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Mon Jul-14-08 07:56 PM
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| On the subject of Lounge drama: |
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I don't know what the most recent drama is about, nor do I want to know. But let me share some excerpts from something a very wise DUer wrote to me:
...the seriousness with which Duers take the lounge has not changed since its inception. ... Live and learn I guess. Online is NOT real life, and it comes out badly whenever they mix, with rare exception. I've met up with DUers from here before and we enjoy each others company. ...If it were me, I'd just keep on keeping on... stop the PMing with EVERYONE entirely, and try enjoying the lounge as a two dimensional thing extant of the real world. ...try to take a few steps back and look at this: it's basically your keyboard, a monitor, and letters on a screen. Don't read any more into it, enjoy it like you would a good book.
This is probably the best advice I've ever gotten from someone on DU. And on that note, I've turned my off my PM function again.
:hi:
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Mon Jul-14-08 07:59 PM
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Mon Jul-14-08 08:07 PM
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Mon Jul-14-08 08:02 PM
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| 2. Does this mean our date at Red Lobster is off now? |
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Mon Jul-14-08 08:07 PM
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Mon Jul-14-08 08:08 PM
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right after I spell checked my PM to you!
What is teh world coming to? :P
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Mon Jul-14-08 08:11 PM
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Guess we'll just have to be "two dimensional"! :P
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Mon Jul-14-08 08:10 PM
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| 6. Was there some drama? Did I miss it? |
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Mon Jul-14-08 08:12 PM
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You wouldn't have enjoyed it..It was pretty nasty..enough that I really thought madinmaryland had left...:-(
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Mon Jul-14-08 08:12 PM
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seems a lot of people are leaving. But, as I said, I don't wanna know.
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Mon Jul-14-08 08:12 PM
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| 9. On the subject of lounge drama: |
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Everyone needs to grow the fuck up.
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Mon Jul-14-08 08:13 PM
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Mon Jul-14-08 08:25 PM
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| 15. It's amazing to me how so many allegedly full grown adults can act the way they do sometimes. |
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Mon Jul-14-08 10:37 PM
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People can be so unpredictable.
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Mon Jul-14-08 08:14 PM
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| 12. Says the 13 year-old. |
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Mon Jul-14-08 08:23 PM
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Mon Jul-14-08 08:24 PM
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Mon Jul-14-08 10:41 PM
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Mon Jul-14-08 11:41 PM
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Enough with the Hitler references, please. I miss MHC. :-(
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Mon Jul-14-08 11:03 PM
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I quess I missed the most recent drama.
Hope everything is OK with you.:pals:
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Mon Jul-14-08 11:42 PM
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| 21. I missed it too... thank God! |
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I'm doing well. Hope you are too! Nice to see 'ya around!
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Mon Jul-14-08 11:09 PM
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| 19. Once again drama goes right past me and I miss it |
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Mon Jul-14-08 11:43 PM
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| 22. Missed most of it too... |
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and I'm glad about it! :hi:
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Mon Jul-14-08 11:45 PM
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I miss all the good stuff...
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Mon Jul-14-08 11:46 PM
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..judging by the cryptic posts and locked threads. And.. well.. the usual post-drama $hit.
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Mon Jul-14-08 11:47 PM
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| 25. I never noticed or cared |
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I think I have the Least Used PM box on DU...
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Mon Jul-14-08 11:48 PM
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| 26. You'll keep your sanity longer that way! |
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Mon Jul-14-08 11:58 PM
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with you there.
I hope you are ok.
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Tue Jul-15-08 12:00 AM
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I'm doing well, thanks. I'm just a little tired and grumpy at the moment... it is past my bedtime! Good night! :hi:
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