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LeftyMom

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23. Get down on your knees, quietly and calmly call her over.
Sun Dec 22, 2013, 09:34 PM
Dec 2013

If she isn't interested don't insist, call over another cat and give them some pets and attention and maybe a treat. Do that a lot when she's in view.

Jealousy will do the job for you.

edit: Make sure you're seated or kneeling in a way that you're comfortable and stay still for a while. Don't look like you're about to pounce. Look relaxed. Posture matters enormously in this.

It takes time and patience. Some take longer than others. Arkansas Granny Dec 2013 #1
That's what I was hoping. Le Taz Hot Dec 2013 #2
That's a promising sign. It sounds like she wants you, on her terms, but doesn't winter is coming Dec 2013 #18
Time and patience. MuseRider Dec 2013 #3
Well, that gives me hope Le Taz Hot Dec 2013 #5
just sit near her and let her come to you magical thyme Dec 2013 #4
I think that's the answer. Le Taz Hot Dec 2013 #6
it's how they get the strays and ferals at my shelter used to people magical thyme Dec 2013 #7
That sounds like a great job! MuseRider Dec 2013 #8
Cats + books ... best job ever! Arugula Latte Dec 2013 #9
With patience. dipsydoodle Dec 2013 #10
Hard to resist but don't look her in the eyes. Look askance. Good luck. eom. Festivito Dec 2013 #11
Doesn't sound like a true feral. Mz Pip Dec 2013 #12
sometimes white kitties Oscarmonster13 Dec 2013 #13
She may be deaf in one ear. Brigid Dec 2013 #20
This message was self-deleted by its author elocs Dec 2013 #14
My first was also a kitten found when working at the zoo MuseRider Dec 2013 #15
This message was self-deleted by its author elocs Dec 2013 #16
We still have ours however it has been in some trouble MuseRider Dec 2013 #19
How much do you object to smelling like fish? jmowreader Dec 2013 #17
I do hope you will post a picture of her. Raine1967 Dec 2013 #21
I wish I knew how. Le Taz Hot Dec 2013 #22
Regarding posting a picture here... pengillian101 Dec 2013 #24
Get down on your knees, quietly and calmly call her over. LeftyMom Dec 2013 #23
Get cat treats and hand feed her. applegrove Dec 2013 #25
I want to thank everyone for their response on this thread. Le Taz Hot Dec 2013 #26
I just want to thank you for what you're doing CrawlingChaos Dec 2013 #27
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