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Whoa_Nelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-29-07 11:01 AM Original message |
Mother had no idea daughter was assaulted |
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Pavulon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-29-07 11:12 AM Response to Original message |
1. Not enough Info.. |
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Whoa_Nelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-29-07 12:12 PM Response to Reply #1 |
5. It would seem there would have been physical trauma left on the child |
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spotbird (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-29-07 04:31 PM Response to Reply #1 |
15. Maybe the child was drugged |
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Lucinda (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 02:59 PM Response to Reply #15 |
52. I also thought she looked drugged n/t |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-29-07 11:37 AM Response to Original message |
2. What a cruel and uninformed question. |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 05:28 AM Response to Reply #2 |
27. Thank you Rabrrrrrr |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 02:28 PM Response to Reply #2 |
48. Exactly |
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Harper_is_Bush (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 09:23 PM Response to Reply #2 |
68. If, as it sounds, he had sex with this child, would she not be injurred? |
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Warpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-29-07 11:43 AM Response to Original message |
3. A three year old child doesn't have the vocabulary |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-29-07 12:38 PM Response to Reply #3 |
11. "Really dense" or mentally disabled in some way. |
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spotbird (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-29-07 04:33 PM Response to Reply #3 |
16. If the bruising wasn't |
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NOLALady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-29-07 12:01 PM Response to Original message |
4. "How could that mother NOT KNOW?" |
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benddem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-29-07 12:13 PM Response to Original message |
6. it's hard for me to believe the mom |
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Myrina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-29-07 12:29 PM Response to Reply #6 |
9. ... by the time my daughter was 3 ... |
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liberal renegade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-29-07 12:26 PM Response to Original message |
7. the person guilty of this horrible crime |
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jdadd (950 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 10:31 AM Response to Reply #7 |
30. Put him in general population in prison.... |
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Whoa_Nelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-29-07 12:26 PM Response to Original message |
8. In resonse to all who think my question odd, or out of place re: mother not know |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-29-07 10:57 PM Response to Reply #8 |
25. My husband put me through stuff that no one but the ER staff |
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renate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 03:08 AM Response to Reply #25 |
26. I don't know what to say.... |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 11:14 AM Response to Reply #26 |
36. It was pretty awful and we eventually sorted it out. |
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Evergreen Emerald (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-29-07 12:36 PM Response to Original message |
10. One of the biggest myths of rape is that it leaves damage |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-29-07 07:41 PM Response to Reply #10 |
23. Where are all these numbers coming from? |
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Evergreen Emerald (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 10:16 AM Response to Reply #23 |
28. actually lizzy....I have no link |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 10:26 AM Response to Reply #28 |
29. Well, pardon me if I am a little skeptical about the number you |
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Evergreen Emerald (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 10:45 AM Response to Reply #29 |
31. that is exactly what I am saying. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 10:54 AM Response to Reply #31 |
32. You've made a claim that in 97% known rapes of children, |
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Evergreen Emerald (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 11:02 AM Response to Reply #32 |
33. It would be nice there were tell-tale signs, but the world is not quite so nice. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 11:06 AM Response to Reply #33 |
34. I believe it works this way-whoever makes a claim provides a link. |
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Evergreen Emerald (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 11:37 AM Response to Reply #34 |
41. whatever lady...perhaps you should have less coffee |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 02:31 PM Response to Reply #41 |
50. I'll let you in on a little secret |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 02:43 PM Response to Reply #50 |
51. Well, I hope you are following your own advice. |
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Evergreen Emerald (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 04:12 PM Response to Reply #50 |
57. Hi LostinVA |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 08:53 PM Response to Reply #57 |
66. You too! |
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TheWraith (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-01-07 01:15 PM Response to Reply #33 |
75. That's not the way it works. |
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tblue37 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 11:14 AM Response to Reply #32 |
35. In this context The term "forgiveness" does not mean |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 11:23 AM Response to Reply #35 |
38. I have never heard of tissue described as being forgiving. |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 11:44 AM Response to Reply #38 |
43. yes, forgiving. as in: elastic able to take a lot of stress w/ out damage. |
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tblue37 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 02:28 PM Response to Reply #38 |
47. It's a technical term. The word "forgiving" is often used in |
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Evergreen Emerald (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 11:36 AM Response to Reply #35 |
40. I am so sorry about your son. |
