Yavin4
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Mon May-04-09 08:09 PM
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| How Many People Is Too Many People To Have Sexual Intercourse With? |
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I'm not talking about at one time. I'm talking about over a lifetime.
How many is too many? What number would make you feel uncomfortable? 20? 25? 50? 100? 1000? 10,000?
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Mon May-04-09 08:10 PM
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Yavin4
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Mon May-04-09 08:13 PM
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| 5. So, You Would Be Okay Being With Someone |
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Who had sex with over 10,000 people?
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Mon May-04-09 08:15 PM
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| 9. Yeah. Why would I care? |
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Seriously. As long as they aren't carrying any gifts that keep on giving, it really doesn't effect me.
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Tue May-05-09 07:36 AM
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| 40. i would be, if this person was otherwise healthy emotionally ... |
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i would not care of i dated someone who used to be a sexworker
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Mon May-04-09 08:11 PM
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5 is too many,...
Over a lifetime? Who cares... :rofl:
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Mon May-04-09 08:38 PM
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5 chicks. Or 4 chicks and just me.
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Mon May-04-09 08:44 PM
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| 18. yeah, that was implied, but I was considering my own experiences in this matter... |
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5 is almost too many, any more and it becomes Chaotic...
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Mon May-04-09 08:45 PM
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| 19. I find if you paint number on an arm, you know like with triathletes |
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it's easier to manage.
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I'm killing myself here.
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Mon May-04-09 08:50 PM
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Mon May-04-09 08:12 PM
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| 3. anything over the number of people I have had sex with... |
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Tue May-05-09 03:47 AM
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Mon May-04-09 08:12 PM
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| 4. You just got done watching "How I Met Your Mother", haven't you. |
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:rofl: :hi:
Funny episode.
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Mon May-04-09 08:14 PM
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| 6. I Didn't Want To Give It Away |
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I thought that it was funny, but it did make me think.
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Mon May-04-09 08:14 PM
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| 7. This has the makings of an epic thread. |
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:popcorn:
Must nurture it...
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Mon May-04-09 08:31 PM
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| 13. To nurture something is to tend to something. |
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Why don't you tend to this thread by sharing some stories. Hmmmm????
And hand over the popcorn. :7
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Mon May-04-09 08:36 PM
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| 15. What kind of stories? |
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Mon May-04-09 08:15 PM
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Something that I will never worry overmuch about I think..:(
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Mon May-04-09 08:15 PM
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| 10. So long as there's proper precaution and disease-testing being done |
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it really doesn't bother me one way or another. Other peoples' adult, consenting sex lives are none of my beeswax.
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Mon May-04-09 08:28 PM
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| 11. hmm, if I were single again, maybe it wouldn't matter -experience, perhaps? |
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When I was a student or in my early 20s - a large number of previous partners probably would have scared me off had i known.
In retrospect, it was the 70s and people didn't think about that kind of thing as much as they do now. I'm not sure I ever asked that question back then, it was a less "aware" time, I suppose.
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Mon May-04-09 08:29 PM
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| 12. No one wants sloppy two thousandths. |
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Mon May-04-09 08:34 PM
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| 14. A billion. That would totally turn me off. |
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Mon May-04-09 08:36 PM
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Where X=my current score, er, count.:rofl:
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Mon May-04-09 08:45 PM
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| 20. Is there really such thing as too much? |
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Mon May-04-09 08:51 PM
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| 22. Well, the equipment is designed for one connection at a time... n/t |
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Mon May-04-09 08:53 PM
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It's amazing what some do in those, er, porn movies. :evilgrin: :hide:
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Mon May-04-09 08:56 PM
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| 25. You don't have to follow the owner's manual |
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after all, it's your equipment...
:evilgrin:
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Mon May-04-09 08:56 PM
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| 24. Lemme get back to you on that. |
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Mon May-04-09 08:57 PM
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| 26. None of those makes me uncomfortable. |
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But FYI: 10,000 is one-a-day for like 27 years.
I guess I wouldn't blink at 50.
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Mon May-04-09 09:33 PM
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| 27. Never ask your SO how many they've been with |
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Edited on Mon May-04-09 09:33 PM by NightWatcher
there is no right answer to that one.
on edit: and NEVER answer that question either
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Mon May-04-09 09:48 PM
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| 28. ....or how many did you actually care about ? |
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Mon May-04-09 09:58 PM
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| 29. Two words for you: "Annabel Chong" |
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Mon May-04-09 10:01 PM
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I don't even count them anymore. I once pissed off a gf because I told her I would not tell her who or how many people I'd slept with and I didn't want to know her sexual history. It was apparently very important to her.
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Tue May-05-09 02:58 AM
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| 32. Nice post, Wilt Chamberlain. |
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Tue May-05-09 03:35 AM
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| 33. nice assumption, Miles |
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anyone with a brain knows it's Gene Simmons :7
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Tue May-05-09 09:41 AM
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| 44. Or 'Magic' Johnson....nt |
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Tue May-05-09 06:53 AM
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| 35. ...egh. I would like to post, "If you love your SO it doesn't matter, especially because |
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Edited on Tue May-05-09 06:53 AM by BlueIris
it should be par for the course to mutually submit to complete STD/other communicable disease screening before entering into an adult relationship and the number shouldn't matter as long as it hasn't had a significant health impact."
That being posted, as a straight, nearly 30 year old female, I raise an eyebrow at anyone who has had more sexual partners than they've had birthdays. (Which is most people.) Doesn't mean I couldn't love someone who had a high number of partners, but it would make me want to ask a few (polite) questions about mental health, attitude about relationships, commitment, etc., before allowing myself to get seriously involved.
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Tue May-05-09 06:56 AM
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| 36. OVER NINE THOUSAAANNND! |
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(I'm sorry, I can't resist making references to a dumb internet meme...)
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Tue May-05-09 07:11 AM
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| 37. Sometimes one is one too many. |
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Tue May-05-09 07:12 AM
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| 38. Does a brazillion count? |
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Tue May-05-09 07:28 AM
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| 39. however many people can have without harming themselves |
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there is no one number that fits everyone
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Tue May-05-09 08:10 AM
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| 41. Right now, 2 because my wife |
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would fucking kill me.
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Tue May-05-09 08:37 AM
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In reality, a number is just that... a number. I don't want to know how many she's had and I won't say how many I've had. In both our cases it's above average.
We'll discuss situations, funny ones, painful ones, hurtful ones, but never total ones.
Sometimes, for me, ANY is too many because, as we're in our mid-50's it wasn't me. It took us far too long and too much pain to find each other.
And of course I do NOT say that. And our roads got us to where we are now.
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Tue May-05-09 09:02 AM
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When high school graduating class, college alumni, the standing army, the 7th Fleet, the Teamsters Union, most of Face Book and the membership of NATO all remember the close encounter fondly, I'd say that's going overboard.
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