Finally moving Mom & step-dad to assisted living facility

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4. Can they take some personal items with them?

My sil moved into an "apartment" at an assisted living center and she was able to take pictures for the walls, pillows, lamps and tables that were familiar to her. She balked at first, but loves it now. Everyone complimented her on how cozy her new home was and she was so proud. Then, she met Bingo! She is really into activities and I think is also very friendly with one of the male residents...at least for conversation. I never thought she would reach this point, but she keeps saying she is happy. Her house has been sold and without those costs, she can now increase her bank account a little.

A lot depends on the people who are around them. At least they have each other. If they can become more social, they will eventually take an interest in someone else rather than their own aches and pains. My sil has changed 100%.

Good luck!