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In reply to the discussion: Not Excusing Northam, but I Have A Question [View all]spicysista
(1,663 posts)23. My standard of measurment is this.....
Has the person in question done the following: dealt with their personal issues, proactively talked (been candid) about their past, and taken steps prescribed by the offended party to make it better.
"The best way to move forward is to deal with your (not you, the offender in this scenario) personal shit. Take responsibility by proactively talking about your past, how you've grown, and learned from that past. You should also actively be a part of restoration and seek understanding by listening to the hurt party."
What has or hasn't happened between Hillary and Bill have nothing to do with this. That "one on one" between spouses is something I am not going to make a judgment about.... ever. This is why it was posed as a question.
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NAACP President - Northam should've disclosed past to everyone and not had a gotcha moment. The sin
uponit7771
Feb 2019
#1
I think Effie had a good point about his campaign team failing on this account
ProudLib72
Feb 2019
#5
No, you cannot absolve yourself. You make a racist comment or action, you are a racist. Period.
MadDAsHell
Feb 2019
#2
He could have brought it up himself, expressed shame for it, talked about how he evolved and grew
EffieBlack
Feb 2019
#8
You raised the issue of a spouse and infidelity. All I did was to respond to it.
Ms. Toad
Feb 2019
#35
When you use a rhetorical device as a means of illustrating the point that disclosure is better
Ms. Toad
Feb 2019
#37
I have no idea what pictures of me exist in my high school yearbook from 1987.
X_Digger
Feb 2019
#41