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MineralMan

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Wed Oct 16, 2024, 11:43 AM Oct 2024

How Can People Hate Other People They Don't Even Know? [View all]

I've never understood that. They might hate people who look different than they do. They might hate people who do not speak the same language they do. They might hate people who have different body parts than they do or who use those parts differently.

They might hate people who don't worship the same deities as themselves, or who worship no deities at all They might hate people who treat other people differently than they do. They might even hate people who drive a different kind of car than they do, or support some different sports team, for goodness' sake.

Somehow, I can't hate someone I don't even know. I can only hate people I do know if they are hateful to others. And even then, I'm going to cut them some slack in hopes they stop doing that. I can hate people who harm other people out of blind hatred. I do hate people who do that.

But, I have to think long and hard before committing to hating anyone. I have to have full justification for that emotion. Hate is a self-destructive emotion. It is best avoided altogether.

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In most cases it's called prejudice....... Lovie777 Oct 2024 #1
I think part of the reason they hate, other than the fact that it feels good, is that it puts them in a club Walleye Oct 2024 #2
Some people need a scapegoat. applegrove Oct 2024 #3
Nixon said, "Others will hate you . . . John1956PA Oct 2024 #4
Tribalism, it's been going on for thousands of years. jalan48 Oct 2024 #5
Hunter-gatherers first launched violent raids at least 13,400 years ago Jim__ Oct 2024 #13
Thanks for the article. We've been brutalizing one another for a long time jalan48 Oct 2024 #30
It will be nice to get back to life BT, before trump. pwb Oct 2024 #6
Seems like it's generally easier to hate (and fear) those one doesn't know 0rganism Oct 2024 #7
Exactly. TomSlick Oct 2024 #18
It's the only way for some to feel good about themselves. chowder66 Oct 2024 #8
I'm with you, I don't understand blind hatred. lees1975 Oct 2024 #9
Fear. They've been persuaded that those *other* people will cause harm to them, Ocelot II Oct 2024 #10
"You've Got to be Carefully Taught" NameAlreadyTaken Oct 2024 #11
You beat me to it! NT susanr516 Oct 2024 #33
People are not born to HATE, they are TAUGHT or TOLD who to hate. ProudMNDemocrat Oct 2024 #12
"Now, I don't hate anybody, cloudbase Oct 2024 #14
That's the main reason they hate. GaYellowDawg Oct 2024 #15
Beats me. -misanthroptimist Oct 2024 #16
It's pretty easy. maxsolomon Oct 2024 #17
I don't know trump, but I HATE HIM krawhitham Oct 2024 #19
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You are back again! sheshe2 Oct 2024 #23
... littlemissmartypants Oct 2024 #24
Tee hee hee 😉 sheshe2 Oct 2024 #25
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Hello !! Back again I see. GP6971 Oct 2024 #32
Hate destroys your center. haele Oct 2024 #21
Darwinian ethnocentrism: It has served a purpose for most of our human history: Tribal preservation lindysalsagal Oct 2024 #22
If you think you need to hate other people randr Oct 2024 #26
It is entirely trivial to hate people you don't know. Voltaire2 Oct 2024 #27
How do you feel about people that take your rights away? Freethinker65 Oct 2024 #28
Help me understand. FalloutShelter Oct 2024 #29
The most important aspect of hate is fear. Ping Tung Oct 2024 #34
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