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Fri May-23-08 09:40 AM
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I'm getting estimates from moving companies today and Tuesday. Lelapin is coming home over the weekend to help pack. I've accepted a job that will pay more than I've ever made in my life with the potential to earn double in a few years. (And they're giving me an advance since they only pay monthly...) My new landlord is great and will allow both cats. The 1920's Arts and Crafts style house is painted and updated beautifully and across the street from a park. My rent is less than here so I can start living below my means. The tenant below me (it's a duplex) likes to mow grass and has a monster snowblower and clears the snow in the winter. How perfect is that??
The downsides? I have to be there on the 2nd to start work and can't get into my new place until the 14th. Lelapin will stay here with the cats, so I will have to pay more rent and I haven't gotten a paycheck in nearly two months. I'm trying to get my landlord to take it out of my deposit. My parents have finally agreed to help pay a moving company as I'm running out of the money I've been holding on to so carefully. Even my ex-inlaws offered to pay my security deposit.
I couldn't have done this without all the encouragement I received here. Retro has been my angel, allowing me to stay at his house 3 different times as I interviewed for jobs and has been a voice of reason, sarcasm (when appropriate) and encouragement. (It *is* A Wonderful Life Clarence...) Dangerously Amused has offered a place to stay until my place is ready. The commute will be tough, but it's only for a couple weeks. Hisownpetard has tolerated multiple phone calls as I try to find my courage and strength. And so many others...
I can't tell you how exciting and terrifying (in a good way) all this is to me. I've wandered between purgatory and hell the last 10 long years and it's almost over. Thank god it's almost over.
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Fri May-23-08 09:42 AM
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| 1. Oh dude, I am so thrilled and excited and relieved for you!! |
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That's fantastic! The next month sounds a bit rough, but I know you'll get through it and then look at all the great stuff that's coming! Wa-hoo! :bounce:
PM me if there's anything I can do in the interim, ok? :hug:
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Fri May-23-08 09:42 AM
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| 2. HOW EXCITING!!!!!! that is so awesome. |
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my good wishes for you in the transition period, and all the best in new job etc.
I don't know as much of your details as others may but it sure sounds like the end of a long dark tunnel for you and I am very happy for you.
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Fri May-23-08 09:45 AM
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I am so SO happy this all worked out for you -- yay!
My brother and SIL live in Milwaukee; no doubt will visit them in August after their baby is born and will probably be back around Christmastime. We HAVE to get together.
:bounce: :applause: :woohoo: :hug:
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Fri May-23-08 09:48 AM
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That all sounds wonderful :bounce:
Congratulations :toast: on beginning the rest of your life!!!!
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Fri May-23-08 09:49 AM
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| 5. That is wonderful news. |
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:hug:
I'm only bummed that we just sold my Grandma's place in West Allis. You could have stayed there too. I hope it is everything you wish and dream for. You deserve it...all of it.
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Fri May-23-08 10:21 AM
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| 6. Can't tell you how happy I am for you and how convinced I am that this move |
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will be the start of all good things.
Sometimes we need to be forced out of the security of a bad situation, forced to take those first small steps that will bring us into a new light, with new possibilities all around.
You're already there. Look around, lizziegrace - isn't it beautiful?
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Fri May-23-08 10:24 AM
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It certainly is.
:hug:
you're the best. :*
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Fri May-23-08 10:27 AM
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And may you have a happy and fulfilled life from here on out!
:bounce: :bounce:
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Fri May-23-08 10:30 AM
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| 9. And in a win-win-win-win-win situation, you get the WI Duers :) |
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I'm so happy for you! I know it's been rough but now the pieces seem to be falling into place perfectly. :hug: Now we have to go about getting you a bunch of Packer paraphernalia before Retro gets his Bear claws on you!
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Fri May-23-08 10:34 AM
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Big 10. Buckeyes.
'nuff said. ;)
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Fri May-23-08 10:30 AM
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| 10. Stuff always works out |
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for my bestest friends.
It's a rule.
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Fri May-23-08 10:31 AM
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KIDDING :)
I'm so happy for you. Finally a plan is coming together and you can start living somewhat stress free! I'm just sorry you're moving further away and we won't have a chance to meet anytime soon. (I don't think).
You have my sincere best wishes as you embark on this new leg in life.
:hug: :loveya: :hug:
aA kesha
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Fri May-23-08 10:33 AM
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| 13. I've got to take the ferry sometime |
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just because I wanna....
I'll make sure my stops include you and MrsG and Igobluedem. :)
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Fri May-23-08 10:45 AM
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:)
and now I have it in writing hehe.
good luck lizziegrace, life's gonna get better, just you wait and see!
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Fri May-23-08 10:32 AM
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I cannot express how very thrilled I am for you!
To emerge into the light is a wonderful thing, and it takes courage!
I'm so glad you found yours, sweetie...
Biggo Congrats!
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Fri May-23-08 10:35 AM
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Fri May-23-08 10:37 AM
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a CPA firm that specializes in small business services. I'm living in the same community as Retro but about 2 miles away. I figure that's a safe distance. ;)
:hi:
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Fri May-23-08 10:37 AM
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I love when shit works out! :D :hug:
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Fri May-23-08 10:42 AM
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| 18. I'm very happy for you! |
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:woohoo: Good luck with the move, the new job, etc.
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Fri May-23-08 10:46 AM
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| 20. I really hope you love that job |
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and settle in for the long run. :hug:
:woohoo:
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Fri May-23-08 10:46 AM
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| 21. I am so happy for you!!!! |
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and proud of you. You worked hard at all this. You're a star!
