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Lady Freedom
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Mon Nov-12-07 05:04 AM Original message |
Well it looks as if my fiancé is leaving me. |
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REP
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Mon Nov-12-07 05:13 AM Response to Original message |
1. Sorry to hear that |
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Lady Freedom
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Mon Nov-12-07 05:18 AM Response to Reply #1 |
2. We both work, but he is there more than I am. |
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Heidi
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Mon Nov-12-07 05:24 AM Response to Original message |
3. I'm sorry you're going through this, Lady Freedom. |
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Lady Freedom
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Mon Nov-12-07 09:47 AM Response to Reply #3 |
18. Thank you. |
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twenty4blackbirds
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Mon Nov-12-07 05:27 AM Response to Original message |
4. Can you live with his belief? |
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abq e streeter
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Mon Nov-12-07 05:27 AM Response to Original message |
5. If that's the reason, then the thing to do is... |
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Lady Freedom
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Mon Nov-12-07 09:50 AM Response to Reply #5 |
20. He said he just wanted a clean house. |
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Mon Nov-12-07 11:30 AM Response to Reply #20 |
41. Wow I'm sorry to hear that. If he doesn't want to pick up his slack |
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Mon Nov-12-07 12:43 PM Response to Reply #20 |
50. I do a lot of cleaning at our house. |
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Sequoia
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Mon Nov-12-07 12:57 PM Response to Reply #20 |
55. F HIM !!! |
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Lady Freedom
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Mon Nov-12-07 01:05 PM Response to Reply #55 |
59. If I wasn't in the hole by at lest $10,000 I would. Thats not including... |
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Sequoia
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Mon Nov-12-07 01:33 PM Response to Reply #59 |
69. Hang in there. |
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alarimer
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Mon Nov-12-07 12:57 PM Response to Reply #20 |
56. Are his arms broken or something? |
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Mojorabbit
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Mon Nov-12-07 03:46 PM Response to Reply #20 |
80. I hate cleaning |
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Critters2
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Mon Nov-12-07 06:06 PM Response to Reply #20 |
106. So he's disabled? |
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China_cat
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Mon Nov-12-07 06:19 PM Response to Reply #20 |
110. He lives there, too? Then why is it only YOUR responsibility? |
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Lady Freedom
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Tue Nov-13-07 04:40 AM Response to Reply #110 |
119. He does clean. Because He wants it "SPEC". Apparent I don't know how to clean right. |
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China_cat
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Tue Nov-13-07 06:23 AM Response to Reply #119 |
120. That's just another way of tearing you down. |
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lildreamer316
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Mon Nov-12-07 05:55 AM Response to Original message |
6. I am sorry.... |
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skyblue
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Mon Nov-12-07 06:01 AM Response to Original message |
7. Don't take it too hard. There's many wonderful gentlemen out there! |
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Callalily
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Mon Nov-12-07 06:39 AM Response to Original message |
8. I'm just going to |
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Lady Freedom
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Mon Nov-12-07 09:56 AM Response to Reply #8 |
25. Me, the dog, and the cat. |
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BrklynLiberal
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Mon Nov-12-07 10:02 AM Response to Reply #25 |
28. Why dogs are better than men... |
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Lady Freedom
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Mon Nov-12-07 11:26 AM Response to Reply #28 |
40. HEHE! Thanks! I needed that! |
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Mon Nov-12-07 06:55 AM Response to Original message |
9. Ms. Freedom, based on your description of your fiance' |
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Lady Freedom
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Mon Nov-12-07 09:54 AM Response to Reply #9 |
23. Maybe, but I will have to move back home for a couple of months. |
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Lady Freedom
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Mon Nov-12-07 08:30 AM Response to Original message |
10. It all started after the fire in the appartment building... |
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JoDog
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Mon Nov-12-07 08:50 AM Response to Reply #10 |
12. So, let me get this straight |
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Lady Freedom
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Mon Nov-12-07 09:46 AM Response to Reply #12 |
16. He hasn't got me the ring. |
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JoDog
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Mon Nov-12-07 12:06 PM Response to Reply #16 |
44. Then according to Miss Manners |
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Sacajawea
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Mon Nov-12-07 08:24 PM Response to Reply #44 |
117. Lady Freedom - pay attention carefully. DUMP. THE. ASSHOLE. Now!!!!!!! |
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JVS
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Mon Nov-12-07 09:57 AM Response to Reply #10 |
26. "And to make matters worse, he now has a better job doing security. " |
