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wnylib

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28. When I met my second husband, back in the 1970s, he was a grad student
Thu Jun 29, 2023, 06:36 PM
Jun 2023

at a Catholic college that actively recruited minorities, most of whom were Black. Some of them came from disadvantaged backgrounds in NYC. They had leadership qualities and the potential for doing well in college, but the schools in the poor neighborhoods where they grew up were substandard. There were academic subjects and course material that they never were exposed to at their high schools.

So the college had a program of intensive tutoring over the summer, after the students had been accepted, to bring them up to par on subjects they needed for success in college. My then boyfriend (later husband) was a tutor for those students. During each semester, the college had a learning center for all students to get help in any subject that they needed help in. Then, on winter break and in the summer, students from disadvantaged backgrounds could again work on subject areas that they had missed in high school.

It was not a "handout" or "racial favoritism." Those kids worked hard over the summer while others were hanging out on beaches or focused on dating. The students had the intelligence and persistent goal orientation to succeed. They only lacked preparation, through no fault of their own. They did well in their college studies.

At the end of her address on the end of affirmative action for colleges, Michelle mentioned scholarship programs established for specific student groups, e.g. Native Americans and African Americans. She asked that people donate to those programs. That will help students who need financial help for college.

But there is a need for other programs, too, to help fill the gap between students whose parents can pay for tutors to prepare their kids for entrance exams and interviews, and those families who lack the funds for such additional tutoring. There is also still a need for programs to help promising students get the course material that was missing in their high schools.

So, I believe that everyone who believes in equal opportunities can donate time and money to establish tutoring programs staffed with volunteers to prepare minority students for entrance exams, interviews, and any subject material missing from their high schools.

When minorities have equal preparation and funding, they can compete with non minority students on an equal basis. Colleges will have no excuse for not accepting them.




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K&R...... Lovie777 Jun 2023 #1
K and R Diamond_Dog Jun 2023 #2
So well said, cilla4progress Jun 2023 #3
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A thoughtful and classy person as always. pandr32 Jun 2023 #6
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And even after getting in and holding their own gratuitous Jun 2023 #9
Such a thoughtful and hopeful post! She always brings the light to us. ♥ CaliforniaPeggy Jun 2023 #10
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I like it this posting. republianmushroom Jun 2023 #13
Post removed Post removed Jun 2023 #14
So, what are you thanking Michelle for? wnylib Jun 2023 #26
pointing out how she wondered if others thought she got in to college cause of affirmative action AlexSFCA Jun 2023 #31
But that was not the point that Michelle was making, so wnylib Jun 2023 #33
If racially America had a fair starting point I'd agree but we don't and the consequence to this ... uponit7771 Jun 2023 #40
So...FYI...race is constantly a factor in everything Artcatt Jun 2023 #41
But but but The Jungle 1 Jun 2023 #15
Ayep. Solomon Jun 2023 #32
I had to look up Ayep. The Jungle 1 Jun 2023 #38
Kick. N/T Upthevibe Jun 2023 #16
K&R! burrowowl Jun 2023 #17
She's amazing as always SouthernDem4ever Jun 2023 #18
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Good news, everyone! Racism is over! /s Oneironaut Jun 2023 #20
I'm just now hearing about this, but this is a huge setback ecstatic Jun 2023 #21
The third paragraph is the main point Leith Jun 2023 #22
Well stated @Leith. n/t iluvtennis Jun 2023 #24
Thanks Leith Jun 2023 #25
Proud Americans tdot_steel Jun 2023 #23
K&R! Thanks! Rhiannon12866 Jun 2023 #27
When I met my second husband, back in the 1970s, he was a grad student wnylib Jun 2023 #28
This! happy feet Jun 2023 #42
To make this happen, communities around the country wnylib Jun 2023 #43
If you think THAT'S good... dchill Jun 2023 #29
❤️ That woman is a national treasure. BComplex Jun 2023 #30
The Thurgood Marshall College Fund... RainCaster Jun 2023 #34
The colleges need to turbocharge affirmative action based on economic disadvantage. SunSeeker Jun 2023 #35
Anyone who opposes affirmative action on the grounds soldierant Jun 2023 #36
Those are some very worthy organizations. calimary Jun 2023 #37
She writes about her years at Princeton in her book Becoming. madaboutharry Jun 2023 #39
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