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rocktivity

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14. DING DING DING! Iscooterliberally, you're our grand prize winner!
Tue Feb 14, 2012, 05:26 PM
Feb 2012

Last edited Wed Nov 17, 2021, 01:48 PM - Edit history (7)

She became so famous so fast that IMHO she had no chance to live a 'normal' life...She seemed so vulnerable when I saw her...

She spent her teens singing with her mother Cissy Houston at nightclubs, recording backing vocals (including Chaka Khan's I'm Every Woman), and modeling after being spotted by a fashion photographer. Unlike singers having to start from the bottom with no connections, she had access to her parents (her father was a music industry executive), Dionne Warwick, and Aretha Franklin. When you're young and vulnerable, and you have so many "advantages" at your disposal, not being good enough (never mind screwing up) can feel like original sin.

And it doesn't sound like she was looked out for financially, either. Her record album income was based on recording and performing the songs of others, not writing, composing, or producing her own; she had to fight off a lawsuit from her own management company; she had to sell two multi-million-dollar homes. No wonder she became so reliant on movies, commercial jingles, exhausting tours -- and too many drugs.


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i'm so saddened by her death cash__whatiwant Feb 2012 #1
Thanks TuxedoKat Feb 2012 #2
A lovely tribute and memory. Thanks for posting..n/t monmouth Feb 2012 #3
It's too bad we can't turn back time and make it so she'd never meet Bobby Brown. Arugula Latte Feb 2012 #4
I think her problems started before he came on the scene. iscooterliberally Feb 2012 #8
Yes,She was on dope before Bobby Brown Go Vols Feb 2012 #9
Well it was the 80s and cocaine was everywhere. iscooterliberally Feb 2012 #11
DING DING DING! Iscooterliberally, you're our grand prize winner! rocktivity Feb 2012 #14
Damn. It's no wonder she looked nervous when she saw me. iscooterliberally Feb 2012 #15
I couldn't agree more. Lilyeye Feb 2012 #48
You were lucky it wasn't Dionne Warwick or Martina McBride. Both can be very imperial. alfredo Feb 2012 #5
It's funny you mentioned it. iscooterliberally Feb 2012 #7
Warwick was an (excellent) pop singer who just happened to be black rocktivity Feb 2012 #16
Is this a good thing or a bad thing? kwassa Feb 2012 #20
You should rely on whatever artistic "power" you have -- and it ABSOLUTELY shouldn't be race-based rocktivity Feb 2012 #21
She treated the musicians poorly. alfredo Feb 2012 #17
Dionne was nice around me. I never worked with Martina. iscooterliberally Feb 2012 #36
Martina was more than a bad day thing. Dionne's treatment of orchestra members was alfredo Feb 2012 #39
Understood. iscooterliberally Feb 2012 #41
There could be a difference in how she reacts to the gender of the person. alfredo Feb 2012 #43
I've heard that about Diana Ross too. n/t whathehell Feb 2012 #33
That's a wonderful story. yellerpup Feb 2012 #6
Good story. Thanks for sharing it. MineralMan Feb 2012 #10
So much for the glamor of show biz Warpy Feb 2012 #12
Very true. iscooterliberally Feb 2012 #13
The pressure is enormous. You start off in hock to the record companies, and you have to work you alfredo Feb 2012 #44
When I was younger, I had a microcosm of the "star" experience tavalon Feb 2012 #30
... politicasista Feb 2012 #18
nice demtenjeep Feb 2012 #19
I am totally a mess about her death. But I do have to say this: closeupready Feb 2012 #22
That WOULD have been the icing on the cake rocktivity Feb 2012 #23
By the way, if you need a Whitney fix, watch "Waiting to Exhale" on Netflix streaming closeupready Feb 2012 #25
Avoid The Bodyguard, the movie she did with Kevin Kostner rocktivity Feb 2012 #26
I liked her in The Bodyguard. whathehell Feb 2012 #34
i think THAT, more than anything, absolutely destroyed her noiretextatique Feb 2012 #38
That's a lovely epistle to her. Thanks for sharing it here. closeupready Feb 2012 #40
you're welcome noiretextatique Feb 2012 #47
Thank you for adding this. iscooterliberally Feb 2012 #45
and thank you for sharing your sweet story noiretextatique Feb 2012 #46
Cool story, thanks for sharing. nt rufus dog Feb 2012 #24
Hotel jumping and airport running does not sound like an appealing way of life to me. lonestarnot Feb 2012 #27
I have a photographer friend who worked on a shoot with her some years back . . . markpkessinger Feb 2012 #28
As an aside, tavalon Feb 2012 #31
She faired better than.. Go Vols Feb 2012 #29
I thought I was ready for Etta James, but she caught me off guard. iscooterliberally Feb 2012 #35
"I really think the fame did her in before the drugs did" Javaman Feb 2012 #32
Fame not only insulates you from reality, it insulates you from other people. LuckyLib Feb 2012 #37
I get the impression a lot of her family were still using her to stay in the limelight themselves... cbdo2007 Feb 2012 #42
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