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In reply to the discussion: At what point do you cut ties with a toxic family member? [View all]elfin
(6,262 posts)28. I dearly hope he doesn't have or get a gun
He is on a very bad trajectory.
I hope you can quietly detach without causing him to become even angrier.
Sounds like it won't be too long before your brother asks him to leave and then he may come to you for free housing and become angry if you refuse.
He is in a world of hurt that only he plus professionals and possibly meds can abate.
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you may continue to allow his actions but chances are society will not . exiting and not enabling
lunasun
May 2017
#5
Thanks. I think we do need to rethink our approach. It has always been unconditional.
Coventina
May 2017
#14
Yes, he most definitely needs help. And, it is clear he is not (yet) interested in truly changing.
Coventina
May 2017
#32