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meaculpa2011

(918 posts)
17. Agreed, and I earn all of my income through writing.
Tue Jan 27, 2015, 11:25 AM
Jan 2015

I get up every morning at 4AM, close the door and work uninterrupted for as long as I can. When the kids were small they knew that when my door was closed they were not to disturb me except in an emergency or when lunch was ready. Even now (they're 21 and 24) I have to get my creative work done before the phone starts ringing and administrative chores take precedence.

I was lucky. I earned enough to allow my wife to stay home for ten years. When she decided to resume her career it put a bit more pressure on me, but I actually enjoyed it. I had to cut back on my travel which gave me time to participate in their activities and coach in a wide variety of sports even though in some cases (soccer and lacrosse) I knew less than nothing. I still get a kick when I see my former players in the supermarket and they greet me with a, "Hi Coach." As much as I love my work, I would not have given up the experience for anything.

As for having an inherited advantage... my father worked in a sweat shop on Eighth Avenue. I worked there summers and weekends from the time I was eleven. That was my greatest advantage. I knew I DID NOT want any part of it.

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