when he found out it would cost him an extra $900. to change his ticket and he told me "it wasn't worth it". I can't tell you how many times I flew at Christmas to visit him and brought one of our boys with me. I'm sure it cost me more than $900. over the years.

I can believe it. All about the money. Greedy.

Republicans hated JFK. madaboutharry Oct 2018 #1
Growing up, we never had a bottle of Hunt's Ketchup or anything else they sold in our house. mobeau69 Oct 2018 #4
What does that have to do with Kennedy assassination? wishstar Oct 2018 #13
Apparently my bad, wishstar. mobeau69 Oct 2018 #18
Good for you, Hunts ketchup sucks. MicaelS Oct 2018 #20
+1. Totally agree. n/t FSogol Oct 2018 #22
I don't understand comment jodymarie aimee Oct 2018 #32
Simple... MicaelS Oct 2018 #33
My family lived in Santa Maria CA. In 1963 MaryMagdaline Oct 2018 #2
I heard it on the radio, when I was 19, driving in Phoenix, AZ and had to Cha Oct 2018 #19
I was in Ca too (still am) going to a private elementary school in LA County Raine Oct 2018 #21
That still hurts me - the celebration of the kids MaryMagdaline Oct 2018 #23
It still bothers me, my parents were Nixon voters too Raine Oct 2018 #24
You're right. We knew it was evil MaryMagdaline Oct 2018 #31
The NFL played their full slate of games that weekend. mobeau69 Oct 2018 #3
Very little can stop the NFL Retrograde Oct 2018 #8
Pete Rozelle said that was the biggest mistake he ever made underpants Oct 2018 #9
Gilligan's Island underpants Oct 2018 #12
She was a moral monster in many ways, this is just one small tidbit of ugliness and selfishness. RockRaven Oct 2018 #5
also known as 'Nasty Nancy' empedocles Oct 2018 #6
Sounds like my mom. smirkymonkey Oct 2018 #17
At Thanksgiving, Ohiogal Oct 2018 #7
Yes, and with the new Cheney film coming out mountain grammy Oct 2018 #10
I grew up in a Republican family. mnhtnbb Oct 2018 #11
I remember reading an account of Ronnie & Nancy riding in a motorcade kskiska Oct 2018 #14
They were disgusting people, they were also actors who played as nice people. BeckyDem Oct 2018 #15
Doesn't surprise me. Power 2 the People Oct 2018 #16
Wasn't Nancy known for her 'oral' skills? keithbvadu2 Oct 2018 #25
So said, also was 'available' empedocles Oct 2018 #26
Good enough to convince Ronnie to get her off the black list Major Nikon Oct 2018 #34
Guess who else showed up for that party? no_hypocrisy Oct 2018 #27
Nancy always came off as a goody two shoes kimbutgar Oct 2018 #28
Ronnie didn't have a little to do with the pregnancy? TheBlackAdder Oct 2018 #35
I was in the 7th grade when the assassination happened... Rollo Oct 2018 #29
I was working Srkdqltr Oct 2018 #30
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