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Fri May-23-08 10:46 AM
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| 22. Congratulations and best wishes on your move. |
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Fri May-23-08 10:51 AM
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| 23. congratulations on your excellent news! |
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Fri May-23-08 10:57 AM
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let me know if there's anything I can do to help! :hi:
wanna help me put together my resume now?
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Fri May-23-08 11:29 AM
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| 25. So happy to hear it!!! |
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Fri May-23-08 11:36 AM
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| 26. Fantastic! I'm very happy for you - what an |
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exciting time, to feel like you're FINALLY moving on and up. Yes, the next month might be a bit rough at times, but I think you'll get through it with flying colors! When I was studying for tough exams, or moving cross country, or whatever, I'd always say: "OK, this time next month, the exam will be done", or "this time next month, I'll be moved and settled in" - and for some reason, that helped. I guess it just helped me realize that the particular hurdle I was facing WOULD be over at some point.
Anyway - :hug: and congratulations!
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Fri May-23-08 11:52 AM
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Fri May-23-08 12:02 PM
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| 28. I am so happy for you! |
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I am a newbie, but I have been reading DU for a long time, so I completely understand what a wonderful thing this is for you! It couldn't have happened to a better person!
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Fri May-23-08 12:03 PM
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| 29. Sweetie, that is fantastic news. Here's to a great new chapter in your life! |
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Fri May-23-08 12:07 PM
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| 30. That is such good news! |
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Fri May-23-08 12:13 PM
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| 31. awesome news...good luck with the move |
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Fri May-23-08 12:25 PM
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| 32. Excellent news, lizzie... |
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...congrats! :hug::toast::bounce:
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Fri May-23-08 12:29 PM
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| 33. I am so happy and excited for you! |
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And I am looking forward to many girls' nights out!!
:bounce: :woohoo: :hug:
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Fri May-23-08 06:32 PM
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| 34. I am very excited for you and your future. |
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Fri May-23-08 07:27 PM
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| 35. No one is more deserving of having it better than you. |
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I'm so happy that everything worked out for you. :hug:
I'm going to miss your mieces to pieces. :cry:
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Fri May-23-08 07:28 PM
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Didn't I tell you it would be ok? ;-) :hug:
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Fri May-23-08 07:46 PM
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| 37. That is wonderful news, lizziegrace! |
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So happy to hear it's all working out at last. You deserve it!
Congratulations! :hug:
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Fri May-23-08 07:47 PM
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I'm very happy for you and Lelapin! :hug:
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Fri May-23-08 07:52 PM
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| 39. How wonderful, Lizziegrace!! |
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Congratulations! I'm so happy for you. This really reaffirms my new positive outlook that all things work out if you just keep going.
My very best wishes!
:hug:
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Fri May-23-08 08:53 PM
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| 40. I'm glad it inspires you |
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The need to survive can keep you going when all you want to do is go to bed and not wake up. Also, Lelapin needed me.
:hug:
Thank you. :)
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Fri May-23-08 08:57 PM
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The placement agency was able to get me an advance since the company pays once a month on the 7th of the month. I won't get a paycheck until July 7th. :wow:
The woman who worked so hard to get me this job is priceless. She never gave up.
:)
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Sat May-24-08 08:49 PM
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| 42. I don't want to relocate but does this person handle positions in the Dallas/Fort Worth area |
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since Crispini and I both just became unemployed. She sounds totally like the world champion
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Sat May-24-08 10:15 PM
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| 55. thank you very much. I will do just that, and share with Crispini |
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now want to hear the stoopid thing I did? I went to reply to your PM to thank you and some how hit the delete key instead, which is really dumb since I have about 50 old PM's that have been there since way to long to admit.
I have to dust up my resume and quite goofing off and pretending I don't really need a job just yet.
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Sat May-24-08 08:56 PM
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Sat May-24-08 08:59 PM
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| 44. doncha love it when a plan comes together? |
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good on you for taking chances with your life
you only live once, never have to say "wish I had...."
:pals:
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Sat May-24-08 09:24 PM
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| 45. Milwaukee DUers are all alike. |
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They rock!
Best wishes to you in your new adventure in Milwaukee. It does sound like a wonderful step forward for you.
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Sat May-24-08 09:28 PM
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Even though it didn't make me any less stressed for you. Couldn't happen to a NICER person, of course.
I'm SO happy for you. :hug: :D
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Sat May-24-08 09:28 PM
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| 47. I am happy to hear of your good news.... |
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Best of luck in Milwaukee (from me in Chicago).
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Sat May-24-08 09:43 PM
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and Lelapin will end up in Chicago in another year.
I can't wait to meet you.
:hug:
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Sat May-24-08 09:55 PM
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| 51. I know that we will eventually. |
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:hug:
I look forward to it.
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Sat May-24-08 09:57 PM
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| 52. What an awesome feeling that must be |
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I am so happy that things are working out for you.
I wish you many more great and happy events in your future.
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Sat May-24-08 09:58 PM
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I'm so happy for you, sweetie!!!
:hug: :loveya: :hug:
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Sat May-24-08 10:02 PM
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I miss you. I miss you so much...
:hug:
:loveya:
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Sat May-24-08 11:42 PM
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| 56. I've got your number... |
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I'm going to call you -- it's just that the insanity's been notched up lately and the mood swings have been pretty drastic.
BUT...things are looking up. They really are. For both of us.
YAY!!!!
:D
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