Why is it I am totally bored with the girls I date

[HEyHEY]

And the girls I am totally entertained by I am not interested in anymore than being friends. What the hell is with that? Anyone ever come across this? Did it bloody well stop at some point?

[ScreamingMeemie]

1. I am sorry, HEyHEY, I thought you had a good thing going there.

Sometimes you find it in the oddest place. If someone had told me after we had broken up that I would have ended up married to Leonard, I would have laughed. And now look at me.

[HEyHEY]

2. I'm starting to think it's the expectation of being constantly interested

In what the person is saying or whatever. With friends, there is none of that.

[KamaAina]

5. Just when I thought it was safe to go back to the Lounge...

da-da-da-da-da-da-doodleyDOO...

she's BA-ACK!!

While you were away, I managed to dissuade someone from referring to McSatan as "McGrumpy"! :hi:

[ScreamingMeemie]

8. I appreciate that.

And not all American girls are boring, just some of us...like me.

[KamaAina]

9. Oh, for crying out loud...

Michigan is "the Lost Province", with OHL teams and everything. I understand that Saginaw even has two Timmies! So you have a leg up on all the others...

[ScreamingMeemie]

11. True that is...

But I'm a native of Wisconsin.

[KamaAina]

3. They're all Americans?

:shrug:

[lost-in-nj]

4. HEY

watch that


I'm American

and he has not tried me

or anyone I know


please

no broad brushes

ok???


some of us are really great to know

awesome as a matter o fact


lost

[KamaAina]

7. But have you dated him?

Stop the presses!

P.S. Hawai'i has been on the U.S. team since 8/20/59, so that makes me as boring as anyone else, I guess... :eyes:

[lost-in-nj]

10. no I haven't dated him and I am guessing you haven't either

I know Hawaii is a state

so why the statement

I don't understand ?????


and for the record


I have never found you or said you were boring.....

no need to get snarky

I am sticking up for us



lost

[KamaAina]

18. No I haven't, and he's not even on my (very) short list

of guys who could turn me...

Why do you hate Canada so much? :shrug:

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[HEyHEY]

13. actually, no

Canadians ;-)

[KamaAina]

19. You just couldn't keep your mitts off Pamela Anderson, could you?

:sarcasm:

[AlCzervik]

6. Are they boring when you first meet them or do they seem interesting until the first few dates?

Do you have a short attention span and the novelty wears off of things and people quickly for you? Maybe the ones that you find entertaining only seem that way because they tell you they only want to be friends.

[HEyHEY]

14. Nah, I have much more stimulating convo with them

And am not interested in them romanitcally

[Chan790]

12. I don't know man...

but if you figure it out, let me know.

Hip, fun, leftist, veggie, punk, tattooed librarians with glasses, ironic tees and indie taste: don't dig me.

Dry, preppy GOPer women who aspire to be lawyers and enjoy hunting, book-burning and Toby Keith CDs: want to have my children.

[supernova]

15. Just a guess

are you attracted to people, ok girls, who seem flashy? But once they've finished their act, that lasts about 3 or 4 dates, there's no "there" there?

[HEyHEY]

16. SOrt of. - Lots of times it's like I have nothing to say to them after the third date

[DarkTirade]

17. You're probably in about the same place as I am.

Not interesting enough for the interesting ones, but just edgy and different enough for the boring ones who want someone interesting. :P

[Flaxbee]

20. you're young and confused

and your libido and your brain haven't talked to one another in a while. :P

Could just be a protective mechanism - you're not ready to be in a long-term relationship, so your brain tells you you're bored with the women you like being friends with. That's the hormones and the intellect not talking to one another.

That's also why many women your age probably date older guys - :shrug:

It'll pass.