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Fri May 25, 2018, 08:52 PM

Elder parents committing fraud and threatening, anyone been through this? [View all]

This is a long nightmare, history of domestic abuse as a child and young adult. Had a few years of peace, but my father got severely abusive again a few years ago. I cut off almost all contact since I began having flashbacks of traumatic events. Lots of therapy in the last year, but the last few weeks have been traumatic. I firmly believe both parents are narcissists but one is dominant.


I just found out elder parent signed a contract with a company (representing that he was authorized to do so) and cashed a check when he did not have the legal right to do so. When the company found out they contacted me and all of this was news to me. He took the money and gave a bunch to my siblings and well, you get the picture. The parents called and made threats for me to basically cover for their crimes and sign the contract with the company (they returned money to company) telling me I had 24 hours to make a decision or they would consider "cutting me out of estate" (he just tried to steal what my grandparents left me) and after a week I am still in shock and angry.

I did record the call. I am doing a lot of research to determine how to handle. I hate to see 80 year olds die in prison so am considering a contract that if they violate it, then I press charges.

So far I am counting 6 or 7 crimes.

What would you do if you were in a fragile emotional state like I am? I have a badass attorney, but in my state processing this is still difficult.

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