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Rorey

(8,445 posts)
20. I struggled with this
Mon Feb 22, 2021, 11:13 PM
Feb 2021

When my favorite husband died at the age of 38, I was devastated. I felt that his doctor was horrible, and could have done more to try to save him. I saw a lawyer, and when I told him I really didn't want money, he told me I HAD to want money. I struggled a lot with what it would mean to be enriched because my husband died. It felt like I was putting a price on his life. I wondered how I could live with that.

Ultimately I didn't file a suit because, with the help of medical experts, I realized that it would likely not be provable that my husband could have been saved with better care. Not back in those days.

My point is, I get what you're saying. I also understand the desperation of a family suffering the loss of that little boy. It's incomprehensible. I imagine that his grief-stricken mother is feeling much the same as I did at the time my husband died. All I wanted was to have him back. All she wants is her son back. It's futile to ask for the impossible, so you ask for what IS possible.

Losing her son was hell, and this lawsuit is also going to be hell.

I expect M$M coverage along the lines of ... Hugh_Lebowski Feb 2021 #1
$100 dollars!?! Small claims court!?! SoFlaBro Feb 2021 #2
Try clicking on the URL... 50 Shades Of Blue Feb 2021 #3
$100 million nt IronLionZion Feb 2021 #16
ercot has soverign immunity. (for now) rdking647 Feb 2021 #4
Waiting on the autopsy might be a good idea. nt EX500rider Feb 2021 #5
Found Her Son... mezame Feb 2021 #6
That was my thought too. Chemisse Feb 2021 #11
What I thought, too. Why isn't everybody in one bed, pets, too? rickyhall Feb 2021 #13
I wonder if he had any underlying health issues TexasBushwhacker Feb 2021 #19
"I don't have offspring..." greenjar_01 Feb 2021 #22
They could have Turbineguy Feb 2021 #7
This message was self-deleted by its author ExTex Feb 2021 #8
Corporations can't cry, they can't bleed. JustABozoOnThisBus Feb 2021 #9
Who exactly is arguing your premise? LanternWaste Feb 2021 #10
Punitive damages are to force companies to change their policies IronLionZion Feb 2021 #15
When corporate execs start being imprisoned.... MicaelS Feb 2021 #18
I struggled with this Rorey Feb 2021 #20
maybe sheilahi Feb 2021 #23
The individual lawsuit should be scrapped, but the one for failure to protect the grid Chemisse Feb 2021 #12
Sue the bastards. colorado_ufo Feb 2021 #14
I'm not going to jump on this family at this point. MontanaMama Feb 2021 #17
Texans passed tort reform dlk Feb 2021 #21
Class Action suit? Jimbo S Feb 2021 #24
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