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Lady Freedom
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Mon Nov-12-07 11:15 AM Response to Reply #26 |
39. Now my job is pathetic to him |
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hippywife
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Mon Nov-12-07 08:19 PM Response to Reply #39 |
116. That does it! |
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Cabcere
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Mon Nov-12-07 01:20 PM Response to Reply #10 |
65. Oh honey, I am sorry to hear this. |
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Lady Freedom
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Mon Nov-12-07 03:56 PM Response to Reply #65 |
85. Thanks! |
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AirmensMom
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Mon Nov-12-07 08:44 AM Response to Original message |
11. Change the locks. |
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Lady Freedom
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Mon Nov-12-07 03:58 PM Response to Reply #11 |
86. Can't. It's a rental. |
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MissMillie
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Tue Nov-13-07 12:09 PM Response to Reply #86 |
123. yes, you can |
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lukasahero
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Mon Nov-12-07 09:16 AM Response to Original message |
13. I'm sure this is painful for you |
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BarenakedLady
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Mon Nov-12-07 09:20 AM Response to Original message |
14. Oh no! |
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Lady Freedom
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Mon Nov-12-07 09:43 AM Response to Reply #14 |
15. I'm not the greatest housekeeper |
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mzteris
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Mon Nov-12-07 09:47 AM Response to Reply #15 |
17. Run. Run like the wind! |
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BarenakedLady
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Mon Nov-12-07 09:50 AM Response to Reply #15 |
21. Sounds like |
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Rob H.
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Mon Nov-12-07 10:25 AM Response to Reply #15 |
30. This might not help much right now |
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lildreamer316
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Mon Nov-12-07 04:32 PM Response to Reply #15 |
91. Unsolicited advice. GET OUT OF THERE. Now. |
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Love Bug
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Mon Nov-12-07 04:33 PM Response to Reply #15 |
92. Honey, I'm reading your posts and so many red flags are popping up |
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Tuesday Afternoon
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Mon Nov-12-07 09:48 AM Response to Original message |
19. * |
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Lady Freedom
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Mon Nov-12-07 09:51 AM Response to Reply #19 |
22. Thank you. Hugs help. |
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Tuesday Afternoon
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Mon Nov-12-07 09:55 AM Response to Reply #22 |
24. have some more. |
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Maestro
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Mon Nov-12-07 09:58 AM Response to Original message |
27. Wow! What little emphathy and understanding on his part. |
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BlueIris
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Mon Nov-12-07 10:20 AM Response to Original message |
29. You poor thing. I'm sorry you had to be involved with that neanderthal. |
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Blue Diadem
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Mon Nov-12-07 10:28 AM Response to Original message |
31. I'm so sorry. |
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SarahB
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Mon Nov-12-07 10:33 AM Response to Original message |
32. Don't look back. |
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Whoa_Nelly
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Mon Nov-12-07 10:33 AM Response to Original message |
33. Do not blame yourself, even though he is blaming you |
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Lady Freedom
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Mon Nov-12-07 11:50 AM Response to Reply #33 |
43. It's hard NOT to blame myself!!! |
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Whoa_Nelly
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Mon Nov-12-07 12:12 PM Response to Reply #43 |
46. Keeping a clean house is NOT the basis for a long term relationship |
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Blue Diadem
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Mon Nov-12-07 12:42 PM Response to Reply #43 |
49. Even if she was superwoman, she did her children no good |
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Whoa_Nelly
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Mon Nov-12-07 12:46 PM Response to Reply #49 |
51. He's definitely a bully |
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Lady Freedom
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Mon Nov-12-07 01:02 PM Response to Reply #49 |
58. I've got closet space ... |
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Blue Diadem
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Mon Nov-12-07 02:05 PM Response to Reply #58 |
71. Can you see that's his way of manipulating you? |
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lukasahero
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Mon Nov-12-07 12:47 PM Response to Reply #43 |
52. What year is this? |
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Lady Freedom
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Mon Nov-12-07 01:09 PM Response to Reply #52 |
61. He believes that people are judge by the way they keep their life in order. |
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Whoa_Nelly
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Mon Nov-12-07 01:19 PM Response to Reply #61 |
64. Keeps their life in order?????? |
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kwassa
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Mon Nov-12-07 01:30 PM Response to Reply #61 |
67. he is about appearances, not about substance. |
