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In reply to the discussion: At what point do you cut ties with a toxic family member? [View all]lunasun
(21,646 posts)5. you may continue to allow his actions but chances are society will not . exiting and not enabling
may help him while he is young to get his act together or seek help with his issues
whats the ultimate time out forkids who do not change bad habits?
jail- if the family doesn't have consequences set up, society at some point will
it may not be jail just ostracism by being deliberately left out of a group or social setting by exclusion and rejection but either way if he can realize that hes not being accepted with his current temperament by family now it could help him in life later.
Sounds like his mother already is making him live with consequences
plenty of disavantaged kids in need of help trying hard to better themselves and doing good already in life if you feel guilty about your decision there are many groups set up for donations
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you may continue to allow his actions but chances are society will not . exiting and not enabling
lunasun
May 2017
#5
Thanks. I think we do need to rethink our approach. It has always been unconditional.
Coventina
May 2017
#14
Yes, he most definitely needs help. And, it is clear he is not (yet) interested in truly changing.
Coventina
May 2017
#32