I wanted to offer something so I found this link. But after I post this I have to get off of the computer and so I will not be checking to see if you respond.
If you don't hear from anyone who can help you I would like to also offer the suggestion that you try and reach out to others at discussion boards/forums that focus more on gender issues because maybe they can point you in a better direction for help than I or anyone else here can.
I don't know if this would be helpful but I found this hotline number.
GAY & LESBIAN NATIONAL HOTLINE 1-888-THE-GLNH (1-888-843-4564)
GLBT NATIONAL YOUTH TALKLINE 1-800-246-PRIDE (1-800-246-7743)
The GLBT National Help Center is a non- profit, tax-exempt organization dedicated to meeting the needs of the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender (GLBT) community and those questioning their sexual orientation or
gender identity. We are an outgrowth of the Gay & Lesbian National Hotline, which began operating in 1996 and is now a primary program of the GLBT National Help Center.
Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Transgender (GLBT) Youth Support Line 800-850-8078
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 1-800-273-TALK
http://www.sagatucson.org/saga/index.php?option=com_content&task=category&id=77&Itemid=87I hope you find someone who can help you.