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Lady Freedom
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Mon Nov-12-07 03:35 PM Response to Reply #67 |
76. Na. While she was alive (She died in Sept.) He made some of the money as well. |
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lukasahero
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Mon Nov-12-07 02:26 PM Response to Reply #61 |
72. So he wants a trophy wife. |
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WritingIsMyReligion
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Mon Nov-12-07 02:28 PM Response to Reply #61 |
73. He wants a slave. |
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LSK
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Mon Nov-12-07 05:07 PM Response to Reply #61 |
99. they HE should clean it HIMSELF |
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China_cat
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Mon Nov-12-07 06:34 PM Response to Reply #43 |
113. If housekeeping were the criteria |
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Dora
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Mon Nov-12-07 02:47 PM Response to Reply #33 |
74. Thanks for that link. |
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Whoa_Nelly
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Mon Nov-12-07 03:34 PM Response to Reply #74 |
75. Good for you! |
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Haole Girl
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Mon Nov-12-07 10:35 AM Response to Original message |
34. Hugs... |
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supernova
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Mon Nov-12-07 10:49 AM Response to Original message |
35. OMG! SHOVE HIS ASS OUT THE DOOR!! |
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Ellen Forradalom
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Mon Nov-12-07 10:54 AM Response to Reply #35 |
36. And tell him to kiss my ass while you're at it |
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ThomCat
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Mon Nov-12-07 11:02 AM Response to Original message |
37. I'm very sorry. |
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regularguy
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Mon Nov-12-07 11:09 AM Response to Original message |
38. No offense, but dude sounds like a jerk. |
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LibertyLover
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Mon Nov-12-07 11:45 AM Response to Original message |
42. I know it's difficult, but |
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IdaBriggs
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Mon Nov-12-07 12:11 PM Response to Original message |
45. Congratulations!!! And in answer to "what to do" -- |
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Mon Nov-12-07 12:14 PM Response to Original message |
47. If he's not a quadruple amputee... |
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Mon Nov-12-07 12:32 PM Response to Original message |
48. Sounds like he wants a housekeeper, not a lover! |
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hedgehog
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Mon Nov-12-07 12:50 PM Response to Original message |
53. Don't do anything for a while. Get your degree, take care of yourself |
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Lady Freedom
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Mon Nov-12-07 12:52 PM Response to Reply #53 |
54. If I can get over the feeling that he was right... |
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Mon Nov-12-07 12:59 PM Response to Reply #54 |
57. I was involved with people like this at the place I worked. I only |
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Whoa_Nelly
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Mon Nov-12-07 01:17 PM Response to Reply #54 |
63. He is wrong |
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Lady Freedom
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Mon Nov-12-07 03:53 PM Response to Reply #63 |
83. It's so wrong! Why don't I feel like I did when I use to break up with guys before! |
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China_cat
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Mon Nov-12-07 06:50 PM Response to Reply #83 |
114. You want to know why it feels 'different'? |
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Mon Nov-12-07 04:57 PM Response to Reply #53 |
98. Great advice |
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texas1928
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Mon Nov-12-07 01:08 PM Response to Original message |
60. Well if he wants a perfectly kept house, then he needs to get off his ass and clean. |
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Mon Nov-12-07 01:15 PM Response to Original message |
62. There's always someone else. |
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Whoa_Nelly
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Mon Nov-12-07 01:27 PM Response to Original message |
66. BTW..am wondering...you posted that he's leaving you |
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Lady Freedom
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Mon Nov-12-07 03:44 PM Response to Reply #66 |
78. he gets paid on the 16th. He says he wants to pay up all the bills in his name and was going to call |
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Whoa_Nelly
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Mon Nov-12-07 04:00 PM Response to Reply #78 |
88. Thanks for posting back |
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Mon Nov-12-07 01:32 PM Response to Original message |
68. 'I thought everything was my fault' |
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Arugula Latte
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Mon Nov-12-07 01:52 PM Response to Original message |
70. You will look back on breakup (soon) and realize this was the best thing that happened to you. |
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Bucky
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Mon Nov-12-07 03:37 PM Response to Original message |
77. Was the idiot under the impression that you were going to be in school forever? |
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Lady Freedom
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Mon Nov-12-07 03:47 PM Response to Reply #77 |
81. He's been mad about school taking so much of my time. |
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Bucky
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Mon Nov-12-07 06:01 PM Response to Reply #81 |
