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In reply to the discussion: Pets are 'scared' and look around for their owners in dying moments. [View all]Politicub
(12,165 posts)to sleep because she was doubled over with tears. She loved her dog more than anything but couldnt bear to see the shot. He went very quickly.
When I read viral posts like this, that cast a blanket judgement across all pet owners, it makes me angry. The reason why it bothers me is that some pet owners will be tormented when they read it because it makes them feel as if they did something wrong. They can not go back in time and undo the moment.
Putting a pet down is heartbreaking. We all approach the ritual in different ways. Because someone wasnt in the room at the moment of dying does not detract from the beautiful memories of the experiences that dogs and their masters had. And sometimes people arent thinking at those final moments. Their mourning is just as valid.
I know everyones heart is in the right place, but please think twice about sharing content like this. You may be subjecting people to unnecessary guilt, torment and suffering after an already heartbreaking decision.