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8. It was investigated by the state
Sat May 18, 2024, 11:35 AM
May 2024

I never sued but I didn't back down and fought. The Union had an incredible lawyer, as did I, who guided me through the fight and saved me more than once. I was only fired for two weeks and eventually, my case was used in the US Supreme Court (Bostick vs. Clayton County) in an Amicus Brief by Southern Poverty Law Center where I was used as an example of how badly LGBTQ employees could be treated. My case was so clear. The district put me forward for Teacher of the Year and were interviewed as part of the process. The superintendent said I was the best teacher the district had ever had, then I said I was gay, then I was fired, breaking several labor laws to do so. I was never written up, I was never in trouble, I was the first special ed teacher to be not only the Teacher of the Year but also the Union's Educator of Excellence all things my district was part of and then fired.

It all played out in the press with headlines like "Emails show district tried to blackmail Teacher of the Year" and "BOLI (Bureau of Labor and Industries) finds 'substantial evidence of discrimination" against Teacher of the Year.

I never sued though. I wanted the laws to change to keep it from happening to other people. I didn't want their money.

The district did a deep cleaning after this all happened. The superintendent was fired and everyone in the chain of command was removed, demoted or fled (except for the one person who I still have full respect for-they were not part of what happened to me, despite him being the person who fired me. Not long after all of this hit the papers, the school board got obliterated in the election and new blood at that level, did even more house cleaning.

After the Supreme Court ruling, the district also put out an apology to me. It was all new leadership, and the union had proudly shared how the district had done some very deep cleaning and had become a whole new place to work. Mind you, what happened to me stemmed from a couple of administrators doing the wrong thing. The people at that district work with the most in-need groups of. young people who you will meet. They are heroes and should be celebrated and not pilloried because of a few bad apples, who just happened to be at the top of the barrel instead of the bottom.

Outstanding. Congratulations and thank you. underpants May 2024 #1
How mean and cruel people can be. That school administration needs to be sued. 1WorldHope May 2024 #2
I did not sue them, I fought them Teacher of the Year May 2024 #3
I'm glad to hear that most of them were voted out! 1WorldHope May 2024 #7
Thank you! Teacher of the Year May 2024 #47
Good for you and your husband. Thank you. Biophilic May 2024 #4
I encourage you to write the story of yours (and your other half too) and get it printed. Such bigotry and hatred SWBTATTReg May 2024 #5
It was investigated by the state Teacher of the Year May 2024 #8
O got curious and googled Bostick vs. Clayton County. ShazzieB May 2024 #26
What a heartfelt, sad but beautiful story. Fla Dem May 2024 #6
We've never even had a fight. Teacher of the Year May 2024 #9
I am in awe of your courage and determination. MLAA May 2024 #10
What I lack for in smarts, I make up in determination Teacher of the Year May 2024 #19
Welcome to D.U. orangecrush May 2024 #11
I'm an old-timer on here... but I stopped posting for most of a decade. Teacher of the Year May 2024 #20
i think I recently read your post soldierant May 2024 #34
Well thanks for your courage SomedayKindaLove May 2024 #45
My brother came out, only after my dad passed away. ... aggiesal May 2024 #12
Thank you for your testimony - TBF May 2024 #13
Very lovely, thank you. Teacher of the Year May 2024 #21
Thank you for your courage. multigraincracker May 2024 #14
Stop with the closet attraction myth. NanaCat May 2024 #41
I tell you...You are one brave person. It's people like you that actually make.. chouchou May 2024 #15
Thank you for those kind words. I'm plenty bullheaded Teacher of the Year May 2024 #28
I'm on your side. demigoddess May 2024 #16
Should be treated equally LiberalFighter May 2024 #17
It's the equality. They can't stand it. Whatthe_Firetruck May 2024 #35
It's rooted in patriarchy YodaMom2 May 2024 #55
Congratulations DeeDeeNY May 2024 #18
Thank you for telling your story mountain grammy May 2024 #22
I'd do anything for the Marks out there. Teacher of the Year May 2024 #33
Your supervisor thought it was appropriate PoindexterOglethorpe May 2024 #23
A few months before, in a meeting with all of my staff that I oversaw Teacher of the Year May 2024 #40
Did you out her for trying to cover up her past NanaCat May 2024 #42
High praise for your courage BaronChocula May 2024 #24
You won the good fight. I'm in awe. quaint May 2024 #25
I was really honored they included me. Teacher of the Year May 2024 #37
I'm choked up by this post. Thank you for sharing. jmbar2 May 2024 #27
Teaching is a sacred thing. A good teacher creates ripples in the lives of his or her students PatrickforB May 2024 #29
These damn bigots are so cruel! They don't care at all about all the suffering they cause. Dave Bowman May 2024 #30
Wow moose65 May 2024 #31
That's sad, and beautiful. Thank you. NT Happy Hoosier May 2024 #32
This is a story that needs to be told. Thank you for returning and sharing it here. N/t Iris May 2024 #36
I know what I would want to say to that supervisor dai13sy May 2024 #38
Thank you so much. My uncle (and godfather) was a gay teacher. TygrBright May 2024 #39
🌈This Hekate May 2024 #50
I see myself as standing on the shoulders of giants. Teacher of the Year May 2024 #51
Happy anniversary! Wild blueberry May 2024 #43
BRAVO Faux pas May 2024 #44
Gay people can become Secretary of Transportation. Wednesdays May 2024 #46
Thank you for this story and your courage FirstLight May 2024 #48
I am so very glad you have returned to DU & are writing here again. I hope you are saving all your essays for a book. Hekate May 2024 #49
I'vehad a couple of book offers Teacher of the Year May 2024 #52
I do understand Hekate May 2024 #56
Congratulations on you anniversary and your hard-fought victory dlk May 2024 #53
Thanks so much for sharing your story. MrsCheaplaugh May 2024 #54
"My shy husband, traumatized by all the cameras, looked at me and said, "I have waited a long time to marry you." calimary May 2024 #57
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