Phil Parlock, who has a daughter and son in the West Virginia National Guard, sat and cried when Lynch was brought from the Iraqi hospital.
``I could see my daughter in that situation,'' he said. ``I cried when she was captured, and I cried equally when she was rescued. I could identify with her parents.
``It was one of the most upbeat things of the war to get her back. In actuality, her capture and rescue may have empowered women who want to be in combat because this came out reasonably well. I think it may have made people more accepting of women in combat. But I don't.''
If women get in a position where they need to know how to defend themselves, they should know how, but they shouldn't purposely be put in that position, said Parlock, a Barboursville father of 10 children.
His son Philip, 20, is an intelligence analyst with the 2nd/ 19th Special Forces unit at Kenova. His daughter Pamela, 19, is a truck driver with the 1257th transportation group. She's now stationed at West Point, filling in for a deployed unit there.
There's a chance both could go overseas. The concern for a daughter's welfare in war would have to be a little more gripping than for a son's, he said. That's human nature.
``I worry every time I hear about these suicide bombers and sneaky ambushes, the unconventional war, where our guys are just getting killed,'' Parlock said. ``In a regular war, I would feel comfortable that she'd be alright. Now it's kind of funny, but I'm much more concerned than when it's a full blown war. But I still hope to see her get sent over to do some humanitarian aid. It would be a good experience for her. The Guard serves primarily in domestic assistance. She'd be serving humanity, the country and she'd be reasonably safe.''
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