Have you ever broke up with someone who you thought you

[blue cat]

didn't love, then realized that you really did love them after dating other people?

[Chan790]

1. Nope.

You?

[blue cat]

2. no

but hoping someone else would.

[Javaman]

3. nope, but I did break up with someone and then only later realizing

I should have had sex with them. LOL :evilgrin:

[Chan790]

4. That...I have done.

[blue cat]

5. what happened?

do tell.

[Chan790]

6. Nothing to tell really...

dated her, she was pretty but completely into her own interests and we had nothing in common; we both knew it quickly. She was fun though and would have totally been up for a meaningless "roll in the hay". Told my best friend as much at a later date. Basically, she had no intention of dating me either and I had pulled the plug too fast. Ahhh...college. How I miss thee.

[ceile]

7. Yes.

And now we're getting married.

[blue cat]

10. congratulations

i guess the time apart told you what you needed to know. how long did it take?

[ceile]

14. Thanks!

Well, about 6-7 years. We dated other people and I was even engaged and was supposed to be married in 2004, but called it off. We've been together (this time) for almost 4 years now. I think it's gonna stick this time. ;-)

[IronLionZion]

8. Nope,

but I am in my first relationship so I think I still have a lot of life yet to live. I am sure there are all kinds of experiences ahead of me.

[Left Is Write]

9. No, but the reverse has happened to me.

(Meaning I was the dumpee and the dumper later wished he hadn't done the dumping.)

[blue cat]

11. how long did it take for him to realize that

and did you take him back?

[Left Is Write]

12. About ten years, and no, I didn't. I was (and still am) married to someone else.

[Amerigo Vespucci]

13. Yep.

Once.

[Haole Girl]

15. No. Can't say I've ever done that....

I've made just about every other mistake that could ever be made though. :hug:

[Dogtown]

16. Thought so

but eventually I realized it was juvenile fixation not love.

[Ariana Celeste]

17. kind of

we were both young and he was leaving to join the navy and whatnot, i didn't think there was enough love for me to handle the distance and 'wait' for him or whatever. i came up with a hundred excuses to leave. and i did.

we stayed friends and in contact and a few years down the road, we hooked back up, although it was long distance- me being in washington and him in virginia (where he stayed after leaving the navy)

long distance is very tough and we split up again for a short while. but now we have plans for him to move out here soon. i've been in love with him since i first met him, its been on and off for 7 years now. (i'm 23, he's 24)

i told him when i was 16 that i was gonna marry him someday.

[Tuesday Afternoon]

18. ~

:yoiks:

[hippywife]

19. Yes.

And I regretted it deeply for many years. But then I met my husband so I got over it. :hi: