Racism: The Impossible Discussion ...

[marym625]

15. I understand where you are coming from.

I am sure you are correct. Perhaps saying something stupid doesn't necessarily equal racist. Maybe admitting something said is racist?

I saw a post last night that infuriated me. I am blown away that it was allowed to remain. But some of the comments are even worse.

I am no innocent. I have made mistakes. I would rather be called out on them and, if too dense to see that a comment is racist, have it explained to me. I remember having to explain to a relative why hearing their kids say, "that's so gay" was hurtful to me. I finally gave up. And this relative sees herself as liberal as they come. The kids, all teens, understood immediately and stopped doing it.

I don't know what the answer is. Maybe just say, "can we talk about this in an objective, friendly manner?" Even though I don't think that should have to be asked, maybe it would start a calm discussion.

I am at a loss.