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crunch60

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32. I agree with you Lionessa, we just don't know. I supported a young
Sat Oct 27, 2012, 03:35 AM
Oct 2012

nephew of mine for many years (emotionally) through his bipolar episodes, depression, alcoholism, and extremely difficult times. He felt abused and neglected by his parents, (although there was no physical abuse) he came to dislike both of them intensely. I never said to him, "you shouldn't feel like that". To deny him his feelings would have been insulting.
I did talk to him about his chemical addiction to alcohol, and after years, he is sober.. for about 8 years now. He finally found a wonderful woman to share his life with and they are very happy, and I am extremely happy for both of them. I said to him often, "don't worry, some of us are late bloomers".

He will always have bouts of serious depression, I know that. One day at a time.

Having had Lionessa Oct 2012 #1
It is important that you can share your feelings, because most people do care. Democratopia Oct 2012 #11
I am the same and I don't understand it. My husband has never been suicidal a day in his life. LittlestStar Oct 2012 #17
The only reason I hated to leave my children was because I knew my hub who became my ex would Lionessa Oct 2012 #20
So well said. I hear you... OneGrassRoot Oct 2012 #55
I'm an outlier in society but I agree. For some suicide is just relief. riderinthestorm Oct 2012 #2
I think there are other ways to escape. Democratopia Oct 2012 #12
I think before you can say there are other ways, you'd have to know and experience what Lionessa Oct 2012 #25
((((HUGS))))) I am sorry. LiberalLoner Oct 2012 #38
I am sorry. What would your advice be to my friend? Democratopia Oct 2012 #51
With so little information about your friend, Lionessa Oct 2012 #53
I, too, am ambivalent about it HeiressofBickworth Oct 2012 #3
How utterly sane Ruby the Liberal Oct 2012 #6
Oregon and Washington states allow assisted suicide. dixiegrrrrl Oct 2012 #28
Did not know that. Thanks! Ruby the Liberal Oct 2012 #44
And Washington is voting on marijuana legalization in Nov. dixiegrrrrl Oct 2012 #47
I hear ya. Ruby the Liberal Oct 2012 #56
Montana, Oregon and Washington offer physician-assisted suicide nt crunch60 Oct 2012 #31
Thanks. Ruby the Liberal Oct 2012 #45
The pain of depression is infinitely stronger than physical pain. xfundy Oct 2012 #4
WTH do you0 mean by elehhhhna Oct 2012 #8
That's OK, ele. It's a lightning rod issue for sure... WhaTHellsgoingonhere Oct 2012 #9
We never know what it is like to be another person, to feel another person's pain Democratopia Oct 2012 #16
Agreed Democratopia srichardson Oct 2012 #34
If you worked at one of those places Confusious Oct 2012 #36
I am so sorry for your loss. Ruby the Liberal Oct 2012 #5
This understanding helps in dealing with unwanted thoughts... inamatteroftime Oct 2012 #7
My best friend for 45 years etherealtruth Oct 2012 #10
I am sorry to hear that about your friend Democratopia Oct 2012 #14
Thank you for your kind words of consolation etherealtruth Oct 2012 #42
That is a tough job you have, and I am sure it is heartbreaking when you lose a patient. Democratopia Oct 2012 #13
Do you have any idea how insulting your comment is? Lionessa Oct 2012 #21
I agree with you Lionessa, we just don't know. I supported a young crunch60 Oct 2012 #32
+1 LiberalLoner Oct 2012 #39
I suffer from depression Bradical79 Oct 2012 #15
As someone that has been hospitalized Qanisqineq Oct 2012 #18
I don't understand why so many people in America suffer from Depression. progressivebydesign Oct 2012 #19
I think perhaps it's because of the difference between possibility and reality. Lionessa Oct 2012 #22
I'm not sure that's entirely true. hunter Oct 2012 #23
Just because you're suppose to feel something liberal_at_heart Oct 2012 #29
You sound pretty normal to me, whe the hell is "Happy" all the time. If they say they are, crunch60 Oct 2012 #33
thank you liberal_at_heart Oct 2012 #49
Actually, the U.S. is 38th in suicide rates of countries. dixiegrrrrl Oct 2012 #30
Probably mutiple reasons Confusious Oct 2012 #37
I have suffered from depression and anxiety for more than half of my life davidpdx Oct 2012 #24
My husband has had these thoughts before liberal_at_heart Oct 2012 #26
People do not usually kill themselves while depressed - it's right after their depression. Michigan Alum Oct 2012 #27
This past year Le Taz Hot Oct 2012 #35
When I was severely depressed, Are_grits_groceries Oct 2012 #40
That's how I feel liberal_at_heart Oct 2012 #48
I am deeply moved by all of you and want to thank you all for sharing. WhaTHellsgoingonhere Oct 2012 #41
I really have a hard time wrapping my brain around Depression. Odin2005 Oct 2012 #43
I suffered from depression since middle school. Jennicut Oct 2012 #46
Let's just be clear too about one thing here, please. Lionessa Oct 2012 #50
Ok, my perspective. easttexaslefty Oct 2012 #52
People who commit suicide don't want to die...they don't want to live. Tierra_y_Libertad Oct 2012 #54
I think I understand. I certainly empathize. I however am not ambivalent dmallind Oct 2012 #57
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