(Army Times) Backtalk: Taking the first step

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Taking the first step
By Sgt. Maj. Brent Jurgersen

In my position as sergeant major of the Army Wounded Warrior Program, I see every day extraordinary men and women who have sacrificed so much and continue to proudly represent their country.

I had the opportunity a few months ago to tour a Combat Trauma Facility designed for treating veterans with post-traumatic stress disorder. I share this experience in hopes that others may read this and seek help for themselves or a loved one.

As the psychologist was showing us around the facility, we came across several veterans watching TV in a common area. Their eyes lit up as they saw my uniform and we talked for quite a while. One of them said, “after 40 years, she broke me down like a ...” I cannot remember the exact word he used, but I think the point is clear. He was referring to the psychologist who uses Exposure Therapy and Cognitive Processing Therapy to treat her patients with PTSD.

This veteran was not a soldier, but a retired Marine. As I shook his hand, I saw “the look” I see in so many of our young veterans’ eyes, an indescribable stare associated with PTSD. But this time, I caught a glimpse of something else. I saw a sign of hope, a sign of peace and a tear forming and rolling down his cheek.

I left that day not being able to get this Marine out of my head. I kicked myself for not giving this veteran a hug, a hug of compassion, an embrace of respect. I wonder what drove this veteran to a point where after 40 years, he finally sought help.


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