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In reply to the discussion: Are women in the 2012 United States a minority group? [View all]MellowDem
(5,018 posts)I think the best thing that could happen is for more men to recognize their disadvantages for being male. It would make it easier to recognize their privileges by at least recognizing that society promotes certian inequalities.
Recognizing one's privileges, no matter where they come from, is generally harder to do than one's underprivilege or disadvantage.
I think anyone who says that males cannot be underprivileged or disadvantaged as a group are not only wrong, but being counterproductive by sort of encouraging men to be in the dark about privilege. (This goes for other groups as well, like whites)
And women (as well as men) need to be more aware of their privileges.
Males generally have the most privileges in most situations in the US at this time between genders, though not always and not in all areas. Some of them are even aware of the disadvantages of being male. Instead of telling males that they have no disadvantages, which isn't true, it should be embraced by others that they have disadvantages, then used as a way to explain that many other groups (like women) face even greater disadvantages, things that they don't have to, things, which in fact, are privileges.
If their disadvantages aren't aknowledged or are dismissed out of hand, you're going to have a hard time having them recognize your disadvantages, or even the whole system of inequality and privilege.
Hell, it's bad enough that many people are too proud in the US to even admit that our society has privileges and disadvantaged groups.