Speaking of marriage...

[Crazy Dave]

Who's currently married?

Who's previously been married?

Who's planning on getting married within a year?

Me, currently enjoying my second marriage of eight years, first lasted four and I was happier at the divorce than at the wedding.

[Left Is Write]

1. I am married - 9-1/2 years.

[Crazy Dave]

7. I recently (yesterday?) saw your wedding pic on here I think

You and hubby were dressed up pretty spiffy :hi:

[Left Is Write]

8. Thanks! I did post a wedding photo the other day.

:)

[southernleftylady]

17. can you post a link i would love to see them :)

[Left Is Write]

24. I think it was in lionesspriyanka's anniversary thread...

but here's the picture again:

[southernleftylady]

27. wow you are beautiful! and you look so happy.. great picture :) thanks for posting again!

[JackBeck]

2. Well, I got married in San Francisco.

But then it was over-turned. We still consider ourselves married, but the law states otherwise.

[Crazy Dave]

4. I still consider you married then

:thumbsup:

[JackBeck]

12. Married for almost three years.

Together for almost 10.
:toast:

[La Lioness Priyanka]

5. i consider you married. and consider your husband to be a very lucky man.

and one day i want to get married regardless of stupid bigoted laws.

[JackBeck]

10. Thanks.

Get this: we first became Domestic Partners in NYC. Then flew out to SF to get married. When we moved to NJ we registered, again, as Domestic Partners. And now, we have the option to have a Civil Union. Kind of silly if you ask me.

Also, I'll be looking for my invitation once the time comes...

[La Lioness Priyanka]

15. hey if you guys are ever in nyc i would love to hang out.

[JackBeck]

18. I work in the city.

We should definitely get together some time.

[La Lioness Priyanka]

21. well if you are free monday evenign my girl is doing a gig.

let me know..we should definitely hang out

[BarenakedLady]

19. You are married

Because I said so, damn it! Ahhh if it were only that easy.

:hug: :loveya:

[JackBeck]

20. Very true.

And we kept all the presents, too.

[terrya]

33. You guys are married.

Yeah, I know what the law states. But you have every right to consider yourselves married. And congratulations to you and your husband. :-)

When the history of same-sex marriage is written, Gavin Newsom will be one of the heroes.

[JackBeck]

38. Of course we are and thank you.

We got married, ran to our flight, and by the time we got home to NYC, California had put a stop to the marriages. Talk about down to the wire...

I love Gavin for giving us the opportunity to stand inside City Hall and bawl our eyes out as we exchanged vows. And history will be very kind to him.

[IronLionZion]

35. You are married, and don't need the damn law to tell you that

Count your blessings and consider yourself luckier than many though.

[JackBeck]

41. I do count them.

He's my world and I don't know what I'd do without him.

[BarenakedLady]

3. Well

Currently married 10 years....unofficially separated in house.

[SPKrazy]

11. 17 Here -SSDH

as you know same shit, different house

:P

[southernleftylady]

6. been married going on 6 years :) ill keep him for alittle longer ;) nt

[DixieBlue]

9. Married four years.

It's been a rollercoaster ride, that's for sure.

[Midlodemocrat]

13. 17 years.

[seemunkee]

14. Married 24 years

[datasuspect]

16. never been married

i might be crazy, but i'm not insane.

marriage is an institution, so is prison.

[Crazy Dave]

22. I have two friends my age (mid-40's) never married

Two of the happiest people you could ever meet. Male and female.

[datasuspect]

25. pushing 40 here

have absolutely ZERO desire to lock down with another person who would probably drive me batty after two years.

i am my own best company.

[Crazy Dave]

37. Congrats and sorry I missed your post (See #34)

The same thing for you too :thumbsup: :hi:

[Crazy Dave]

53. Man I totally misread your post the 1st time

And too late to edit my reply the second time. Sorry 'bout that :hi:

[JackBeck]

26. You should totally set them up.

I'm sure the wedding would be very nice.

[Crazy Dave]

31. They are total opposites so it might actually work

One (the guy) is an old high school buddy who never quite grew up and the other is way too serious about things and is the type that seriously thinks (when making various decisions), "what would God want me to do?"

Then again they might kill each other :scared:

[BarenakedLady]

28. Crazy yes, insane yes

You are also a genius. Prison, marriage....what's the difference? I am ready for another sort of institution I believe. :silly:

[datasuspect]

32. what like the guy in the "streets of san francisco" rerun said:

"this one is ready for the laughing academy!"

