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iemitsu

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14. what a beautiful letter.
Thu Sep 27, 2012, 08:47 AM
Sep 2012

i hope you take it out and read it whenever you are feeling overwhelmed and picked upon.
i know what you mean when you say the letter validates you and the work you do.
i have received several letters like the one you shared and have heard from former students and their families, reporting on their growth and any influence i might have had on the direction of that growth.
i teach history. it is not always the favorite subject of high school students yet several former students of mine, who left high school to become mathematicians or engineers, ended up with history degrees. their parents were no doubt disappointed that they did not study something that could make them some money.
one story i think of when i need validation came from a conservative young man i had in class years ago. he questioned (politely) nearly everything i said in class. he was sure i was a crack-pot. he did well in high school and went on to study at MIT. after he graduated, got a masters and was working for google, his mother came to school and found me to tell me what her son had said. she told me he said that i had "asked him more critical thinking questions than any teacher he had had in college or graduate studies". and that he, "had learned to think for himself in my classroom and that i was smarter than he had thought". that was a great validation.
i was also ordained as an internet minister in order to officiate at the wedding of two former students, who had fallen in love in my class ten years earlier.
those sorts of incidents and bumping into former students or their families at the grocers and hearing updates about their lives fuels my ability to go to school each morning.
thank you so much for sharing.
i'm off to school in a good mood today.

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A letter I received from a former student: [View all] Are_grits_groceries Sep 2012 OP
That's beautiful ,what a thoughtful person.... orpupilofnature57 Sep 2012 #1
Plant a seed ... Martin Eden Sep 2012 #2
This letter validated Are_grits_groceries Sep 2012 #3
Priceless Gift Martin Eden Sep 2012 #31
you are more than an inspiring teacher you are also a wise individual. iemitsu Sep 2012 #50
Music to the ears of every teacher. Congratulations on a job LuckyLib Sep 2012 #4
Reading this makes you feel that your life was worth living, doesn't it? You must be some teacher! secondwind Sep 2012 #5
You know, overall I'm pretty gloomy about the outlook for the future. Selatius Sep 2012 #6
That's one hell of a thank you note lunatica Sep 2012 #7
Teachers matter, in a big way... nradisic Sep 2012 #8
That's the "Nobel Prize" in teaching ... it can make an entire career feel worthwhile. TahitiNut Sep 2012 #9
That one represents the 100's you hsve touched over psychmommy Sep 2012 #10
The way I like to think about it............ left on green only Sep 2012 #11
the gift that never stops giving msedano Sep 2012 #12
What a lovely letter. Arkansas Granny Sep 2012 #13
what a beautiful letter. iemitsu Sep 2012 #14
Fantastic lukkadairish Sep 2012 #15
What a wonderful tribute and what a teacher you must be! beac Sep 2012 #16
That speaks volumes about you. reflection Sep 2012 #17
If he/she only knew... kag Sep 2012 #18
that's a teacher's paycheck right there. MindPilot Sep 2012 #19
Lasting effects on both teacher and student... liam_laddie Sep 2012 #20
That's why you become a teacher. I have one on my facebook from a former student too. Suji to Seoul Sep 2012 #21
I have been making a conscious effort Ms. Toad Sep 2012 #22
I had several inspirational teachers in my life. CrispyQ Sep 2012 #23
Wow. I love this. FourScore Sep 2012 #24
'Fixin' to' Are_grits_groceries Sep 2012 #25
and this is why we love teachers! RepublicansRZombies Sep 2012 #26
That is awesome. Congratulations! Arugula Latte Sep 2012 #27
How nice! MuseRider Sep 2012 #28
My grandson's Third Grade teacher is the daughter of both his father's and uncle's... Tikki Sep 2012 #29
Pfft! I'm sure e-teachers will have just as much of an impact. ;) reformist2 Sep 2012 #30
The two of you are now on my hero list. IADEMO2004 Sep 2012 #32
Teachers are my heroes DollarBillHines Sep 2012 #33
Wow! That's GREAT! Sounds like it's well-deserved. You really made a difference. calimary Sep 2012 #34
k&r Liberal_in_LA Sep 2012 #35
As a former teacher SteveG Sep 2012 #36
The one question I remember from my Biology student teaching days. ErikJ Sep 2012 #37
you made a difference!!! nice lunasun Sep 2012 #38
Wow, that's some letter and I'm sure you were so touched to receive it. kas125 Sep 2012 #39
What better reference could you ever wish for....... Smilo Sep 2012 #40
ooops, something in my eye again. Raster Sep 2012 #41
I have that same thing happening.. Cha Sep 2012 #44
Wow. Congrats! SunSeeker Sep 2012 #42
Very cool! XemaSab Sep 2012 #43
Awesome. I have a few of those myself that I should send out. nt Barack_America Sep 2012 #45
Twenty years later! Awesome Cha Sep 2012 #46
Truly, truly inspiring... MrMickeysMom Sep 2012 #47
Ya done good..... DeSwiss Sep 2012 #48
From a former student... eepatt Sep 2012 #49
a wonderful commemorative cartoon. iemitsu Sep 2012 #51
That is so impressive; makes it all worthwhile, I bet. babylonsister Sep 2012 #52
You Know What That Is? BadGimp Sep 2012 #53
Just a question... Ztolkins Sep 2012 #54
Yes. Are_grits_groceries Sep 2012 #55
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