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Bernardo de La Paz

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20. Exactly. He's been hurt for a long time; meth & religion is latest phase (years long phase)
Thu Nov 24, 2022, 12:57 PM
Nov 2022

But I don't really know, do I? Especially at this point. And I'm unlikely to have much further interest in the manly man.

I don't know how he was hurt, perhaps by his parents, the point being that it is passed down through generations. He passed it on down to his son, who last year terrorized his mother. So I suspect he was hurt before his son was born.

The meth is deeply symptomatic of self-medication and impulse joy-seeking (unable to postpone gratification). Hence him saying "I said to him 'Violence works. It gets immediate results'". People with injuries more or less along the psychopathic or narcissistic (unempathic) spectrum/axis are like that.

When violence is passed down psychologically to children it is a form of injury. As if a parent broke a kid's ankle and forced them to walk on it until it healed mangled and pointing to the side.

Whether it is an injury inflicted on a person, or congenital (in the brain), the person needs help coping, at least, and maybe remissive treatment if applicable. Whoever they are. So that these psychological injuries are not passed on down to progeny.

But Republicans, and the meth-addled dad is proudly claiming place in the Republiconned, the Republiconners are 100% opposed to taxpaid healing.

IANAP. I am not a psychologist. But I think the perspective is consistent.
So Mormons don't do gay, just porn? Ocelot II Nov 2022 #1
Since they were estranged for years, the son probably learned his values from others. jimfields33 Nov 2022 #10
Sounds like dear old dad taught him to use violence to get what he wants. Hassin Bin Sober Nov 2022 #12
Yes, he said he told his son "Violence works. It gets immediate results" Bernardo de La Paz Nov 2022 #16
"We don't do gay.....but we absolutely do porn." tanyev Nov 2022 #2
Don't forget the meth ... but I suspect his is a case where he was 'saved' by Mormons Hugh_Lebowski Nov 2022 #7
Dang, that's a rough 48. aeromanKC Nov 2022 #3
We do murder malaise Nov 2022 #4
We do murder malaise Nov 2022 #5
Ack... crystal meth, indeed. David__77 Nov 2022 #6
Honestly I watched a lot of the interview with this guy and I was almost equally sad as I was mad Hugh_Lebowski Nov 2022 #14
"Hurt people hurt people". Republiconned want zero taxpaid healing. Because greed, not jesus. . nt Bernardo de La Paz Nov 2022 #17
I hear you but when I watched the interview, felt like this guy is messed up to the point where Hugh_Lebowski Nov 2022 #18
Exactly. He's been hurt for a long time; meth & religion is latest phase (years long phase) Bernardo de La Paz Nov 2022 #20
Gay bad. Murderer okay. CrispyQ Nov 2022 #8
I know gay Mormons, and gay conservatives. apcalc Nov 2022 #9
There's only been a handful of legit 'porn stars' who are male ... Hugh_Lebowski Nov 2022 #11
Former MMA fighter.... albacore Nov 2022 #13
I'm assuming he was just as big of an asshole when he had his faculties. Trenzalore Nov 2022 #15
Is the shooter non-binary? I thought that was just a statement his lawyer put out? brewens Nov 2022 #19
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