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nolabear

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18. What an outstanding, important piece of writing. Do seek a wider audience for it.
Tue Jan 31, 2012, 05:13 PM
Jan 2012

I won't go into it much but I grewup in the 1960's South and now live in the "liberal" Northwest. I've always been aware of the covert racism here but had it brought home to me recently when I was discussing a book I wrote with a number of old Northwest "doyennes" who were just fascinated by my writing about racism in the South and more than willing to nod a bit condescendingly even as they made comments like "Well, I don't think we have racial problems here, really. I think most of the black people here prefer to live in the CD, which is a lovely area, though now that the lesbians have started moving in and fixing things up the drug trafficking has moved to other areas." I mean, really???

So yes, it needs to be brought to everyone's attention that soft racism is racism--even mine. Although many of my best and most treasured influences come largely from the black culture of the South, I work every day to fight those tiny, unfair responses that make no sense to me but now and then crop up. It's a big old crazy world, but posts like yours remind people like me to keep working, on levels large and small, to, as Clinton said, celebrate one another.

Today, I celebrate you.

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K&R...... cliffordu Jan 2012 #1
Bravo! redqueen Jan 2012 #2
a long, well written read..and worth reading every word...I need to kick this too! angstlessk Jan 2012 #3
Angstlessk, I know you don't mean it come across like your statement reads but I always marvel at Ecumenist Jan 2012 #15
an exceptional story told in an exceptional way grantcart Jan 2012 #4
The bookmark this thread is located at the bottom left hand area. There is a button for it now MagickMuffin Jan 2012 #6
Good read, mahina Jan 2012 #5
that was lovely. barbtries Jan 2012 #28
thank you for writing this SemperEadem Jan 2012 #7
Thank you for this thoughtful post MagickMuffin Jan 2012 #8
Good read, but you need to consider the neighborhood up in arms and out in the street Warpy Jan 2012 #9
yes bigtree Jan 2012 #11
could be... SemperEadem Jan 2012 #13
Bravo. bemildred Jan 2012 #10
What a great post. You should consider submitting this to a journal-news blog Leopolds Ghost Jan 2012 #12
K&R ! solara Jan 2012 #14
Bigtree, I want to thank you for this post. although I suspect I'm at least 5 years younger, alot Ecumenist Jan 2012 #16
Great OP. MellowDem Jan 2012 #17
What an outstanding, important piece of writing. Do seek a wider audience for it. nolabear Jan 2012 #18
This ties in really well with a post in the AA group where we've been trying to figure out Number23 Jan 2012 #19
K&R n/t DeSwiss Jan 2012 #20
Beautiful and true Tsiyu Jan 2012 #21
Thanks for sharing that. redqueen Jan 2012 #23
It's sad how people will internalize bigotry. I heard something similar once. yardwork Jan 2012 #27
I rarely read these long personal accounts Kellerfeller Jan 2012 #22
If you had to lay out a list of what is being used jsmirman Jan 2012 #24
Thank you for your posts. I read every word and learn a lot from them. yardwork Jan 2012 #25
thanks for posting that. onethatcares Jan 2012 #26
I really appreciate your great post. stevedeshazer Jan 2012 #29
K&R BumRushDaShow Jan 2012 #30
I grew up in the DC suburbs, remember Dad taking me to the roof of his office building Burma Jones Jan 2012 #31
Thanks for posting your eloquent op. Melissa G Jan 2012 #32
Superb essay. Just fantastic. You nailed it. nt MADem Jan 2012 #33
Thank you for letting us in. I'm trying not to over-react but I feel like something really important patrice Jan 2012 #34
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K&R! n/t Lugnut Feb 2012 #36
nice story! rppper Feb 2012 #37
KICK! Raine1967 Feb 2012 #38
K&R. nt DesertFlower Feb 2012 #39
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