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tblue37 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 02:24 PM Response to Reply #40 |
46. Yes--he's fine. He does have some emotional reactions, though, because of it. |
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Evergreen Emerald (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 04:07 PM Response to Reply #46 |
55. Life long consequences |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 03:46 PM Response to Reply #32 |
53. It's pretty easy to find links |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 04:05 PM Response to Reply #53 |
54. Here is a quote from the very link you provided, describing one study. |
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Evergreen Emerald (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 04:10 PM Response to Reply #54 |
56. well, if you presume that--you are wrong--and your insistence |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 04:12 PM Response to Reply #56 |
58. Who must be lying? Apparently the child in question have said |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 04:21 PM Response to Reply #54 |
59. Yes, in one small study of 38 cases at one location, rates were higher. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 04:48 PM Response to Reply #59 |
60. Oh, right. |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 05:00 PM Response to Reply #60 |
61. I am simply responding to a question you raised |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 05:03 PM Response to Reply #61 |
62. First of all, I asked a question. Not insisted on something, as you |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 05:25 PM Response to Reply #62 |
63. Yes, I posted links to a Canadian study |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 05:31 PM Response to Reply #63 |
64. I have no clue what that person quoted or did not, as she/he is |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-01-07 12:12 PM Response to Reply #10 |
71. K-Y |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-01-07 01:06 PM Response to Reply #71 |
73. How exactly does the abuser know he wouldn't get caught? |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-01-07 02:12 PM Response to Reply #73 |
77. We don't know the circumstances of the molestation. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-01-07 02:36 PM Response to Reply #77 |
79. Actually we know what this guy relationship to the family was. |
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JohnLocke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-01-07 01:33 PM Response to Reply #10 |
76. misplaced post |
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AnneD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-29-07 01:52 PM Response to Original message |
12. Before everyone starts beating up the mother......... |
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Trillo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-29-07 02:11 PM Response to Original message |
13. "How could that mother NOT KNOW?" |
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pop goes the weasel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-29-07 03:05 PM Response to Original message |
14. what makes you think she had custody? |
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Sukie1941 (463 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-29-07 04:35 PM Response to Original message |
17. Just want to add my thoughts at this late moment |
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Disturbed (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-29-07 04:47 PM Response to Reply #17 |
18. This situation is real strange. "sexually assaulted"? |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-29-07 07:38 PM Response to Reply #18 |
22. Well, legally, rape is vaginal penetration. Sexual assault |
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Le Taz Hot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-29-07 10:38 PM Response to Reply #17 |
24. My street sense tells me there's something |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-29-07 05:52 PM Response to Original message |
19. I have basically the same questions as many other people |
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0007 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 11:20 AM Response to Reply #19 |
37. The press conference I seen on CNN Friday night was a joke. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 11:27 AM Response to Reply #37 |
39. She was described as a very happy little girl by the police |
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0007 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 11:46 AM Response to Reply #39 |
44. With O.J. we got nothing but 24/7 and views from every angle. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 01:56 PM Response to Reply #44 |
45. Maybe the police is trying to protect the child by not releasing |
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Ayesha (587 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-29-07 05:54 PM Response to Original message |
20. Someone I know was raped at age 3 |
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tammywammy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-29-07 05:56 PM Response to Original message |
21. I feel for that mother and child |
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Honeycombe8 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 11:39 AM Response to Original message |
42. Could've happened when she was being babysat? Babysitter "sold" her charges... |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 02:30 PM Response to Reply #42 |
49. If anyone else was involved beyond the suspect, then I would |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-01-07 11:07 AM Response to Reply #49 |
70. From what I could gather, the mother of the child was a friend |
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surfermaw (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 07:47 PM Response to Original message |
65. Dear Aby or Ann |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 09:06 PM Response to Original message |
67. i was sexually assaulted as a child and my mother never knew. |
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Seedersandleechers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-30-07 10:01 PM Response to Reply #67 |
69. I was sexually abused by my mother's new husband |
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militaryspouse (198 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-01-07 12:48 PM Response to Reply #69 |
72. This is freking scary! |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-01-07 01:07 PM Response to Reply #72 |
74. The % of children injured depends on what act was committed on the child. |
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renate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-01-07 02:14 PM Response to Reply #69 |
78. she just said "some dads do that"? |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Oct-01-07 05:15 PM Response to Original message |
80. By the way, here is a link to smoking gun. |
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