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In reply to the discussion: At what point do you cut ties with a toxic family member? [View all]Generic Brad
(14,274 posts)20. When you are emotionally prepared to never go back
It is not possible to cut just a single person out of your life. You have to be ready to cut ties with everyone connected with this person because if he is as toxic as you indicate, he will still try to take advantage of you through others who are sympathetic to him.
I have crossed that rubicon. But in my circumstance the pain I feel over that decision is far less than what I felt during decades of drama and stress.
So sorry you are going through all this.
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you may continue to allow his actions but chances are society will not . exiting and not enabling
lunasun
May 2017
#5
Thanks. I think we do need to rethink our approach. It has always been unconditional.
Coventina
May 2017
#14
Yes, he most definitely needs help. And, it is clear he is not (yet) interested in truly changing.
Coventina
May 2017
#32