I generally do not blame the parents. (Reply #55)

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Sat Dec 4, 2021, 11:24 AM

NH Ethylene (30,738 posts)

55. I generally do not blame the parents.

For the very reasons you stated. As a mother I did my very best, and then hoped for the best. This could happen to anyone and seems to be more a function of the child's mental health and his school life environment than upbringing.

But I've read certain details in support of the charge of the parents that indicate that because of a pro-gun zealotry they were blind to danger signs that predicted what was to come.

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62 replies	Author	Time	Post
One small consolation about the killer's parents going on the lam is that when they are found, [View all]	RockRaven	Dec 2021	OP
Not to mention that they will very likely face FEDERAL charges (if they crossed state lines)	hlthe2b	Dec 2021	#1
What federal charge?	PTWB	Dec 2021	#40
18 U.S. Code § 1073 - Flight to avoid prosecution or giving testimony	hlthe2b	Dec 2021	#50
I don't see how they statute is applicable. Did you cite the correct one?	PTWB	Dec 2021	#51
I said IF they had crossed state lines. Evading a valid state arrest warrant across state lines	hlthe2b	Dec 2021	#56
You said it was "very likely" that they'd be charged federally.	PTWB	Dec 2021	#57
Citing Frank Figliuzzi on Joy Reid last night. So argue with a 25+ year FBI veteran.	hlthe2b	Dec 2021	#58
LOL	PTWB	Dec 2021	#59
That is NOT what I said and I don't get your problem but I'm done with your misstating	hlthe2b	Dec 2021	#60
That's exactly what you said.	PTWB	Dec 2021	#61
Alright brother, I've just got to respond once more.	PTWB	Dec 2021	#62
Kick this one.	Kingofalldems	Dec 2021	#2
...	Crepuscular	Dec 2021	#3
I'm thinking Florida.	BlackSkimmer	Dec 2021	#4
...	Crepuscular	Dec 2021	#5
I'm hoping to wake up and find they're in custody.	BlackSkimmer	Dec 2021	#10
They used to live in Florida, so yes that is a good possibility.	Irish_Dem	Dec 2021	#34
classic likeness-" TFG" ??	monkeyman1	Dec 2021	#37
Small Wisconsin and Michigan towns are the worst to hide in.	Irish_Dem	Dec 2021	#7
...	Crepuscular	Dec 2021	#9
Maybe, maybe not. My mother's family lives up in northern very rural Wisconsin.	Irish_Dem	Dec 2021	#13
...	Crepuscular	Dec 2021	#15
I like this idea, but yes the reward is the problem.	Irish_Dem	Dec 2021	#25
Also: They will have to get a new vehicle, everyone is going to be looking for their car.	Irish_Dem	Dec 2021	#16
...	Crepuscular	Dec 2021	#19
How many people could come up with a good spur of the moment escape plan?	Irish_Dem	Dec 2021	#28
Depends on how far north.	LeftInTX	Dec 2021	#48
Yes one area is just above your line.	Irish_Dem	Dec 2021	#52
Not to be too much of a snark	relayerbob	Dec 2021	#27
We're trying to dumb down our thought processes, but it is hard to get to Magat level.	Irish_Dem	Dec 2021	#33
Very true	relayerbob	Dec 2021	#36
$4000	FelineOverlord	Dec 2021	#6
Won't last long.	Irish_Dem	Dec 2021	#8
Yeah, that amount of money won't last them long.	BlackSkimmer	Dec 2021	#11
They need to ditch their Michigan plates.	Captain Zero	Dec 2021	#22
I would think they would have to ditch their car too.	Irish_Dem	Dec 2021	#29
They are compounding the pain	Deuxcents	Dec 2021	#12
Families that go to prison together stay together	tenderfoot	Dec 2021	#14
It Also Undermines Their Defense (Whatever That Will Be)	ChoppinBroccoli	Dec 2021	#17
Yep. Flight is considered an admission of guilt	Walleye	Dec 2021	#20
They will claim they feared for their lives. And were victims of a politcal witch hunt.	Irish_Dem	Dec 2021	#30
The last manhunt for two people at this high-profile a level was for	bullwinkle428	Dec 2021	#18
As long as no LEOs are harmed, I don't care how they bring this trash down. nt	Progressive Jones	Dec 2021	#21
I can see them going down in a gunfight	Captain Zero	Dec 2021	#23
If the FBI kills them, it would save taxpayers money.	roamer65	Dec 2021	#26
I wonder if they have guns with them?	Irish_Dem	Dec 2021	#32
Ending up in a boat being shot almost to death by Boston's Finest.	Irish_Dem	Dec 2021	#31
No! Remember Brian Laundrie in September???	LeftInTX	Dec 2021	#49
Recommended.	H2O Man	Dec 2021	#24
Up to $10,000 reward now.	moondust	Dec 2021	#35
I can't imagine taking off like that when your own child needs you more than ever.	NH Ethylene	Dec 2021	#38
This. Their behavior is beyond reprehensible. nt	crickets	Dec 2021	#39
You know	EndlessWire	Dec 2021	#42
I don't really feel any sympathy for them. Why leave your child in this situation - ever?	crickets	Dec 2021	#44
I don't feel sympathy for the kid.	EndlessWire	Dec 2021	#46
Sounds like the prosecutor did screw up.	crickets	Dec 2021	#47
I don't either but normal parents would (I think!).	NH Ethylene	Dec 2021	#54
You don't think they would have gotten bail?	NH Ethylene	Dec 2021	#53
The worst disaster of his life??	EndlessWire	Dec 2021	#45
I generally do not blame the parents.	NH Ethylene	Dec 2021	#55
So let me get this straight -	NutmegYankee	Dec 2021	#41
This message was self-deleted by its author	ExTex	Dec 2021	#43

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