104. Well that sucks. |
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ThomCat
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Mon Nov-12-07 06:15 PM Response to Reply #81 |
108. He thinks the sports teams make it a serious school? |
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NC_Nurse
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Mon Nov-12-07 03:45 PM Response to Original message |
79. I'd help him pack. |
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Eurobabe
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Mon Nov-12-07 03:49 PM Response to Original message |
82. Oh my, sounds like you simply need |
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Mz Pip
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Mon Nov-12-07 03:54 PM Response to Original message |
84. Ask yourself |
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texas1928
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Mon Nov-12-07 03:58 PM Response to Original message |
87. After reading this thread. You need to tell this guy off. |
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Love Bug
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Mon Nov-12-07 04:42 PM Response to Reply #87 |
94. I love you, texas1928! |
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texas1928
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Mon Nov-12-07 05:26 PM Response to Reply #94 |
102. AAWWW Shucks. |
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supernova
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Mon Nov-12-07 04:55 PM Response to Reply #87 |
97. Big Smoochies to you texas1928! |
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texas1928
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Mon Nov-12-07 05:27 PM Response to Reply #97 |
103. Don't know about real man, but I know enough that my wife is her own person. |
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Mon Nov-12-07 04:27 PM Response to Original message |
89. Run away! Run away! Dump his ass out the door and don't look back. |
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Book Lover
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Mon Nov-12-07 04:29 PM Response to Original message |
90. Might I suggest opening a bottle of champagne? |
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lildreamer316
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Mon Nov-12-07 04:51 PM Response to Reply #90 |
95. Now that's what I'm talking about. |
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Joey Liberal
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Mon Nov-12-07 04:36 PM Response to Original message |
93. Hang in there |
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GCP
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Mon Nov-12-07 04:55 PM Response to Original message |
96. You have dodged a bloody big bullet |
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flying_wahini
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Mon Nov-12-07 05:12 PM Response to Original message |
100. This could be your story! |
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Mon Nov-12-07 05:24 PM Response to Original message |
101. He sounds like an ass |
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MissMillie
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Mon Nov-12-07 06:03 PM Response to Original message |
105. I have a million knee-jerk responses to this |
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applegrove
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Mon Nov-12-07 06:13 PM Response to Original message |
107. He sounds like a bum. Why hasn't he stepped up and cleaned the house if |
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Lady Freedom
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Tue Nov-13-07 04:37 AM Response to Reply #107 |
118. He does clean. About as much, maybe a little more due to his need |
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applegrove
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Tue Nov-13-07 11:40 AM Response to Reply #118 |
122. You could live your whole life with someone who is never happy with |
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Fri Nov-16-07 02:44 PM Response to Reply #118 |
130. Wow, that's it? |
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AlCzervik
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Mon Nov-12-07 06:18 PM Response to Original message |
109. Does he understand you aren't his Mom? |
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lost-in-nj
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Mon Nov-12-07 06:19 PM Response to Original message |
111. I'm sorry |
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GoddessOfGuinness
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Mon Nov-12-07 06:21 PM Response to Original message |
112. What to do... |
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Mon Nov-12-07 07:53 PM Response to Original message |
115. keep going to work and school without him... |
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Tue Nov-13-07 07:34 AM Response to Original message |
121. Hey, Lady Freedom! |
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Deep13
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Tue Nov-13-07 02:30 PM Response to Original message |
124. What a dumbass. |
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Freedom Knight
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Fri Nov-16-07 02:06 PM Response to Original message |
125. Can you rearranged your schedule to do more for your household?n/t |
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Dora
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Fri Nov-16-07 02:07 PM Response to Reply #125 |
126. It appears that she's already doing a lot. |
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Freedom Knight
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Fri Nov-16-07 02:12 PM Response to Reply #126 |
127. The sponge? I fear that I am a bit confused about the situation.n/t |
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Dora
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Fri Nov-16-07 02:40 PM Response to Reply #127 |
129. Read the thread. |
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zanne
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Fri Nov-16-07 02:24 PM Response to Original message |
128. Let him find another slave.... |
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JCMach1
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Fri Nov-16-07 02:44 PM Response to Original message |
131. Sweetie, if that's the reason... you are rid of the trash... |
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