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Denninmi

(6,581 posts)
Sat Dec 22, 2012, 02:37 PM Dec 2012

Hi, friends. [View all]

Sorry for the drama, but I don't take kindly to being told my name belongs on a criminal database next to sex offenders and convicted felons because I happen to be bipolar and therefore have a "mental health issue" as do these psychotic shooters. NOT the same mental health issue by miles. They sit around plotting to kill people, I sit around worrying if my job performance is adequate even if my boss or a client praises me. NOTHING IN COMMON WITH THESE KILLERS.

It's hardly the same thing, my mental health issue and theirs - it's like trying to equate a brief spring thundershower to Superstorm Sandy. i have NOTHING in common whatsoever with these killers other than the fact we are all members of the same species, Homo sapiens. Like Tobin, if I don't explicitly tell someone I'm bipolar, they don't have a clue. And I don't wear a sign on my back announcing my condition. I'm pretty "normal" except that I tend to be overly sensitive to certain situations, such as hurtful remarks. Even then, I keep my reactions to myself - this summer during my crisis, I got really good at holding back the tears and anxiety until I could go somewhere completely private. No one even knew except me that there was a problem.

Frankly, the tragedies disturb me deeply, too, but please don't punish me for something I didn't do, nor am I even capable of doing.

I was REALLY touched by everyone's comments, publicly posted or via pm or email.

I would just like to be able to come out and play with my Lounge and DU friends without being called a monster by some ignorant bigot.

So, is it safe to come out now?

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Hi, friends. [View all] Denninmi Dec 2012 OP
Probably as safe as is possible...so glad to see you back! NRaleighLiberal Dec 2012 #1
Do your very best to ignore the ogres annabanana Dec 2012 #2
Glad to see you back. hrmjustin Dec 2012 #3
Welcome back! In_The_Wind Dec 2012 #4
Just accept that you are going to have a few extreme ups and downs initially siligut Dec 2012 #5
Hey, welcome back! CaliforniaPeggy Dec 2012 #6
Really glad to see you back! dawg Dec 2012 #7
Just stay here in the Lounge! We don't let that fly here. Lady Freedom Returns Dec 2012 #8
You're BACK! Aristus Dec 2012 #9
I think you made a difference. For the positive! Baitball Blogger Dec 2012 #10
Glad you decided not to stay away for long. GoCubsGo Dec 2012 #11
I can't promise you ignorant bigots won't show up OriginalGeek Dec 2012 #12
It's good to see you MrScorpio Dec 2012 #13
Welcome Back, Fellow Lounge Lizard Tuesday Afternoon Dec 2012 #14
It's great to see you back out here, man. Tobin S. Dec 2012 #15
Welcome back. Neoma Dec 2012 #16
There are ALWAYS going to be ignant assholes out there... MiddleFingerMom Dec 2012 #17
Hi again. Denninmi Dec 2012 #18
You are among friends in the lounge. Would a cookie help? femmocrat Dec 2012 #19
Yes, as long as the dietician overseeing my fitness program doesn't find out. Denninmi Dec 2012 #26
LOL femmocrat Dec 2012 #32
Welcome back... Xyzse Dec 2012 #20
C'mon in. rrneck Dec 2012 #21
As far as I'm concerned you will always, always be safe solara Dec 2012 #22
The Lounge, safe? We are all going to hell. Major Nikon Dec 2012 #23
Well, you know what Billy Joel said Denninmi Dec 2012 #27
Glad you're back. Pull up a stool. How 'bout a Fresca? bluesbassman Dec 2012 #24
Actually, I had a diet Fresca today. Denninmi Dec 2012 #28
I hope so. I have depression myself: usually OK.Don't want to be in anybody's database. nt s-cubed Dec 2012 #25
You know what, somehow after seeing the reaction our buddy at the NRA got ... Denninmi Dec 2012 #29
YAAAAY! elleng Dec 2012 #30
Hi. Denninmi Dec 2012 #31
Welcome home. I have a present for you rurallib Dec 2012 #33
Thanks. Denninmi Dec 2012 #34
LOL, how come every time I hear something by ABBA I get the urge to ... Denninmi Dec 2012 #35
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