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wnylib

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12. That happened to my brother, too.
Fri Jan 29, 2021, 04:01 PM
Jan 2021

He was always a Republican, but not always an extremist. He was older than me, so he was in the military while I was still in high school. He stayed in the service and made it his career (non-com).

I remember him emphasizing to me when I took civics that the civilian leadership of the military, by the CIC, prevented military dictatorships. When he returned from 2 years in Vietnam, he was disturbed that anti war protesters were villified and arrested. He said that he fought for the free speech of everyone.

When changing the voting age from 21 to 18 was being discussed, he opposed it in the belief that 18 year olds were not mature enough to make such important decisions. He asked me if I wanted to see a rock star or a TV or film actor in the White House, which he said was the kind of choice 18 year olds would make.

Then, in 1980, he voted proudly for Reagan. My brother was 37 at the time, old enough by his prior reasoning to know better. Later, he became a staunch supporter of Trump. For the sake of peace in the family, I ignored his political comments and focused solely on family news when talking to him. But one day his comments were so outrageous that I responded with my views, very strongly. He stopped all contact with me.

A few weeks later he died.

My SIL said he had become radicalized by pamphlets he brought home that had been distributed among the military, years before he retired. Then he followed those groups online.

He had gone from a rational conservative to a radicalized extremist.

My Brother's rant on FB [View all] flotsam Jan 2021 OP
THIS !!! Progressive Jones Jan 2021 #1
yup... you deserve a hug handmade34 Jan 2021 #2
Amazing, I wish my brother felt this way. redstatebluegirl Jan 2021 #3
That happened to my brother, too. wnylib Jan 2021 #12
I voted for Richard Nixon while stationed in Nam RVN VET71 Jan 2021 #18
I don't think it was disillusionment wnylib Jan 2021 #19
A shame. I'm sorry to hear about his struggles. RVN VET71 Jan 2021 #26
Goldwater to Sanders is definitely a change wnylib Jan 2021 #29
I remember the concerns about the bomb RVN VET71 Jan 2021 #31
I grew up in a very Democratic city, Erie, PA. wnylib Jan 2021 #32
I shared your outrage about Watergate when it first appeared in the media RVN VET71 Jan 2021 #34
I voted for Obama in the 2008 primary. wnylib Jan 2021 #35
Patriots? Traildogbob Jan 2021 #4
Also it is wrong to try to kill a police officer with one RVN VET71 Jan 2021 #16
That issue - admittedly a side issue in this current political climate - just chaps my ass. BobTheSubgenius Jan 2021 #20
Not a flag worshipper. Traildogbob Jan 2021 #21
The truth malaise Jan 2021 #5
I'm sorry flotsam Jan 2021 #6
yes. AllaN01Bear Jan 2021 #7
Excellent! KT2000 Jan 2021 #8
National Service ad121rome Jan 2021 #9
Thank your brother for his service for us and our Country here on DU. And thank you for the rant, SWBTATTReg Jan 2021 #10
Just losers and suckers to Cadet Bonespurs. Not to us. Evolve Dammit Jan 2021 #11
I hate that song, it's the White Nationalist anthem. Fake patriots. Pepsidog Jan 2021 #13
My brother likes it flotsam Jan 2021 #14
I loved it to before Trump appropriated it and played it before all his rallies. Pepsidog Jan 2021 #22
I try not to allow shit heads to determine what I appreciate. 11 Bravo Jan 2021 #24
Me too NHvet Jan 2021 #15
🤜🏼🤛🏼 Traildogbob Jan 2021 #23
I don't hate the song, just what they have done in co-opting it. soldierant Jan 2021 #25
+ many! N/T flotsam Jan 2021 #28
KnR. nt iluvtennis Jan 2021 #17
excellent rant Skittles Jan 2021 #27
👍🏻👏🏻 Meowmee Jan 2021 #30
Good rant. PatrickforO Jan 2021 #33
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