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In reply to the discussion: I'm Here To Tell You That Online Dating Sucks [View all]ProudLib72
(17,984 posts)33. I remember writting letters, real letters that travelled through the mail
When I was on a trip, I would buy a bunch of pre-paid air mail stationary to write all my friends back home. Once, when I was in a hostel in old city Jerusalem, I met a girl from South Africa. We sort of hit it off talking. She became my pen pal for a few months.
Social media has killed all that. I miss the days of going through the process and being damned sure you wrote what you wanted to write because of the limited amount of space and time it took for the letter to travel by post. You received a letter, and the fact it was from somewhere far away was tangible. It was penned in that person's choice of ink in that person's own handwriting. Plus, there might be a few little drawings. Email and texting have stolen that personal touch.
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Depends on the site. I've had some good results. Results on the free ones, not so good.
brush
Apr 2019
#6
The two I've been on mostly feature people in my city. There are others of course...
brush
Apr 2019
#15
If you just open up and be honest, I'm sure there is someone out there for you
ProudLib72
Apr 2019
#12
Hey, you laugh but I actually put in one profile something about being on DU
ProudLib72
Apr 2019
#29
Try Adult Friend Finder for more interesting, non-judgemental, anything goes, kind of people.
Kaleva
Apr 2019
#40
Met hubby of 10 years on dating site. My daughter also met her husband on a dating site.
patricia92243
May 2019
#41