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Johnny2X2X

(24,440 posts)
55. I'll never forget orientation for college
Mon Aug 4, 2025, 12:34 PM
Aug 2025

Was a big fair, with booths and giveaways all over campus. They were giving you literal cash to sign up for credit cards. "Want $20? Here, just sign up for this card and you can have this $20 bill." So I did, and didn't use the card for a while, then the end of semester one year I ran out of food so I used the card, but just for food...and then to help pay for books the next semester. I carried that debt for years.

And then I got my first job out of college, first order was to finally pay those cards off. Until my car needed new brakes and then a new transmission. Next thing you know, that $1200 in credit card debt was $5500. Finally, paid it down to $1000,saw the end in sight, then my dog got sick and needed surgery, $1200 here, $800 there. Dog passed, had to put it's final pink shot on a card as well as cremation.

Then I started to make some real money, go some savings, cards being paid down. Car repair, oops, cards back higher. And then the big one, our adopted terrier diagnosed with cancer and given 4-6 months to live without treatment. Best dog ever. No way could I let her go at 5 years old. $3200 for surgery, $2400 for Chemo, another $2900 for a 2nd round of chemo. $2000K for other vet bills. Best $10K I ever charged in my life, she turned 12 this Spring.

Was chipping away at it for a good couple years solid, then I got a promotion at work that put me in the bonus program, that first bonus was $12,000 take home, presto, no more credit card debt. Step 2 was get $10K in the bank, done. Step 3 was to get 6 months bills into savings, just got there.

Would have been nice to have folks that I could turn to for emergency expenses in college or shortly after, but that wasn't my situation. Sure, I did make some mistakes. And I learned some good lessons from those mistakes. But I can probably count on 1 hand the times I used a credit card for anything but an emergency or absolute necessity like food or gas.

DU has an older crowd, many people are well off because they're later in their careers like I am. And I am pretty financially astute now, but I am not going to look down on people who have a bunch of debt on cards because I don't know their situation and I was there myself. And I was fairly disciplined, but more than anything I was able to pay them off just because I got further in my career.

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I've paid zero interest for 55 years. Gimpyknee Aug 2025 #1
But that shiny new phone is So Fine. speak easy Aug 2025 #2
So are groceries and medical costs obamanut2012 Aug 2025 #6
But ... TikTok! speak easy Aug 2025 #18
+1000 Johnny2X2X Aug 2025 #19
Hard to save up enough to buy a home or a car MichMan Aug 2025 #46
The trick to the car is to get ahead of the game. Happy Hoosier Aug 2025 #58
Ditto if I can't pay for it at the end of the month I won't charge on a credit card. kimbutgar Aug 2025 #51
Nope Torchlight Aug 2025 #65
I have racked up some credit card debt. Morbius Aug 2025 #3
Hey, this is a good reason to 'borrow', you're fixing your livelihood. There are some valid reasons to borrow. SWBTATTReg Aug 2025 #56
Why don't people learn?? lastlib Aug 2025 #4
What if I can't? Morbius Aug 2025 #7
Transfer the debt NJCher Aug 2025 #30
Transfer to a credit union, better deal and rates. Don't underestimate the power and leverage Hotler Aug 2025 #42
The hard (but so often true) answer... FBaggins Aug 2025 #63
Sometimes you don't have a choice. Grokenstein Aug 2025 #10
I do that whenever I can. GoCubsGo Aug 2025 #27
I'm a banker. It's not that people do not want EllieBC Aug 2025 #60
Ditto. Every account is paid down to ZERO every month. Oopsie Daisy Aug 2025 #5
We're at that point for the 99.9% of our credit card use... SickOfTheOnePct Aug 2025 #14
Our new windows had an "interest free financing" offer which we accepted... Oopsie Daisy Aug 2025 #24
Exactly! SickOfTheOnePct Aug 2025 #39
What we found to be annoying (deceptive) was that the offer was "interest free for 12 months" HOWEVER* Oopsie Daisy Aug 2025 #44
I do those loans too. They are betting we screw up and then they tack on the interest. Captain Zero Aug 2025 #47
You, like me, are what the banks call a "deadbeat." lastlib Aug 2025 #49
I use to carry cash to pay for stuff. multigraincracker Aug 2025 #8
I am actually taking the naxt step. Norbert Aug 2025 #9
There is a great deal of judgment and sanctimony when it comes to credit cards. niyad Aug 2025 #11
I agree. No issue is black and white. multigraincracker Aug 2025 #12
That's always been the case. though. Morbius Aug 2025 #13
Any debt carrying interest over from month to month is what you pay off first, if you can. CTyankee Aug 2025 #16
If you regularly shop on Amazon, a Chase Amazon credit card can be very worthwhile. sir pball Aug 2025 #67
The voice of reason as usual, niyad! Diamond_Dog Aug 2025 #28
For sure! SheltieLover Aug 2025 #32
Thank you so much. niyad Aug 2025 #37
A very thoughtful, inclusive perspective. SheltieLover Aug 2025 #31
Absolutely, SheltieLover! Diamond_Dog Aug 2025 #35
Thx, DD SheltieLover Aug 2025 #36
Sadly true. niyad Aug 2025 #38
+1 obnoxiousdrunk Aug 2025 #41
+1 leftstreet Aug 2025 #45
There are a lot of Boomer GOP bootstrap EllieBC Aug 2025 #61
Usury is evil and needs to be stopped. Sharma Dreihund Aug 2025 #15
Agreed. Rates of 20% and over are ridiculous, and are proof that a cartel runs the credit system. TheRickles Aug 2025 #17
It used to be that way in the US also mdbl Aug 2025 #22
I remember when 7 1/2% was the law. multigraincracker Aug 2025 #25
Or the days when credit cards could only charge about 3% above prime mdbl Aug 2025 #66
I pay my CCs off every month Pototan Aug 2025 #20
Had credit cards for forty years. The only time I paid interest was a 1% deal years ago. twodogsbarking Aug 2025 #21
In 1982 I got divorced. Talking with my dad on the phone, multigraincracker Aug 2025 #23
We quit using credit cards 35 years ago after having to go to CCC when my husband lost his job. lark Aug 2025 #26
When companies started going to paperless billing I missed a few payments & got dinged with fees, CrispyQ Aug 2025 #29
I like to use their money and pay it off on the last day w/o interest. Historic NY Aug 2025 #33
We only have cards with no annual fees usedtobedemgurl Aug 2025 #34
I make it a point to pay off mine in full every month NickB79 Aug 2025 #40
Thank you for acknowledging your good fortune. I wish others could be niyad Aug 2025 #43
Last month I took my family to Denny's for dinner NickB79 Aug 2025 #57
That's Usury. It's unfair and should be illegal. MineralMan Aug 2025 #48
And that's the average Johnny2X2X Aug 2025 #52
Once upon a time I paid medical bills with a credit card. hunter Aug 2025 #50
Some people just don't get it. phylny Aug 2025 #53
Ooops! OC375 Aug 2025 #54
I'll never forget orientation for college Johnny2X2X Aug 2025 #55
Sounds like my early life. Happy Hoosier Aug 2025 #59
I pay attention to this issue a lot these last several years Johnny2X2X Aug 2025 #64
I charge every possible thing to my CC so I get miles. I pay it off every month. I also have a large amount of Raftergirl Aug 2025 #62
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