[BarenakedLady]

39. .....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h2FAREC_v4Y

[Madrone]

44. I used to feel exactly like you. EXACTLY.

Right down to the "drive me batty in 2 years" part.

I've recently done a 180. :scared:

[BarenakedLady]

45. Orly?

So you are saying there is hope out there? ;)

[Madrone]

50. Rly.

I was actually very rabidly ANTI-marriage. Wanted NO part of it whatsoever. So yeah, I guess there's hope. ;)

[NNadir]

23. Married 21 years. My wife doesn't deserve me.

She deserves better.

[azmouse]

29. It'll be 20 yrs in April.

How he put up with me all these years I'll never know! What a guy! :loveya:

[trof]

30. 38 years this April.

And all the result of a mutual friend 'matchmaker'.

[Crazy Dave]

34. That's great trof

At a quick glance I think you have the record in this thread. Keep making it harder for the rest of us to break :thumbsup: :hi:

[bluethruandthru]

36. Married 20 years n/t

[bullwinkle428]

40. I was married for 8 years, and have been divorced for about 6 years

now. Not sure if I'll ever get married again, although my doubts have more to do with the now-defunct relationship that followed the marriage than the relationship with my ex-wife...

[1gobluedem]

42. I'm not married

But my parents, who met on a blind date set up by their roommates, will be married 50 years in March. I find that impressive in this day and age.

[YDogg]

43. 22 yrs

:-)

[RetroLounge]

46. Hmmmm

Currently married 10 years....unofficially separated in house.

RL

[SPKrazy]

48. We Need A Club!

the I live in another room club

:pals: I'm in!

[BarenakedLady]

63. Copycat!

:hug:

[RetroLounge]

67. We know someone else we can add to the club...

:hi:

RL

[BarenakedLady]

68. Yup.

:hi:

[Broken_Hero]

47. currently married,

been married since 04...my first marriage(and last, if this one ends, thats it)...

[NewWaveChick1981]

49. Married over 14 years, BUT....

...some of you saw the other thread I posted this past weekend. Known him for 24 years, married almost 15 years, and it's been crappy off and on for five years (mostly on). I wouldn't be surprised if my status changes some time in the near future. It's the only time I've ever been married, and I never, ever plan on doing it again. :yoiks:

[SPKrazy]

58. ....

:hug: :loveya:

[CaliforniaPeggy]

51. It'll be 43 years in June........

And recently we've been having some difficulties.....

But I do believe that we will conquer them....and stay married....

I'm not ready to move out.......I have nowhere to go.........

And neither does he....

We really love and respect each other........a lot of history!

So...we're communicating, and this is a good thing.......

[Crazy Dave]

55. Our very dear CaliforniaPeggy

I (we) hope your difficulties will come to pass and that the best years for you two are still yet to come. :grouphug:

[CaliforniaPeggy]

59. My dear DaveTheWave........

I thank you for your tender concern.......

I am reasonably confident that we will overcome our problems......

And go forward into a happier future........:hug:

[nini]

52. 2 weeks tomorrow

:D

[Crazy Dave]

54. Congrats

:toast:

[usaftmo]

56. I was married for 6 years...

and that included the 3 years it took to get a divorce! Do you know why divorces are so expensive? Because they're worth it!

[Kerrytravelers]

57. Married. Three and a half years of wedded bliss...

No matter what the world throws at us, we're all we've got...













And now, we have a kid... well, a furkid... Pitter-pat.



Just one little happy family.

[LaraMN]

60. Married, 8 + 1/2-ish years.

Which I credit to my being the perfect Maxwell House Wife.



:rofl:

[Dastard Stepchild]

61. Married 5 years this October!

Surprised as hell, since I never really considered myself the marrying type. But when you find a keeper, well, you keep him. Very close to your heart. :)

[Blue-Jay]

62. We celebrated our first anniversary last November.

First marriage for both of us.

[AngryAmish]

64. Getting married in 52 days or so

[grace0418]

65. Married almost 10 years.

Time flies.

[ScreamingMeemie]

66. This is my first marriage-lasting (so far) 10 1/2 years...to the first

boy I ever fell in love/out of love/back in love with.

Most days are happy, some are downright miserable... but I wouldn't trade it for the world.

[fudge stripe cookays]

69. Sitting at 6 1/2 years right now.

I had a horrible history with men. reprehensor was the first guy I didn't have to kill myself to make him love me. He just DID.

:loveya: