Okay, without lying who here has asked out a waiter/waitress on the job?

[HEyHEY]

How did it go? How did you go about it?

[tk2kewl]

1. Me.

When on a few dates, never closed the deal.

[Jessica]

2. Not me ...

But while I was waitressing, I was asked out a few times. I always said no, but one guy was very persistent & pretty damn cute - so I finally agreed.

It didn't work out.

[BroadwayBrat]

3. I have - worked for about 6 months...

Then it happened to me...I was the waitress and was asked out by a customer. Interesting!

[matcom]

4. yup. went fairly well.

married her

[redqueen]

5. I've asked the guy at the drive up window... not technically a waiter...

He was gay, so it didn't work out so well.

I just said, "Hey you're cute... wanna go out sometime?"

[HEyHEY]

7. Hmm

The thing is, I really like this restaurants Penne Pesto.... and if she said no, I wouldn't feel comfortable going there again.

[redqueen]

8. Eh... why?

I got shot down by a guy I work with... I wonder if he was uncomfortable around me after that.... hmmmmmm...

[HEyHEY]

9. I don't know, I'd feel like she thought I was that "Creepy customer"

That asked her out.

[redqueen]

11. So?

If so then that's her problem, isn't it?

Am I a little sociopathic, maybe?

[HEyHEY]

14. I wish I was too.. .then I could shoplift groceries and save money

I think it's the INSIDE the restaurant thing. If I could just bump into her at a party or something...

[redqueen]

19. Well good luck, if you go for it...

tell her I said you seem like a good catch. ;)

[HEyHEY]

20. That should seal things up then

[youspeakmylanguage]

18. Exactly, the humiliation factor would be too much...

...then again, I'm getting married so I won't have to worry about dating ever again. It's one of the advantages to holy matrimony and civil unions.

[RandomKoolzip]

6. Dude...I'm a line cook.

Yes, I have, several times. In every case, I at LEAST got some tongue.

[ET Awful]

10. Unfortunately, each time the tongue was forming the words "HELL NO"

:evilgrin:

[RandomKoolzip]

13. Hard to do that when it's down my throat.

[GirlinContempt]

28. Hot

:P

[Jokerman]

12. I went home with the waitress, the way I always do...

How was I to know,
She was with the Russians too, HA.

-Warren Zevon


And yes, I have went home with a few waitresses.

[HEyHEY]

15. I don't wanna one night with her, I have disgustingly honourable intention

s... Until at least the fourth date that is.

[tigereye]

33. but if she sees you with that stuffed bear....

no, here's a story. I was a waitress at this small town joint near my hometown, very small town, when I was in college. Mostly just farmers old enough to be my grandfather came in. But one day this saleman ( I think he was a salesman) came in, and I waited on him and his buddies. And then as he was leaving, he asked me out. ( must have been the uniform, I guess.) He wasn't really my type, but I said ok. Guess I was bored that summer! Oh, wait, my BF had gone back to Cincinnati, that was it. I was staying with my parents that summer... so he picked me up there. And then! He took me to his place! Where we ate take-out! including corn on the cob! Which he slathered with butter as he described things some other woman had done to him and various parts of his anatomy on his last date! Things that I had no intention of doing! Ever! And after that we watched TV! I said, take me home! That was a very bad date. Guess he thought waitresses put out, but he was wrong! ;)

And that was the LAST TIME I went out with anyone who asked me out when I was a waitress. And yes, I did waitress after that.

[HEyHEY]

34. See, what if that creep had been here too!

[tigereye]

36. but Hey Hey

I know you wouldn't ask this woman out and then take her back to your place first and eat corn on the cob in a suggestive manner. ;)

[enigmatic]

16. Yep, many times...

Since I've worked in restruarants/bars/banquets most of my life..


I had alot of fun w/ them, and I'll leave it at that:)

[sniffa]

17. i Leave messages for them on the biLL

such as:

"caLL me"

"i <3 you"

etc..

but i've never asked out.

[GirlinContempt]

26. I do that too

But mostly just to my friends

[sniffa]

29. it's more fun to do to strangers.

especiaLLy, if someone eLse's card was used to pay. :D

[GirlinContempt]

30. Yeah I actually...

did it to my old bartender. Left my phone number in his tip jar one night. I didn't think he even knew my name.....
....
Apparently, he did :o I didn't even have to wait for a phone call ;)

So, that was kind of like a stranger?

[hunter]

21. My sister was a waitress.

She married a guy who asked her out while she was working. She was so accustomed to declining creepy toe sucking proposals by elderly Malibu show business people, that she said yes to the first guy who seemed normal.

But they are now divorced.

[gizmo1979]

22. Many many times.

Some good some not so much.You roll the dice,you take your chances.

[rene moon]

23. I did

and I married him. It's been very good :)

[jpgray]

24. I haven't, and for very good reason

But working as a server I can tell you, string six words together with some charm and intelligence and basically any female server can be yours. Very promiscuous industry.

[Scout1071]

25. I just went to a wedding where a guy asked out a waitress 4 yrs ago!

And now they are a happily married couple. I've known several "girls" who waitressed or bartended during college and just beyond who married customers.

[SouthoftheBorderPaul]

27. I asked a waitress out...(we're actually called food servers now)

I was a waiter (male food server) at the same restaurant at the time so I'm not sure that counts. We're still dating over a year later. A restaurant job will really kick your social life into overdrive, I'm tellin' ya....

[Redstone]

31. Are you kidding?

With my lifelong weakness for black-haired waitresses, I'd have long since exploded if I hadn't. (This,of course only applies to my life prior to Mrs R's arrival.)

But I always had a rule: Never try to pick up the barmaid. Whatever clever thing you have to say, she's heard something more clever. No matter how cool you are, she's met a guy who's cooler. No matter how sharp you look, she's met guys more handsome than you.

Too much competition, in short, therefore a waste of time to try.

Boy, am I glad I'm married. Being single is too much work!

Redstone

[SarahB]

32. No, but I once WAS a waitress who was asked out.

Err.... he wasn't successful.

[Left Is Write]

35. Can't say I have, but I did get a cute bartender to suggest

breakfast, and I think he thought it was his idea too. :D

I wound up dating him for a little over a year.

[RetroLounge]

37. Yup, been there, done that

Waitress? Yup.
Bartender? Yup.

Then there was the time I picked up the parts-truck driver who delivered parts to a shop i worked at. Yummy!

RL